Im an Optomistic, Easy going, Lovable chick. I am Engaged! To my soul mate, we'll probably tie the knot sometime in the summer of 2009. I'm told that I'm very mature for my age, I am who I am. I live in Virginia, with my lover, I think it was the smartest decision we've made. I love and miss my family, but I cherish the time that I spend with themLife is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness and compassion. It's about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise.