Fig Vicious

Hi, i used to be the 'nice-guy' but apparently that doesn't get you far in all facets of life from what i've learnt, so from here on in im gonna become a "alpha-male" as it is prescribed and act as a typical male should. I've been a nice guy for too long and have only just woken up to reality that although people should like the nice guy (it makes logical sense doesnt it) they don't so thats out the door. From here on in im gonna be honest, say whats on my mind, and not shy away from situations, and if u dont like it i really dont care. I couldn't even care less if your reading this right now and think this blokes a knob for saying what he thinks online good for you! Im more than happy to express what i think, and it shows, i had the balls to post something quite personal on here didnt i? I Also dont have time for fake friends, my family means everything to me as do my real friends (they know who they are) and thats all that matters. "Friends" who make fun of you to be funny or don't make the effort to keep contact because they think they're better than u are wankas and god knows i know plenty of them and i care not to know them anymore, i wont tolerate negativity nor ignorance. Furthermore I have been a bit of a bore in the past which i aim to change and just let things be and chill out..having said all that i am a uni student so i do tend to criticise everything both intentionally and un-intentionally, just givin you the heads up! i Also work as a barman at the Findon Hotel, generally the work is easy and should be fun but ive been there for 4 yrs and am a little bored and need a change...so if u ask for a drink and i look very un-interested apologies for that but you can understand my reasons. I also have an obsession for music and don't know what would be of me if i didnt have it. I play bass guitar and I opt for heavy/grunge/live music but i like dance as well...used to like hip hop and rnb but that stuffs not really music anymore its a bit fabricated and the "artists" are generally sell outs. I am also a fan of gym and keeping fit and aim to get there regularly. I have also noticed i have not been very focused on my career as i should be, and getting older now i realise i have a responsibility to myself to get real and grow up and take uni seriously as it is giving me the qualifications and knowledge i need to achieve my goals. Therefore I aim to be more proactive and seek to achieve these aspirations, im also interested in like minded people who share the same ambition in relation to their career particularly in the field of Marketing/HR and Management, i am willing to learn in anyway i can to improve my understanding and knowledge. If i haven't scared you or pissed you off yet then i guess we have something in common..so in that case drop us a line and ill hear from you soon. Cheers.