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Girevik

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

"We are all seeking understanding and acceptance, but can have neither without offering them to others." -Me
"We cling to our religions out of fear. Fear of being alone, fear of blinking out of existence, that there is no afterlife. Releasing that fear is liberating, but dangerous. You may learn to appreciate life more when you realize you only have one to live, learn, and prepare for the beyond." -Me
"You don't buy an Aston Martin for the price of a Kia. Ever. You get what you pay for, spiritually, emotionally and physically. If you want an Aston Martin, stop thinking like a Kia buyer." -Me
"An infinite number of candles can be lit from the flame of one individual candle, and yet the life of the original candle is not diminished. Happiness can never be diminished by sharing it with others." -Buddha
I'm your local mad scientist: A genius who is consumed with fear of death, and a yearning for the afterlife. Life is overtaking me with such speed, and yet can't seem to be moving any slower. I am the lonesome story teller, filled with tales of humor, woe, and broken dreams, only looking for an ear and a heart.
I decided being extremely straightforward was the best way to fill out this section.
I have a big, over-powering personality, and yet can be timid and soft-spoken. I am fascinated by life and the love that we feel for one another; where it comes from, why we feel as we do, and why we love some and not others. My thoughts run deeper than the farthest reaches of space, as I ponder this life. I look forward to the afterlife, and yet intend to enjoy my time spent here in hopes I can change the way things are for the better. I'm a very lonely person, but I bring this upon myself; often I prefer to spend time alone. I am very paranoid, because I don't trust the majority of the human race. My life is ever-changing, and I am always trying to reinvent a better version of myself. We are put here to learn, to understand, to prepare for the beyond, and to leave a positive legacy so that the world may be better in our passing. "The part that sucks about being a Martyr is that you have to die."
So many people are lost, and many of them have no clue. Many preach understanding, many hear it, but few actually listen. We must all learn not to judge (within reason), for it is not our place. A scruffy man hurrying to you in the darkness, please run. A scruffy man says hello, or merely casts a glance your way, you have no right to condemn him. We all respond the same when put into the same situation, though circumstances may be different, and this is unfair. Humans have much need to evolve their minds, as our physical forms will take eons to change. Change must happen now for our minds and hearts, we must all make an effort to love, or this world and all that is truly precious to you, will crumble into chaos and darkness. The world is already cracked and starting to break, so we must stop the oblivion; we are the only ones who can.
And here comes the old MySpace cliche.. if you want to know more, just ask.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

People with class, intelligence, and a generally positive attitude towards life.
As far as a relationship goes, I have gone through some of the most ridiculous situations one could ever imagine. I'm sick of drama, especially unnecessary drama. I want a woman who shares my passion for physical fitness and healthy living; I take care of myself, I expect the same. A woman who would consider moving around the world; I'd like to live somewhere in Europe, preferably France, someday. I'd also like to have a residence in Hawaii and my home, Cincinnati. She must be business-minded, as I am working on opening/running my own businesses. I can't be with someone who has conflicting interests with mine, and I need someone who at least accepts and understands my interests. It would be nice to find someone who understands the balance of a relationship. And finally: Honesty and Respect. If anyone lies to me or disrespects me, I cut them off immediately under certain circumstances. No time for people like that. Period.

One of my pet peeves is bad English; I immediately lose respect for anyone who's supposedly educated that doesn't know the correct "their/there/they're" to use, and similar errors.
Anybody who loathes the world we live in, the corrupt "people" that run it, and enjoys personal spiritual enlightenment.
Who I'd NOT Like to Meet:
Anyone that believes they can control me, as I refuse to be controlled by anyone for any reason.
Anyone who has been brainwashed by fear, because that is the only way they know how to lead. Look into yourself. If this is you, tell me why you follow your fear-instilling leader, instead of someone who offers hope.
Anyone who condemns me for not going to college. College was the answer 30 years ago when no one was able to go. The children of that generation were ALL told to go, because their parents just didn't know any better. If you're getting the same piece of paper that thousands of others are getting today, what sets you apart? And college can be the answer if you want to be an employee for the rest of your life. There ARE other options, namely owning a business. And you've been scared away from that, too. "The rich get richer, the poor get poorer," for a logical, FAIR reason. Think rich, become rich.

My Blog

My Current Path

My life has dramatically changed in the past two years. In less than three weeks, it will have officially been two years since I've used any drugs or alcohol. The more and more physically active I get...
Posted by on Mon, 05 Apr 2010 19:00:00 GMT

Humming a Tune

It's been a little too long since I've written anything, but for good reason. My life has been so tumultuous for so long, I didn't want to come off as an emotional wreck when I'm usually so level-head...
Posted by on Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:30:00 GMT

Solitaire

Just a short insight that's been burning in my mind for a bit now.Life is similar to the game Solitaire, or any game that you can play, but let's use card games for this example.When playing a card ga...
Posted by on Fri, 28 Aug 2009 10:30:00 GMT

The Shepherd

Every night, I walk through a damp, cold cave bereft of light. Nestled deep within the stone are many ragged wolves. Their hellish red eyes set upon you, cold, hateful, tortured, as they know they...
Posted by on Tue, 21 Jul 2009 08:00:00 GMT

Thanks

Thank you to everyone out there who keeps up with my life progress. My page just hit 10,000 views, and my blog just hit 1000 views. This means a lot to me, and I hope I can continue sharing with every...
Posted by on Tue, 23 Jun 2009 07:19:00 GMT

Year Long Walk

Its been over one year since I had my first real life changing experience. I have not imbibed a drop of alcohol (aside from what little is in my occasional shot of Nyquil), nor have I burned any green...
Posted by on Fri, 29 May 2009 23:30:00 GMT

Behind the Mirror

So, I'm sitting here playing with Master Chief (my cat) and turned on "Gravity of Love" by Enigma. Such a truly epic song. One of those songs, when you hear it, you can say to yourself, "I wouldn't mi...
Posted by on Mon, 23 Feb 2009 10:30:00 GMT

A True Haunted House

I wrote all this down within five minutes of waking from this nightmare. Nothing was written with tact or eloquence, as I needed to get it all down before I forgot about any of it. I will come back la...
Posted by on Tue, 17 Feb 2009 14:46:00 GMT

Expectations versus Reality

As I've been traversing my path, I now have a greater understanding of why I am increasingly difficult to get along with. Yes, I just admitted that. I now must learn to lower my expectations of the ge...
Posted by on Mon, 16 Feb 2009 08:30:00 GMT

The Smith

Tonight, I cleared some more demons from my closet, which brought me a lot closer to two friends. One, because he saw the true man inside me. The other, because he understood my actions.People need to...
Posted by on Thu, 22 Jan 2009 02:30:00 GMT