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About Me

DO FOR SELF. WORK HARD, PLAY HARD.
LOVE LESS, LIVE MORE, LAUGH LOUDER.I am fully content with the way my life has been for the past few years and have definitely learned and realized a lot about myself and the people that surrounds me. Accepted the fact that I have been through a lot and still came out of it with a full head of knowledge on my shoulders. The knowledge that can make me a better person and the knowledge to not let history repeat it's self. I will now take the lessons that my past have taught me, the good and the bad, and carry it with me through out life. God knows there will be a million more to learn. But I will keep on striving to be a better ME, for my own self. No one will ever know my thoughts, my goals, my hopes and wishes or my past unless they were me. So the chapter continues... Now its time to focus on me, my wants and my needs. I'm happy with where my head is at. I ♥ life. Today officially marks the day I can say I'M CONTENT...really content. After all the trials and tribulations of life...i'm completely satisfied with where my heart and mind is at. I'm happy. And i owe a lot to my friends for reminding me how much stronger i can be without distractions. And encouraging me to move forward. I thank you.

My Interests

You are motivated by peace. You seek independence and require kindness. You resist confrontation at all costs. To you, feeling good is more important than being good. You are typically quiet by nature, process things very deeply and objectively with great clarity. Of all the different personalities you are the best listener. You respect people who are direct but recoil from perceived hostility or verbal battle.
You need your "alone time" and refuse to be controlled by others. You want to do things your own way and in your own time. You ask little of others and resent others demanding much of them. You are much stronger than people think, but are not often seen for your strength because you don't easily reveal your feelings. You are even-tempered, diplomatic, and the voice of reason; but can also be indecisive, unexpressive, and silently stubborn. When others interact with you, you respond to them best if they are kind, accepting and supporting of your individuality, and if they look for non-verbal clues to understand your feelings.

I'd like to meet:

WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET:
Anyone who can keep a smile on my face and make my eyes LIGHT UP.I love talking to people that arent from here... i get a different vibe and feedback from them... its refreshing and i'm always down for anyone who has more vocabs than the repeated broke down pick up lines that im used to. But I get bored easily so you need to entertain me. Lol. Oh ya...And since I use myspace to actually connect with peopleâ€¦ if youâ€™re the type to just add people for the sake of popularity, and we never talkâ€¦.youâ€™ll probably get booted soon cuz youâ€™ll just be wasting MY-space hahaha. I'm growing// Into a variety of things and people// R&B Junkie// I ♥ giggling// Food, Drinks & Wal-mart are my best friends// Movie Fanatic// I ♥ to cook// ♥ going to the beach// Wknd getaways// Camping// Fishing// Bowling// Concerts// Spoken Words// Plays..pretty much anything live// Sick of clubs//Need to get back to Church// The social butterfly// The flirt// The loner// The mom// The observer, it just depends.

Music:

Heroes:

God. Mom. MLK. Oprah. Myself. My core. Adamn Sandler. Anyone who has survived a life changing struggle without taking the easy road.

My Blog

2007 was a fulfilling year! I loved it!

I have to say 2007 was the best year for me, I learned my favorite lessons in that year, recognized who my real friends are, got my brain right and disregarded the bullshit, set my self some goals and...
Posted by Chonphansa on Tue, 25 Dec 2007 01:02:00 PST

Daughters

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Posted by Chonphansa on Sun, 16 Dec 2007 09:12:00 PST

im the intuitor

she is the one with the big ideas that you have a hard time understanding. she presents information as though youre supposed to know exactly what she is talking about. she doesnt give any context - no...
Posted by Chonphansa on Tue, 13 Nov 2007 09:40:00 PST

best life lessons

best life lessons are from those closest to you. now i can say im very grateful for having to go through what i did, the way it did, and when it did. it happened at a time in my life when i was ready ...
Posted by Chonphansa on Mon, 12 Nov 2007 08:07:00 PST

Amen!

Woke up this morning, jumped out of bed hit my head on a lampshade and the clock said that I'm running late so I'm rushing trying to get on my way. Get to my car and the gauge is on E, get gas and i p...
Posted by Chonphansa on Wed, 30 May 2007 05:38:00 PST

One....that's bullshit....two....fuck you!

I'm so fucking pissed off! As a matter of fact I'm still shaking. If you saw the Oprah show today about the husband who abuses his wife emotionally, physically and psychologically while making their 1...
Posted by Chonphansa on Wed, 09 May 2007 05:18:00 PST

A man wrapped up in himself makes a very small package.

"Every time you speak your mind is on a parade. The hardest secret for a man to keep is his opinion of himself. A man wrapped up in himself makes a very small package. He that thinks by the inch and t...
Posted by Chonphansa on Sat, 21 Apr 2007 01:01:00 PST

Year of the Dog

Occupying the 11th position in the Chinese Zodiac, the Dog symbolizes character traits such as loyalty, compatibility and kindness. Dogs frequently offer kind words and useful advice, always listening...
Posted by Chonphansa on Thu, 05 Apr 2007 06:49:00 PST

~~MEMORIES~~

Don't write me. Leave a comment on this blog. If you are reading this, leave one memory of you and me together as a comment. It doesn't matter if I know you a little or a lot, anything you remember. N...
Posted by Chonphansa on Thu, 05 Jan 2006 10:56:00 PST