Someone fun and responsible. I need a balanced mix of play and good work ethic. The man I fall for will show me he cares about me without smothering me. He has to be playful, (and accept my silly side), kind, open, (even when it's scary), and be respectful of others. A love of the outdoors is a must, as well as the desire to spend time with me doing things we both enjoy. He must be a participater, not a stick in the mud. Sure, life can be intimidating and sometimes downright uncomfortable, but facing your fears and involving yourself is what makes life fun and interesting.