About Me
Ok so i signed up for a true.com acct... With very low expectations... However I did take this insanely long "relationship" psychological survey... It seriously took over an hour or so... But it was actually kind of fun.. Ne-wayz here r teh rezultz...
My Personality
Personal Characteristics - Summary
Your views and attitudes can be liberal or conservative, depending on the topic at hand
You set some goals, but appear to be lacking ambition in certain areas
You are very intellectual
You are moderately conscientious
You have integrity
You sometimes seek out adventure
You have a somewhat adaptable personality
Occasionally you behave in a dominant manner
Money Attitudes - Summary
Money plays an insignificant role in your life
Social Life - Summary
Being by yourself is as appealing to you as spending time with others
Having a social network is not important to you
Stress Reaction - Summary
It appears that your understanding of your own emotions and those of others is average
In general, your reaction to stress is somewhat adaptive
You are rather strong psychologically
Communication Style - Summary
You are somewhat comfortable being vulnerable with your romantic partner
You need some emotional intimacy
You are somewhat open to accepting your partner's opinions, goals and input in the relationship
You communicate somewhat effectively with other people
You have a high need for intellectual, thought-provoking conversations with your partner
Conflict Resolution - Summary
You have relatively strong conflict resolution skills
You are somewhat prone to conflict
Relationship Issues - Summary
You appear to be ready to commit to a serious, long-term relationship
You are looking for a long-term relationship
Generally, you believe romance should be reserved for special occasions
You are very attentive towards your romantic partner
You believe in being somewhat chivalrous
You have traditional gender role beliefs
Attachment Style - Summary
Your level of reliance on your partner is occasionally unhealthy
Sex Life - Summary
You appear to be more sexually experienced than most people
When it comes to sex and sexuality you are relatively liberal in your attitudes and behaviors
When committed to someone, you are a faithful and loyal partner
Parenting Style - Summary
You believe in providing children with a moderate level of affection
You believe in providing children with a moderate level of boundaries
Attitudes and World View
When it comes to certain aspects of world issues you tend to have a conservative way of looking at things and fairly traditional attitudes. There are some issues, however, toward which you tend to have a more progressive attitude and a more modern approach. Every coin has two sides, and you are able to appreciate every different points of view.
Ambition
While ambition is not your middle name, you do have certain aspirations. You appear to set a few goals, and you seem to be somewhat motivated, but not consistently. Setting long-term, challenging but realistic goals in terms of what you want to accomplish is an important factor in achieving success and reaching your full potential. Your partner might be put off if you do not make enough of an effort in life, despite all of your good traits.
Intellectualism
You are highly driven with a need for knowledge and learning. Your interests and hobbies likely reflect this need.
Assertiveness
Your results showed that you are very assertive; you believe that your opinion has merit, and that you deserve to be heard. You seem to be aware that you need to take into account what others feel as well. Make sure that to maintain this awareness.
Conscientiousness
You are fairly conscientiousness. While your life is reasonably structured, you don’t beat yourself up over failures and errors. Still, you have stress and frustration in your life. People get disappointed when their expectations are not met, so be honest with them – and with yourself – about what you can deliver, when. This will keep your honor intact. Getting to know how you function and what you are willing to do to get things done properly and on time will make a big difference, not only in your own life, but also in your relationships.
You are a highly dependable person. While they might not always say it, people truly appreciate that they can rely on you to get things done. Doing what you say you will and being there for others when they need you are very important in relationships, and in the long run dependability is a key relationship skill.
You seem to be someone who is quite orderly without being nitpicky. When people walk into your home, they feel comfortable. They are not threatened by messes that are lying around and they are also not afraid to mess things up. This makes for an inviting place. You probably won't encounter any relationship problems related to your level of orderliness, as long as you are willing to be somewhat flexible if you are paired with someone at either extreme in this area.
You are generally organized and prefer to plan things out ahead of time, and then stick to the plan. This is fine, but if your partner prefers to simply jump without planning too much in advance, there might be friction. Perhaps every once in a while you could take a vacation from planning for a change and simply go with the flow.
The idea of living your life in away that sticks to a particular routine definitely does not appeal to you. While acting on any whim is a great way to keep your creative juices flowing, keep in mind that routines can be real time-savers and can help you stay organized.
You appear to have acceptable self-discipline. Sometimes you are able to resist temptation, but at other times your willpower gives out and you give in. This is a pretty healthy tendency, as long as you are able to stay focused on what's important and really counts. Make sure that your occasional tendency to avoid responsibility doesn't interfere with your overall goals.
Integrity
Your high degree of integrity in so many different life areas is commendable. People know that they can always trust and rely on you. This is probably because you trust yourself and your own judgment fully. As someone who goes with their gut when it comes to right and wrong, your chances of having a successful romantic relationship are excellent. Others probably know they can depend on you – that you are a person standing on high moral ground.
You are a commendably honest person overall, but remember that there are certain situations where being completely truthful may do more harm than good. Practice presenting the facts in a gentle way when you find yourself in a position where delivering the whole truth, and nothing but, could be painful for the person on the receiving end – and ultimately for you too!
You are someone who can be counted on to live up to your commitments. Doing what you say you will and being there for others when they need you are very important in relationships. In the long run, dependability is a key relationship skill. Plus, it indicates that you have integrity.
You appear to be a very faithful romantic partner. You are rarely tempted to cheat. This is an admirable quality, and is an indication of your overall integrity as a person.
Adventurousness
You tend to play it safe, but occasionally open your mind to new adventures. You feel that sometimes, life moves a bit too quickly for you. Consider being more open to adventure and exploring your world. You could be shocked by the freedom you will feel taking off on a new journey, whether it is to a new mall or to a new country. The willingness to expand your mind to fresh opportunities could completely alter your outlook. You will also be sure to meet a lot of new people along the way – including potential mates!
Your inflexibility may sometimes hold you back from being amenable to new adventures. Unlocking the potential for adventure in your life may be as simple as letting go of your inflexibility.
Although you don’t strive for a life filled with new experiences and sensations, you are not averse to it either. You seem to value both the old and routine and the fresh and new. This is a very balanced approach.
Although you are sometimes energetic and lively, you might occasionally find yourself running out of steam. This could be due to the fact that only certain situations really excite you and give you a boost, or it could be because you prefer to pace yourself so that you don’t run out of energy by the end of the day. Either way, people are probably comfortable being around you no matter what their own level of energy happens to be.
It appears that you are relatively spontaneous. At times you like to stick to the expected, while other times you prefer to be more impulsive. This likely means that you could be happily paired with either someone who needs a lot of spontaneity or someone who needs to be encouraged to live a little.
Your ability to let things go someone else’s way is the key to establishing a give-and-take relationship. Since you don’t need a lot of control, you are willing to be flexible when other people express an interest in doing something a certain way.
Rigidity
While you do not always welcome adjustment to a new routine and allowing others to take control, at times the thought appeals to you. Being relatively open to change, you often experience new opportunities and fresh perspectives. Becoming even more at ease with changing your routine will make your relationships easier by eliminating many unnecessary arguments.
You take a relatively laid-back approach to life, unconcerned with details and perfection in tasks or projects you take on. As a result, the standards you hold others to are not unreasonably high. This is good because potential romantic partners will feel that you are accepting of them and the way they do things, rather than critical. Perhaps, however, you are not expecting enough from your romantic partners. There's nothing wrong with having reasonable expectations of others.
On occasion, you have difficulty accepting or adjusting to changed plans, new ideas or strange situations; at other times you are better able to cope. Flexibility allows for compromise in relationships, with both parties having their needs met as much as possible. Your ability to resolve conflict may be hindered at times by your occasional inflexibility.
While you appear to be flexible enough to try new things every once in a while, you also enjoy the comfort of routine and familiarity. Opening your mind further to new experiences will likely enrich your life as a whole.
You’re flexible when it comes to how you structure your time on a day-to-day basis. This means that you are not stuck on any particular routine.
Dominance
You are comfortable letting people go about their business as they see fit in some areas of life; however, you tend be less relaxed in certain areas. Your occasional tendency to try to exert power over others can be a problem, especially in the case of a two-way power struggle in which one person becomes afraid to express his/her disagreement.
Your results show that you are very assertive. This means that you are skilled at letting others know what you need and want. This is a great attribute that will help you advance in life. Be sure that you don't take your assertiveness to the extreme — factor the needs and wants of others into the equation as well.
Your tendency to dismiss your partner's opinion is something you should definitely work to change. It is a poor relationship habit. Accepting that you cannot change your partner's every opinion by force is an important relationship skill to learn. Others might perceive you as pushy.
Although you are generally able to accept your partner’s goals at face value even when they differ from your own, there are certain areas where this is not the case. Giving your partner unconditional reinforcement in reaching his/her goals is so important in a relationship. Consider being more consistently encouraging for the sake of both your partner and your relationship. Your partner shouldn’t have to sacrifice personal goals.
You are willing to let other people have the reins when it comes to making decisions. You are willing to change your mind unexpectedly, and are open to other people’s input about how you do things. Just be sure that you ask for what you need when it comes to things that do matter to you.