Motorcycles (mainly sport, but cruisers are cool too), cars, movies, books, going out to eat, and looking in my daughter's face for hours...I don't want to miss a second of her life.
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question... - "What kind of man are you looking for?" - She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking Do you really want to know?" - Reluctantly, he said "Yes." - She began to expound... - "As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a MAN what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. At this point in my life, there's no room for games so it's more important for me to know the answer to the question, "What can you bring to the table?" - The man looked at her. - Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. - She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. "I need something more. I need a MAN who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." - He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. - She said "I am looking for a MAN who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. - I am looking for a MAN who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. And even if he is a believer; he needs to believe as I do. - I need a MAN who is striving for perfection financially because what I don't need is a financial burden. - I am looking for a MAN who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, and strong enough to keep me grounded when I do go through changes. What I don't need is a BOY who is going to purposely bring me grief. - I am looking for a MAN who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him and he must respect me. - I cannot be submissive to a BOY who isn't taking care of his business or who is "messy" in his personal affairs. I have no problem being submissive...but the MAN has to be worthy. - God made woman to be a help mate for man . I can't help a man if he can't help himself. If he can't help himself then he definitely can't help me. - And most importantly I need a MAN who understands and can live up to the meaning of the words: - HONESTY - COMMITMENT - TRUSTWORTHINESS - FIDELITY - LOYALTY - COMMUNICATION - DEVOTION - APPRECIATION - HUMILITY - QUALITY TIME - and FAMILY - because the last thing I need is to be disappointed and broken hearted by another BOY who can't. - - When she finished her spiel, she looked at him. - He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. - He said," You are asking a lot." - She replied, " Well I've finally realized, I'm worth a lot."
How about I LOVE the idiot box. My favorite programs are Law and Order, Girlfriends, Half and Half, America's Next Top Model, American Idol, House, Oprah Winfrey, and so many other's I can't even remember them all.
I read a lot, I love books by black authors: Eric Dickey, Kimberla Roby, Sheneska Jackson, Omar Tyrese. I also like books by the others...like John Grisham, but lately I found myself reading book after book about baby's first year. If anyone knows of a good book I have to read, let me know.