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Photo Collage by Dundoo - MySpace EditorIf a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends seperate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Changes comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him--he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another women PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Darlene Whaley
Birthday: 8/25/90
Birthplace: Queens
Current Location: Staten Island
Eye Color: Dark Brown
Hair Color: Black With Brown Highlights
Height: I'm a 5'3 Gangsta Lmao
Right Handed or Left Handed: I'm ambidextrous
Your Heritage: Native Black & White
The Shoes You Wore Today: Black & Red 14's
Your Weakness: Ambitious Guys
Your Fears: Killing The Next Aszhole Who Hurts Me
Your Perfect Pizza: Extra Cheese & Extra Sauce
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Get My License
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: LMAO
Thoughts First Waking Up: Who The Hell Is Calling Me This Early In The Damn Morning
Your Best Physical Feature: Idk My Asz Is Nice & So Are My Tits..What Do You THink?
Your Bedtime: When My Eyes Fall
Your Most Missed Memory: Listening To Uncle Jerry Crack On Ppl..Having Selena Here For Me
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi
McDonalds or Burger King: McDonalds Duhh Burger King Will Kill You Lol
Single or Group Dates: Group Dates
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Neither Arizona All Day Baby
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate Guys Are Sexy Lol
Cappuccino or Coffee: Coffee
Do you Smoke: No
Do you Swear: What B*tch
Do you Sing: Yes
Do you Shower Daily: Yes
Have you Been in Love: Yes Unfortunately
Do you want to go to College: Yes I Will In September
Do you want to get Married: No I Don't Like Guys
Do you belive in yourself: Yes I Do
Do you get Motion Sickness: Yes I Do
Do you think you are Attractive: I Know I Am
Are you a Health Freak: No
Do you get along with your Parents: Sometimes
Do you like Thunderstorms: No Kinda Scared Of Em (Hold Me)
Do you play an Instrument: Guitar..Piano & Drums
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: No
In the past month have you Smoked: No
In the past month have you been on Drugs: No
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: I've Eaten Oreos But Not The Whole Box
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: No But I Want Some..It's Been A Minute
In the past month have you been on Stage: No
In the past month have you been Dumped: Nah
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: No But That Can Be Arranged
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: No
Ever been Drunk: No
Ever been called a Tease: Yes
Ever been Beaten up: No
Ever Shoplifted: No
How do you want to Die: Having An Amazing Orgasm
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Lawyer Duhh
What country would you most like to Visit: Belize & See My Step-son Ha Ha Ha That One Was For You Allan Lol
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Brown Or Blue
Favourite Hair Color: Black
Short or Long Hair: Short
Height: 5'10 & Up
Weight: 160 & Up
Best Clothing Style: Professional
Number of Drugs I have taken: None
Number of CDs I own: More Than I Can Count
Number of Piercings: Who Knows
Number of Tattoos: Alot
Number of things in my Past I Regret: None
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