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Tom

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MySpace Layouts Good-looking, successful, fun-loving, happy-go-lucky, free-spirited. Extremely independent, social, and outgoing. Insanely driven and tenacious when it comes to work. Laid back and easygoing when away from work. RESCUE ME FROM BECOMING A BORDERLINE WORKAHOLIC!!! LOL --My favorite quote: "Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit you as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit - and keep moving forward. How much you can take - and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done. Now, if you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth! But, you gotta be willing to take the hit - and not pointing fingers, saying you ain't where you want to be because of him, or her, or anybody, or any thing. Cowards do that and that ain't you. You're better than that!!!" -- Rocky VI ---Things I do for fun: Since I enjoy laughter and love comedy, I'll be found at comedy clubs, at least once a month. Jokes (clean, dirty, and in-between) put life in perspective. Basically, I'm a great guy with a wild side. I enjoy playing with kittys, anytime and anywhere, making them purr and gush!!!A little about my ethnicity: Father's side of family is pure Swedish. Mother's side of family is a mix of Russian (from Kiev) and Austrian (from Vienna). Talk about opposites attracting!!! So.....I'm blessed with a sharp mind and piercing medium blue eyes, the better to undress you with! :-) LOLMy favorite hot spots: Comedy Clubs, Rock Concerts & GOOD Restaurants are balanced by a combination of attending both professional and collegiate Football/Basketball/Hockey/Baseball games and SHOPPING with my 16-year-old daughter. I like to visit the Metro New York City Area, Washington, DC or Miami, at least every other month.My favorite things: Margaritas & Mexican food; moonlit soaks in a hot tub; dancing like no one is watching with someone who's totally into the music; the energy & electricity found at a pro sports playoff game; and, getting "worked-up & carried away, by really good kissing!!! Some of the books last read: "The Story of O." I was going through the stuff a former lover had left behind and came across this book. It is VERY interesting reading. If you are looking for something that will really make you pause and think, read this book!Looking for that "One-In-A-Million-Girl." --Relationships: Divorced -- Have kids: Yes (1) sixteen-year-old daughter , (GOD has a sense of humor -- he gave me a drop-dead gorgeous daughter) and she lives primarily with my ex-wife in Miami, Florida -- My Ethnicity: White / Caucasian -- My Body type: About average -- My Height: 6'0" (182cms) -- My Philosophy: NO RAIN = NO RAINBOWS --Smoke: No Way -- Drink: Social drinker, maybe one or two, sometimes a couple more than that --At first glance, I come across as a typical, good-looking "Former Marine / Average Joe American Business Executive." When you get to know me, you find that I'm: very successful, fun & friendly, have a wild streak, happy & healthy, well educated & has common sense, above-average to very good-looking on the attractive scale (depending on both what I'm wearing & the blood-alcohol level of whoever is evaluating my good looks), articulate, imaginative, personable, real, sometimes mischievous, compatible with most personalities, spontaneous, upbeat & unpretentious, outgoing & very open-minded, successful in my field of work, dependable (when it comes to family, friends, work, and who ever I'm in a committed relationship with), warm-hearted, definately the wild type of guy who will "push the envelope" every time the opportunity presents itself (from a lot of very CRAZY stuff done in parked cars or on park benches...to crashing weddings and other huge parties like the MTV Awards, etc.),
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very well-liked by nearly everyone (of course we have to exclude that select group of individuals who have put themselves on the BAD list and been banished from my circle of friends). ON THE OTHER HAND --- You are: sweet & sexy, fun-loving, happy with yourself (while at the same time seeking to be an even better person), above-average to very on the attractive scale (knows how to "decorate the package" and enjoys the selection of various "wrapping materials"), imaginative, upbeat & unpretentious, loving, naturally shows her warmth & affection. The baggage you bring with you is "carry-on." Your steamer trunks' contents have been inventoried, sorted-out, and donated to charity. I am looking to settle down with one person and have that relationship grow, mature, whatever label you want to hang on it (while keeping it hot and steamy for years to come).a href="http://photobucket.com/" target="_blank" My Hair: Dark brown My Eyes: Blue-GreyMy Sports and exercise: Dancing, Golf, Martial arts, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Football, Hockey, Skiing My Exercise habits: Exercise 2-3 times per week My Daily diet: Keep it healthy Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting My Education: Bachelors degree My Occupation: Executive / Management My Income: $150,000 - $200,000 My Languages: English My Politics: Middle of the Road My Sign: Aquarian My Place: Live alone ------------------------------------------------------------ --------------------My Turn-ons: Candlelight, Dancing, Erotica, Flirting, Public displays of affection, Skinny dipping, Thrills My Turn-offs: Brainiacs, Sarcasm

My Interests

Travel, watching Broadway shows, dining out, attending professional sporting events (most of all, The New York Mets), relaxing with a couple of cocktails, dancing for hours, attending parties, and much, much, much more!!! "
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TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: "T.J."
Birthday: January
Birthplace: a hospital
Current Location: West Knoxville
Eye Color: Blue
Hair Color: Brown
Height: 6'0"
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: Swedish/Ukrainian/Austrian
The Shoes You Wore Today: Cole Haan loafers
Your Weakness: Garters & Stockings sans panties
Your Fears: something bad happening to my daugher
Your Perfect Pizza: thin & crispy with extra cheese
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Do "better" than I did last year.
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up: "here we go again"
Your Best Physical Feature: smile
Your Bedtime: ideally: GREAT SEX!!! generally: read a book
Your Most Missed Memory:
Pepsi or Coke: Coke
MacDonalds or Burger King: MacDonalds
Single or Group Dates: Both
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton
Chocolate or Vanilla: CHOCOLATE!!!
Cappuccino or Coffee: Cappuccino
Do you Smoke: NO!!!
Do you Swear: of course!
Do you Sing: daily
Do you Shower Daily: of course!!!
Have you Been in Love: yes
Do you want to go to College: been there/done that
Do you want to get Married: not sure
Do you belive in yourself: ABSOLUTELY!
Do you get Motion Sickness: nope
Do you think you are Attractive: yes
Are you a Health Freak: in some ways
Do you get along with your Parents: both have passed away
Do you like Thunderstorms: YES
Do you play an Instrument: yes
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: nope
In the past month have you Smoked: NO
In the past month have you been on Drugs: NO
In the past month have you gone on a Date: NO
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: no
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: yes
In the past month have you been on Stage: no
In the past month have you been Dumped: no
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: no
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: no
Ever been Drunk: yes
Ever been called a Tease: YES
Ever been Beaten up: YES
Ever Shoplifted: NO
How do you want to Die: VERY QUICKLY
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: already there
What country would you most like to Visit: Russia
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: no preference
Favourite Hair Color: no preference
Short or Long Hair: no preference
Height: at least 5'5" in heels
Weight: not more than 10 pounds overweight
Best Clothing Style:
Number of Drugs I have taken: none other than Rx
Number of CDs I own: over 100
Number of Piercings: none
Number of Tattoos: two (Force Recon & USMC emblem)
Number of things in my Past I Regret: only one: not spending more time with my daughter

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I'd like to meet:

A happy and healthy closet exhibitionist, who thoroughly enjoys dressing as she is instructed, with a submissive sexy personality. YOU ARE: Attractive, fit, quietly SEXY, takes a lot of pride in her appearance (from clothing to cosmetics), has a "wild side" hidden beneath a "good-girl" image, thoughtful, knows what she wants and is able to communicate those desires, NOT ON "THE REBOUND" with any fresh wounds from a recent breakup. Comfortable in Keds to 4" Mules or Pumps, old jeans to that "too short little black dress," bare legs to garters & stockings, etc... LOVES TO DANCE!!! She believes that life is what you make of it and gives as much as she takes. Likes children. She enjoys traveling to destinations both near and far. My "ideal special companion" understands that leisure activities prolong and enhance the living experience! She also understands that work is necessary to provide the income that makes play time possible; and, she does not give the man in her life a hard time when he has to put in some extra hours at work. She is very expressive, touchy / feely, and affectionate. Not at all the shy, bashful type (although others may think she is). My ideal "Ms. Right" comes across as a very sexy "lady" in public and a "wild, wanton, woman" in private. A "normal" person on the street; and, a "freak" between the sheets. The type of person who enjoys wearing a dress, business suit, skirt and blouse, or evening gown with a garterbelt and stockings or thigh-high stockings, sans panties and only we would know it!! She curses only in the heat of passion; and believes that spitting is taboo. She prefers to be completely smooth, bare, and free of hair below the bellybutton. She knows what she wants and has no problem communicating those desires. When she falls for that special certain someone, the whole world knows it (from the way she acts whenever they are together, no matter where they may be). Definately NOT a "cold fish." You are the type of person who makes the most of every day, realizing that once the day is done it is gone forever. You don't do anything "half-way." And, you either limit your exposure to OR totally avoid contact with "losers!" (While being "kind" to them, of course!)About my "ideal friend:" Her Hair: Auburn / Red, Black, Blonde, Dark blonde, Dark brown, Light brown, Platinum Her Eyes: Any color will do!!! Her Height: 5'2" (158cms) to 5'8" (173cms) MUST enjoy wearing high heels!
You're a Freaky Kisser
When you kiss, you want to experience something new
A new technique, a new partner, a new piercing...
And your own personal kissing style is very unpredictable
There's no saying where your tongue or hands will go What Kind of Kisser Are You?

Music:

If you can dance to it or screw to it, I'll like it! My favorite artist of all time is Eric Clapton. If I was asked to sit down and write the names of all of the recording artists and groups that I really like, twenty minutes later I'd still be writing! I'd rather go to a really good concert than watch the Super Bowl, or any other sporting event, except for the New York Mets playing that other team that has a old stadium somewhere in The Bronx that is actually falling apart! LMFAO!!! Yes, even though this is supposed to be the music section, I can't help myself - I have to squeeze in a shameless plug for the premier major league baseball team: The New York Mets! object width="425" height="350" ..

Movies:

Believe it or not - no war movies - as long as it isn't totally negative or sad (ie: prefer "happy endings") and if it has at least some sexuality somewhere in the plot, then I'll like it! .. .. width="425" height="350" ..

Television:

I have a very broad range of shows/channels I sometimes watch: CNN, FOX NEWS CHANNEL, CNBC, History Channel, Discovery Channel, LOST, The Sopranos, I Love Lucy, The Benny Hill Show, Saturday Night Live, The Daily Show, and almost any "awards show" from The Oscars to MTV Awards. .. width="425" height="350" ..

Books:

BOB DYLAN-A Retrospective, The Story of O, SEX AND THE SEASONED WOMAN by Gail Sheehy, The Da Vinci Code, SHADOW WARRIORS by Tom Clancy and Gen. Carl Stiner, Ken Follett's A PLACE CALLED FREEDOM, Postcards from the Edge, there are just too many books for me to start making a list! FOR THE TROOPS

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Heroes:

My Mother ** GySgt. Sid Fox who was my mentor in Vietnam from Nov 1973 thru April 1975 - our unit was TAD to USMAG/SEATO operating out of AA/DAO Compounds at Tan San Nhut and Udorn RTAFB up thru Operations Eagle Pull and Frequent Wind ** my Father ** General Robert E. Cushman Jr. USMC Commandant from 1 Jan 1972 to 30 June 1975 and a 1935 graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy (10th in class of 442) and a recipient of the Navy Cross for valor during the battle for Fonte Hill on the island of Guam and a recipient of the Legion of Merit Medal for action during the Battle of Iwo Jima - who awarded me the Navy Cross Medal and also authorized my battlefield commission to 2nd Lt. ** The Honorable J. William Middendorf who was Secretary of the Navy from 8 Apr 1974 thru 20 Jan 1977 and who also authorized my commissioning ** my Grandmother ** Vice Admiral George P. Steele, Commander of the US Navy's Seventh Fleet, who gave me my battlefield commission in the ICU aboard the USS Blue Ridge, following OPERATION MAYAGUEZ on 16 May 1975 ** my Boston College Head Football Coaches: Joe Yukica & Ed Chlebek ** all of the officers and men of Special Operations Command, Naval Special Warfare Group One, First Marine Division's First Recon Battalion and the Marine Corps Force Recon Companys I've had the honor of serving with ** the divorced Soccer Mom lover I had as a teenager ** General Colen Powell U.S. Army ** General Carl Stiner U.S. Army ** Jerry Garcia ** Admiral Elmo Russell Zumwalt Jr. who was Chief of Naval Operations from July 1970 thru July 1974 ** President Gerald Ford ** US Secretary of State Henry Kissinger ** President Jimmy Carter ** Eric Clapton ** there are just too many for me to too many to mention. .. width="425" height="350" ..