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This is a pic of My best friend Sunshine and Ithis is a pic of my other best friend AMBER...There is Darkness in my light. I am tourtured. This world filled with temtations and torment. I hurt, and yet i stay happy. I love and I loose. There is pain hidden behind these eyes. I am a caretaker, a lover and a protector. Maybe i love and care to much, thats why i hurt. You hurt me and yet i walk by your side. I smile and yet there is pain.... My birth name is Cherrie Dawn. I am not ashamed of my body, i am happy with myself for the most part... I have piercings and tattoos, my body is my canvas, to do as i please. I love to laugh and smile and have a good time, I love being IN LOVE. I like being around people, especially friends. People say that I have a great personality and am quite special and a great person to know. I love my family and am quite family oriented. I am also a romantic and a lover. I love life and love people..... I am passionate and love to dream. I am nurturing, helpful and a giver, yet I have strong opinions on things and I would fiercely defend my friends. I have a strong tounge, but a big kind heart. I am down to earth and i can get along with almost everyone...Fun to be with. Loves to try new things. I am a unique being... I have never found anyone like me before... I am not afraid to be me, I am not a follower, and i am true to myself aswell as those arond me... I love church, but i am extremely drawn to the darker side... I love the darker things in life. I am very happy and loveable and extremely loyal. I love myself, therefore I can truely Love those around me. I am a cuddler, huger, affectionate, crave attention, friendly, flirtatious, wild and extreme. People say that I am like an italian dinner, can be completely delicious, but sometimes overwhelming...I have an enourmous heart, and am thougtful and kind.. I sometimes care way to much for people and i wear my heart on my sleeve, which means I can get hurt easily. I love to give to others, even sometimes if it hurts me. My bad side is that i can be a bit moody, and a bit of a slacker "about cancerians... Boys and girls like you You are very hott. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times.Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover." ********************************************************* Haa Ha, Im a STRAIGHT UP PIMP!!!!!Sexy as hell,people with hazel eyes are very attractive, adorable, love to make new friends. Will do anything for that special person. Kind and polite Can make anyone laugh or cheer them up. Loves to please the one they care for or love,very good kissers, are straight up WARRIORS ********************************************************** CANCERMOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high sex appeal. Great in bed ... Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Funny Very sexy Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative Random and proud of it Great tellin stories Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out Loves being in long relationships.=) Very popular Likes to give a good fight for what they want. AttractiveAn INtroduction to me, from an eharmony test i took...me... Introduction to Agreeableness You are best described as: TAKING CARE OF OTHERS AND TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF Words that describe you: * Fair * Considered * Collaborative * Responsive * Sensible * Diplomatic * Contemplative * Indulgent * Rational A General Description of How You Interact with Others You are important. So are other people, especially if they are in trouble. You have a tender heart, but you know how to establish and keep personal boundaries. You are empathetic and compassionate, but you also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves, if they are able. You are deeply moved by the needs of others, but you know that if you don't take good care of yourself, you'll wind up being of no use to anyone. So yours is a thoughtful compassion. You strive to be fair and sensible, taking care of others while also taking care of yourself. When someone really is in trouble, you like to collaborate with them toward a solution; they do their part, you do yours. You consider carefully, and respond in a sensible way; they do their part, and together you move through the difficulty. You seldom act impulsively; rather, when a problem arises, you take your time to think through the situation. This contemplative quality usually means that you'll arrive at a diplomatic solution, one that's fair for the other person and also fair to you. It's frequently a win/win situation. Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You For people who are ruled by tender-hearted compassion, your more diplomatic response to problems might seem too cool, too focused on fairness and not filled enough with sympathy and selflessness. For them, when someone's life is on fire, what is needed is not collaboration but rescue. And the person who experiences their life on fire may resent the time you take to contemplate. "I need you, and I need you NOW! This isn't about fairness, it's about the fire." "All deliberate speed" may seem too deliberate and not fast enough, either to the more compassionate or to people in genuine trouble. At the other end of the spectrum of compassion, those who believe people should take care of themselves may find even your thoughtful sympathies too soft. They expect people, themselves included, to work their own way out of trouble. They are convinced that the helping hand you lend just fosters dependence and is not good for the development of character, either in you or in the person you assist. Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You Many people, perhaps the majority, will come to appreciate your balance as a compassionate person. The more they get to know you, the more they will admire your thoughtful compassion for others and its compliment in the sensible ways you take good care of yourself. Those whom you help will appreciate the way you leave them with their dignity by expecting them to collaborate in their own rescue. Those who are more tender-hearted will find in you a balance they lack; when they've run out of energy because they fail to take good care of themselves, you will still have enough compassion left to lift others out of trouble. Even the tough-hearted, those who believe people should solve their own problems, might come to admire your tenderness which they don't find in themselves. So the people you help will be grateful, and the people who see your balance between self and others will admire you. Certainly, balanced is not bad at all as a way to be known among your friends. Introduction to Openness On the Openness Dimension you are: SOMETIMES CURIOUS, SOMETIMES CONTENT Words that describe you: * Accepting * Flexible * Educated * Self-aware * Middle-of-the-road * Proper * Distinctive * Indecisive * Adaptable A General Description of How You Approach New Information and Experiences Like someone who can sleep comfortably on either side of the bed, you are equally at home with ideas and beliefs that you have held for a long time and with new ways of thinking and believing that grow out of your intellectual curiosity. Your sense of who you are and what your place is in the world around you rests on values and principles that are the solid ground you walk upon. You've tested them, they work for you, and much of the time you are content to trust them, that is, until some provocative new idea slips in from a conversation, book or some flight of your active imagination. "Hmmmm. What's this. Never thought of it before." And off you go, exploring. Since you love to learn, you've always been teachable; you absorb new information, which means you are well-educated in things that matter to you. Sometimes your intellectual exploring will lead you back to where you started; the "next new thing" proves too shallow or impractical to you. But once in a while a new idea or belief will dislodge you from the ground you've stood upon; it is so compelling and persuasive that you step away from the tried-and-true and embrace this notion that is brand new to you. Because you hold both solid beliefs and are open to new ideas, you are accepting of other people and other ways of thinking and believing. You are flexible enough to listen to something new and different, or something outside of your comfort zone; if it works for you, you'll take it in, and if not, you'll let it go. In this sense, you know who you are: you are neither closed-minded nor wildly open-minded, but walk somewhere near the middle of the intellectual road. Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward Your Style of Thinking Not everyone will be thrilled by your flexible, middle-of-the-road ways of thinking and believing. A few people are so taken with flights of imagination into whatever is new that they might find your commitment to long-standing values and beliefs too confining, if not too boring. Oh well; so be it. They'll just have to be in free-flight without you. Others are content with the ideas that have served them and their culture well; they're not excited by the prospect of moving on. And some people are afraid of new ways of thinking because they are somewhat fragile; they have trouble maintaining their current worlds and don't want someone like you, for instance pushing out the edges of their intellectual cosmos. So don't be surprised if your solid values sometimes make people distrust you as an explorer, or if your flexible and open mind sometimes gets you criticized by people who walk away from the very same explorations that you find refreshing. Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You Many others will find you trustworthy and therefore an attractive companion on the intellectual journey. They will appreciate the combination in you of open-mindedness and a commitment to the tried-and-true. In an intellectual climate sometimes dominated by the extremes of either wild innovation or dug-in traditionalism, your moderate views and your proper acceptance of a wide range of possibilities will be a distinctive and refreshing quality. Because you join your curiosity to strong foundational ideas and beliefs and practical solutions to problems, people will trust your occasional explorations into new territories to be reliable, and not "something new for newness sake". You are accepting of others, flexible in your own intellectual commitments, well-informed in areas that matter to you, and comfortably aware of who you are and where you stand. This combination will make you a desirable companion on the intellectual journey for many, many people. Introduction to Emotional Stability We're born with the capacity to feel deeply, so it's as natural as breathing to experience a range of emotions. Fear and joy and sadness, anger and shame and disgust lie somewhere within each of us. Ah, but to what extent do we control these emotions, and to what extent do they control us? How you answer this question of how your emotions play out in your life has a great deal to do with your levels of personal satisfaction and with the character of your relationships with others. Do you manage your emotions well, keeping them in check with your thinking and your willpower, or are you someone who lets emotions have their way, giving in to the wild dance of feelings? The following paragraphs describe your emotional range in terms of being a person who is emotionally steady or someone who is responsive to whatever feelings swell up in you. On Emotional Stability you are: SOMETIMES STEADY, SOMETIMES RESPONSIVE Words that describe you: * Adaptable * Engaged * Able to Cope * Passionate * Perceptive * Flexible * Receptive * Aware * Avid A General Description of Your Reactivity In some ways, you've got the best of emotional worlds. When emotions rise up from inside you or are brought forth from a conversation by a friend, you know how to engage them. You deal with sadness, fear, joy, anger "whatever comes up" in ways that are perceptive and flexible. You can adapt to whatever level of emotion is appropriate to the moment. Other times, when emotions arise that might seem out of place, you contain your feelings. You are able to cope without letting loose, because you're so aware of what does and doesn't make emotional sense in a particular situation. All of this gives you a rich emotional life. You are free to express your passions about certain subjects with appropriate people. But you are also emotionally adaptable; if the conversation needs to be more cerebral, you'll keep it "in your head" and talk calmly through whatever is on the table. This emotional awareness serves you well. You seldom get in over your head, either by opening up to the wrong person or by triggering in someone else emotions you are not ready to deal with. And you seldom miss a moment to dive into deep feelings when the circumstances are right to drive a friendship deeper into the truth between you. Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You Sometimes you may get it wrong, at least in the eyes of another person. They need to talk about their feelings but either you are not ready to go there, or misread their cues; in either case, you stay in your head and they get frustrated. Or the opposite may happen: what you read as an invitation into the deep end of the emotional pool from a person you assume is ready to go there is, in fact, something else; either they said it in an unclear way or your emotional ear was off. So you dive in, but they aren't ready; you wind up swimming in your feelings by yourself, and they wonder about your loss of emotional control. Another potential problem is that as people get to know you well, they will discover that you have a wonderful balance between emotional expression and emotional control. If they don't have this balance they may wind up envying you. They can't express feelings as well you can, or they are too often out of emotional control, and they resent you for your ability to cope so well with the very emotions that may trip them up. Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You Many people will be grateful to find a friend like you who can stay in control when emotions verge on chaos, but who can also go deep into the tangle of emotions when it is safe and appropriate to do so. Because of your ability to engage them at whatever level they are comfortable in, to adapt to whatever changes in emotion emerge in the conversation, and to cope so well with all of it well, they'll be very glad they found a person like you. You may, in fact, wind up as something of an emotional mentor. Your awareness of the emotional temperature of a situation, your ability to adapt to either heat or cold, and your ability to cope with whatever winds up happening in the conversation could be models for them to follow as they come to terms with their own emotional worlds. Introduction to Conscientiousness It's a work day, breakfast is over, and you're dressed and ready. So how will you approach the tasks at hand? Some people work best with a clear schedule, a set of priorities and a due date for every step in the process. Others are, shall we say, less regimented. They approach a task with as much imagination as organization, and with a willingness to bend and modify in order to exercise some urge of creativity. How about you? Do you walk in a straight line toward a clear goal, or are you more likely to dance your way down whatever path will get you wherever it is you're headed? The following paragraphs describe ways in which you approach the tasks life brings to you, and to what extent you are focused or flexible in how you choose to proceed.Your approach toward your obligations is: FOCUSED AND FLEXIBLE Words that describe you: * Casual * Informal * Compliant * Reliable * Organized * Solid * Dependable * Uncommitted * Genuine A General Description of How You Interact with Others When you take on a task at work or at home, you are reliable; you get the job done. In an organized way, you define the goal, lay out a plan, figure how long the task will take, and get to work "solid and dependable you". But and this is important you're not a slave to the plan. You're committed to it, but not chained to it; the connection is more casual and informal. You know that sometimes "the best laid plans" fall off the tracks; when this happens, you clean up the train wreck and start over, undeterred. Though not happening often, when plans change, you're okay with it. In fact, sometimes you change the plan. It's too nice of a Saturday to finish organizing the garage. Let's go for a bike ride instead. True, the next rainy Saturday will likely find you back in the garage, but for now the work can wait. What an interesting combination of qualities in you're organized, but casual; solid, but compliant; and dependable, but informal. At home and at work, people know they can rely on you. You take great satisfaction in knowing that people think of you as disciplined and responsible, but you also know that you have something of a free spirit in you, and when this spirit moves you, off you go, following the impulse of the moment. You are rightly proud of your work ethic, but you also enjoy your willingness to lay the tools down, crank up the music and play like a child. Negative Reactions Others May Have Toward You Some people live like Marines: duty-bound, disciplined and driven. To these people you might seem uncommitted; where they would never leave work for play or change plans in the middle of their life's forced march, you let the circumstance sway you and move in a different direction, and they don't understand. Others live like kites on a string, attached by thin threads to the solid ground of responsibility and are blown about by every gust of impulse or imagination. To these people you might seem too cowardly, like you'll flirt with your impulses but never give in fully, play on a Saturday but never blow of the entire work-week to "follow your bliss". While these Marines and kite-flyers might look down on you for your combination of focus and flexibility, others might be envious. They can't free themselves from a sense that they're not doing enough, or from the equally frustrating feeling that they're not free enough. And here you are with your accomplishments and your pleasures, getting the job done but also getting your hair blown back as you run with the wind. As far as these people are concerned, you're lucky you've got the best of both of the worlds in which they feel they fail. Positive Responses Others May Have Toward You What a great life you have, and a great attitude to boot. You know when to buckle down and push ahead to get the job done, and you do it well. You know when to lay the tools of your trade aside, grab your kite and head for the meadow where you can run with the wind. Many people will see and admire in you this lovely combination of a person who can focus, but who is flexible enough to know when to let the spirit move you in some new and livelier direction. It's a life they aspire to, and they delight in seeing it played out in your life. They may ask your advice and turn you into a mentor of the full and balanced experience. They will want to know how you do it, what the costs are, and if you get frightened that you're not working hard enough or playing often enough. They may make you think about your own life more than you have, so you can share it with those who want to emulate this balance between flexibility and focus. They may be correct lucky you! Introduction to Extraversion Some days you want to hang out by yourself, not answer the phone, and make the world go away. The next day you e-mail everyone, schedule lunch with a friend, and try to find an evening gathering to take part in. It may be the phases of the moon, or something you ate; some days are just like that. In actuality, your desire to be with others or to be alone reflects something deep in your personality. Some of us are more comfortable by ourselves or with one or two friends, while others of us crave the crowd and can't stand it when the house is empty or the phone doesn't ring. The following paragraphs describe your fundamental desires about being with other people; whether you are generally an outgoing person or more reserved, if you seek adventures with others, if you tend toward assertiveness or kindness. When it comes to Extraversion you are: OUTGOING Words that describe you: * Friendly * Gregarious * Full of Life * Unreserved * Kindhearted * Talkative * Emotional * Spontaneous * Vigorous