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james

hate will get you everytime

About Me

james talks too much... james is smart, but doesnt think before he acts. james wears his heart on his sleeve, which is usually a rolled up black tshirt as i have little fashion sense.. ;) james IS FUNNY.I totally make people feel comfortable. Im a little selfish. Im horrible keeping up with laundry.. as in PILES of it on the bed (i used to be SO meticulous!) I smile a lot, but not in pictures cuz I hate the way my cheeks puff up. I care a LOT about people close to me. I date inappropriate people... but they all touch me in some way-- why not give in to that , right?I like to travel. I like being around artisitic people. I like art myself. Im a great kisser (just ask around) *lol*. I like guys who like to date..-- you know-- two guys gettin dinner and seeing a band or an art show? gettin a lil buzzy? making out in an alley? laughing at stupid stuff? Getting to know each other?Honest I'm an aware, focused and attractive guy.. I kinda need you to be too..Do you care what your space looks like? Have you turned on the news in the past 24 hours? Can you kiss me without SWALLOWING me? Do you SMELL like a man? Well DO YOU!?I like cars, I like modern design, old furniture, Pinto's and Vega's, cool sneakers, changing my hair color, having hair, eating like a lesbian, eating lesbians, ya know-- the usual.

My Interests

I love art and painting-- I do it myself. I'm into trying new foods out, finding wine or beer to go with em, THEN makin it at home.. I love any creative or entertaining pursuit-- beer and bowling sounds good if its with someone funny and smart-- oh and power bottoms. (lol) LOVE the East Village primarily- nothing more fun than exploring parts of the city you dont know 100% yet.. bars, lounges, cheap eats-- Ill try anything onceAny and all output from Amy or David Sedaris, Augusten Burroughs, the Food Network, Aimee Mann, angry emo rock (lol), Ben Sherman , flea market shopping, making my home beautiful, cooking for my friends, holding court and making people laugh, erasing my past.. ;) (kidding-- every part of my past made me who i am today)ALL HAIL XM RADIO-- its all about ETHEL on 47 ok-- i get WAY too many design magazines, and last book was "running with scissors"

I'd like to meet:

foxy bitches, bad muthaf*ckers, sarcastic fags, self aware GUYS, the hairy backed, executives with harnesses, people that make me laugh, quick talkers, smooth movers, international playboys, and cute waiters. LOL

Music:

MOTHER OF GOD dont forget about The Pixies.. Zero 7, Garden State Soundtrack, yes , its taken a year but now im into Death Cab like every other nitwit.. but ill listen to it ALL though i burn out on certain stuff thats like SO of the moment and now I cant here ONE NOTE OF IT without wanting to throw something like a vase across the room-- but lets go-- FLAMING LIPS-- OLD POLICE (the first 45 seconds of BRING ON THE NIGHT are SUBLIME), INTERPOL (im not sick of THAT yet); thomas dolby (im not kidding-- dont bother with the hits), still love HOLE and COURTNEY (hold on to me is amazing shit); plinky artfag rock (Finn Brothers and Aimee Mann and Michael Penn like that); Ben Folds, SOLO Dave Matthews only (i hate that saxophone).. and stuff. you know , stuff, French House music, Lars Berenroth's house show, Lawrence Welk :-) Classic Rock sneaks in (why do i crave Steve Miller sometimes.. its very beer in CANS), lets see-- Pete Yorn, and umm.. yeah I like John Mayer *shut up* , Bjork, etc etc. ask me, I know a little of everything.. partial.. Moby, Beck, RUFUS (both Wainwright AND with Chaka Khan), Ryan Adams, Widespread Panic, Rolling Stones, Smashing Pumpkins, Guster, Ben Harper, Guster, Wilco, Radiohead, Elliot Smith, Jeff Buckley, Rilo Kiley (thanks Sean) , Air, Coldplay

Movies:

just dont bother me with bad horror and action crap-- make me think.. Rushmore, Election, anything PT Anderson, (Boogie Nights) Goodfellas, , HEDWIG of course.. you get the idea. oh, well,and 9 to 5, and Big Business and working girl.. LOL.. *i love the workplace comedies* .. i have SO many things to catch up on moviewise.

Television:



I know you crave my bathroom. lol

Heroes:

Shirley Jones, Shirley Chisholm, Shirley Muldowney, and Shirley from Whats Happening.

My Blog

six things

six things you didnt know about James (or maybe you did) :1) as a teenager I was obsessed with "The Book of Lists" . I'd read it really every night, I learned an amazing amount of nonsense. David and ...
Posted by james on Fri, 26 May 2006 10:51:00 PST

sunday night= OscarSALON

glib commentary and booze filled witticisms OscarSALON Body: so yeah.. like sunday. trays of tidbits.. beggars purses. champagne, no doubt. crudite. lite fare. barbed 'bon mot'. and some award sho...
Posted by james on Fri, 03 Mar 2006 01:15:00 PST

that... well, i got off on that...

alright-- listen, it's no secret I like my hair. It's my thing.. guys like it, girls like it-- I LIKE IT. I HAVE GOOD HAIR. And at my age, to have it, well, yay .. rock on .   So today I need a ...
Posted by james on Fri, 03 Mar 2006 05:10:00 PST

repost for locals

attention people of Earth who wants to come by Sunday evening for crock pot goodness and salon-like discussions of the events of the day? There's also some football game... but I don't really kno...
Posted by james on Sat, 04 Feb 2006 12:19:00 PST

attention people of Earth

who wants to come by Sunday evening for crock pot goodness and salon-like discussions of the events of the day? There's also some football game... but I don't really know anything about that .
Posted by james on Fri, 03 Feb 2006 09:58:00 PST

sucker punch

that's how today felt. It's not much I can talk about on here (it's just not the right format) but today's a day in my family history where essentially nothing will ever be the same. Me and my sibling...
Posted by james on Fri, 27 Jan 2006 08:47:00 PST

ebb and flow

sometimes I can have the LAZIEST day and then motivation strikes me like a lightning bolt.. it's fun to kinda- have TWO days in one. I was a total skank til about 2pm..  lets just say "takin' car...
Posted by james on Tue, 17 Jan 2006 04:28:00 PST

you little peaches

first off, a minor commotion from a coupla dining room pics.. and my mug? lord.. honest, sure I posted them for a reaction .. but THAT was gratifying.  Thanks people! Especially related to my hom...
Posted by james on Mon, 09 Jan 2006 07:30:00 PST

as good a time as any

wow-- talk about changes. Turn and face the strange ones, right? One year ago today I had just moved into a 9th floor apt with a Manhattan view.. the first step in my new life after a long time with o...
Posted by james on Sun, 01 Jan 2006 05:46:00 PST

feelin gifty

why not share what we all got from respective family members or significant others?   A Le Crueset Dutch Oven (it's RED!) a nice Henckles chef knife (its' NOT red) leather gloves (toasty) Target...
Posted by james on Tue, 27 Dec 2005 08:22:00 PST