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charminmi

charminmi

About Me


People can only treat you how you conduct yourself, if you conduct yourself like a hoe, a thug, or playa then expect people to treat you that way.
I'm gettin so sick and tired of hearin these ladies complain about these men being disrespectful. Well when your half naked and wearing stuff you can't breathe in what do you expect? But there are a small handfull of guys who are gonna disrepect any and everybody, so complaining about it is just a waste of time. Think about it this way if they disrespect their own mama and grandma they definitely ain't gonna respect you. If you can't handle that type of attention then stop puttin yourself out there like that.
You don't know what you got till it's gone, so if you got something really good keep it cuz it may not be there if you leave and try to come back. You won't be able to blame anyone but yourself. Don't sell yourself short, everything that glitters ain't gold.
***********Don't sell me a dream to be on your team, I don't like fake advertisement!!!!!!!!***************
I'm an educated and independent woman with no kids. As long as you keep your hands out of my pockets then we'll be cool, lol.
One other thing that I wanted to add is that time is precious to me. I don't waste people's time so I would appreciate you not wasting mine. And no I'm not interested in making any new male "friends"(who's interests are questionable), I have enough real true friends. Any other questions feel free to ask.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Charms
Birthday: July 22, 1982
Birthplace: B.H., MI
Current Location: Chandler, AZ
Eye Color: dark brown
Hair Color: black
Height: 5ft 1.5 inches
Right Handed or Left Handed: right
Your Heritage: stuff
The Shoes You Wore Today: nike
Your Weakness: ask me
Your Fears: too many things to name, lol
Your Perfect Pizza: pepperoni, bacon, and ham
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: ?????? I've already achieved so much already, lol
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger:
Thoughts First Waking Up: Lord I thank you for waking me up this morning, giving me another chance to live my life right today.
Your Best Physical Feature: Pretty face and let's just say I've been truely blessed in the right places.
Your Bedtime: whenever I fall asleep
Your Most Missed Memory: Hanging out with my grammy and my best friends back in my hometown.
Pepsi or Coke: Pepsi
MacDonalds or Burger King: I prefer neither
Single or Group Dates: Haven't been on any group dates
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton taste soo much better
Chocolate or Vanilla: chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: Cappuccino
Do you Smoke: No never
Do you Swear: No, I'm a lady
Do you Sing: Yep all the time.
Do you Shower Daily: yes and take baths
Have you Been in Love: Yeah, unfortunately
Do you want to go to College: Already been, received a Bachelors in Chemistry
Do you want to get Married: I guess, if these men stop acting up
Do you belive in yourself: yes of course
Do you get Motion Sickness: yeah gotta take dramamine.
Do you think you are Attractive: Yes I do and alot of other people agree
Are you a Health Freak: not really but I do go to the gym
Do you get along with your Parents: yep
Do you like Thunderstorms: no
Do you play an Instrument: I used to play the Clarinet.
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: no
In the past month have you Smoked: no
In the past month have you been on Drugs: no
In the past month have you gone on a Date: don't think so
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: no haven't had the time
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: ugh, no
In the past month have you been on Stage: no
In the past month have you been Dumped: lol, no, you gotta be with somebody in order to get dumped
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: no
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: no
Ever been Drunk: yeah back in the day, don't wanna do that again
Ever been called a Tease: yeah in my younger years(high school)
Ever been Beaten up: nope
Ever Shoplifted: no
How do you want to Die: Painlessly
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Me
What country would you most like to Visit:
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: doesn't matter, just as long as he has two of them
Favourite Hair Color: don't matter
Short or Long Hair: short
Height: anywhere between 5'5-6'1
Weight: in shape, not plumb or flabby
Best Clothing Style: decent, not saggy baggy
Number of Drugs I have taken: none
Number of CDs I own: doesn't matter
Number of Piercings: nothing too extreme
Number of Tattoos: nothing too extreme
Number of things in my Past I Regret: everybody has things that they regret
CREATE YOUR OWN! - or - GET PAID TO TAKE SURVEYS!......

My Interests

Racquetball, Tennis, Bowling......

I'd like to meet:

Somebody who's honest and mature...... Along with Hill Harper, Brian White, and Columbus Short.

Music:

Gospel, Jazz, easy listening, and Old School......

Movies:

Absolutely love black cinema, support independent films

My Blog

The Fabric of a Man

Hey, I finally saw the play " The Fabric of a man".  And all I have to say is woooo hooooo!!!!  Darren Dewitt Henson played his role extremely well, very very well. Oh soooo well!!!&nbs...
Posted by charminmi on Thu, 21 Feb 2008 08:13:00 PST

My Relationship

I have been asked several times about the relationship change on my page, so I figured that I would let all of you know on here so I wouldn't have to keep repeating myself.  Well the truth is tha...
Posted by charminmi on Sat, 16 Feb 2008 02:53:00 PST

Sooo goood!!!!!

Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witness, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is s...
Posted by charminmi on Sun, 27 Jan 2008 03:36:00 PST

Life happens

Is it just me or has this year not started off as great as everyone thought it would?  Well maybe the end of 2008 will be better than the beginning, who knows.  It's like you ever have ...
Posted by charminmi on Tue, 22 Jan 2008 09:17:00 PST

Light at the end of the tunnel

Don't let the obstacle or situation that you see hinder what you believe.  If God really said it then it will come to pass.
Posted by charminmi on Thu, 17 Jan 2008 12:04:00 PST

It's better late than never

I found this confession on the computer from a guy who's light bulb finally came on, it's great.   He say: It has taken me 10 years and 3 failed serious relationship to realize that I have been a...
Posted by charminmi on Tue, 16 May 2006 10:04:00 PST

Let it go!!!!!!!!

This blog is for anyone who wants to get stuff off of their chest. For example, what's up with these gold diggers out here?  Why can't people ever be sastified or make up their minds?  Why d...
Posted by charminmi on Mon, 10 Apr 2006 08:20:00 PST