"I’ve built a wall not to block anyone out but to see who loves me enough to climb over it"................ I’m looking for my soul mate, my best friend, & my partner in crime. Starting off with friendship & as we get to know each other gradually working into the other three. He’d have to be clean cut (a man that not only looks good but smells good too & does to me what kryptonite does to superman...YEAH BABY...!!!). I myself take personal hygiene very seriously so my man would have to as well.. Scrub my back & I'll scrub yours if you know what I mean.. ;0) He’d definitely have to be a non-smoker standing 5’8 or taller with a decent to athletic build. An educated professional who can hold a good conversation, because I not only need a man that knows how to make love to my body but knows how to make love to my mind as well. He should be a communicator because I feel that is very important in a relationship & he should also not find it hard when admitting his faults. He should also be a hopeless romantic with a good sense of humor & when it comes to having fun he'd be down for just about anything. Spontaneity as well as the ability to find the fun in anything that he does scores big in my book & he should welcome nights out on the town as well as “blockbuster†evenings alone at home (my place or yours…winks) with lots & lots of cuddling involved. A definite plus would be someone who posses the “Jekyll & Hyde†trait very much like myself in the sense of being a good boy that can be very bad. (laughs) I want someone who will go to the end of the earth for me like a true life partner would since I would do the same. An individual who has a general love for life & for people (other than yourself) & understands that you should never take anything or anyone for granted because nothing is guaranteed forever. He should share in the same belief that there’s no such thing as knowing too much & be open to learning & doing new things and above all know how to live life fully and a little on the edge. He would have to be a true gentleman who knows how to treat a lady and is respectful of all around him and last but not the very least he should be someone who’s been there done that & PLAYS NO GAMES! Don't tell me what you think I want to hear just because you think it’ll get you through the door because eventually once the real you comes out (and eventually he will) that door you’ve worked so hard to walk through will be the same one you walk right back out of. Just be yourself (I mean seriously how bad can “YOU†really be?)…(LOL) With me what you see is what you get. I am who I am and I won't try to be anything more or less than that. “Love me or leave me†is my motto. I don't ask for much.. just respect & love with a partner who can view me as his equal and nothing less. Someone who truly knows how to treat and “KEEP†a good self sufficient woman. This list is just getting longer & longer (no wonder why I'm still single..lol) Seriously though I'm still single by choice & although my list may seem endless it's only because I'm very picky & I won't settle for anything less, therefore I would say I am selective and willing to wait it out for the one who grabs my attention and keeps it. That along with the fact that all that I ask for is what I have to offer my mate as well & I truly believe that it goes both ways & the man in my life would be very spoiled in more ways than one. Finding someone has never been the problem it's finding the “RIGHT†one that poses the challenge. He’s out there I know it & I’m going to find him. It’s either that or I’m going to die trying. Well I guess if you’ve come this far & have managed not to fall asleep then I guess I’ll just add that I adore people, everyone in general, and that the key to my heart is honesty, loyalty, and the capability of being real. If you should posses these hard to find traits then it would be “MY†pleasure in getting to know you.
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