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M. F.

A 360 Degree Trans Stud... *nuff said.*

About Me



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I am many things:the most basic are African American,queer, transgender, Stud. Amoungst the most complex these words are to shallow to withhold, so I depend on my actions to know that which is me,.... Because The Creator was the main inscriptor on that which is to be...

My Interests

Culture, history, music, The Arts, womyn (wink, wink), sports, "race" relations, feminismm,womanism, Gay and Lesbian Studies, Africana Studies, reading good books, bird watching, cartoons, liberation theology, the politics of love, You, Me, Us, We, "they" is discursively dangerous (I digress)--- just to name a few

I'd like to meet:

My namesake Nefertiti (that’s my middle name), Tupac, Audre Lorde, Jesus, Octavia Butler (again), my father’s father (again, he saw me the day I was born and died the next day), my mother’s grandparents, Billie Holiday, Zora N. Hurston, Donny Hathaway, James Baldwin, Einstein, Edgar Allen Poe, You, Me, Pat Parker, Doria Roberts (again), ambitious, intelligent, spiritual, honest, funny, "crazy, sexy, cool", Butch, Stud, Trans, FTM, MTF, "undecided", laid back, "seekers", soft, sweet, hungry, giving, loving, affectionate, bold, feisty, spirit guides, aggressive, activist, romantic, curvy, lean, in between, hope, agape love, beloved community, future, present ---just to name a few

Music:

"Classic Oldies"-Anita Baker, Stevie Wonder, The O.J.'s, Donny Hathaway , Three Doors Down, Lala Hathaway, "Earth, Wind , and Fire" , LTD, Teddy P., Donald Byrd, Mia X, China White, Gangsta Boo, Pastor Troy, Tank, 112, Minnie Riperton,The Delfonics, Sweet Honey in the Rock, Pebo Bryson, Donald Byrd, Maze, Ashford and Simpson, Dr. Buzzard, Doria Roberts, Jill Scott, Coltrane, Santanna, Lauryn Hill,George Benson, Allison Krauss,Self Scientific, Nas, Jay Z, Zap Mama ---just to name a fewFavorite Links: http://www.ufc-usa.org/index.htm www.missmoney.net www.pickupthemic.com www.kuma2.net www.charisbooksandmore.com www.R&B- old Mary J. Blige, Boyz II Men, Dru Hill, Amarie, Carl Thomas, Brian McKnight, Havier, Glenn Lewis, some Alicia Keys-just to name a fewJazz-Lalah Hathaway, Rick Braun, Boney James, Incognito, 4 Play, Norman Brown -just to name a few

Movies:

Love Jones (its my fav) .. classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" .."http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash /swflash.cab#version=8,0,0,0" width="180" height="172" id="fosters" align="middle" ..

Television:

Fairly Odd Parents, Dexter's Lab, Snaggle Puss, Powerpuff Girls, Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends, the Jetsons
Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:
You have medium extroversion.
You're not the life of the party, but you do show up for the party.
Sometimes you are full of energy and open to new social experiences.
But you also need to hibernate and enjoy your "down time."
Conscientiousness:
You have medium conscientiousness.
You're generally good at balancing work and play.
When you need to buckle down, you can usually get tasks done.
But you've been known to goof off when you know you can get away with it.
Agreeableness:
You have high agreeableness.
You are easy to get along with, and you value harmony highly.
Helpful and generous, you are willing to compromise with almost anyone.
You give people the benefit of the doubt and don't mind giving someone a second chance.
Neuroticism:
You have low neuroticism.
You are very emotionally stable and mentally together.
Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly.
Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed - making others feel secure.
Openness to experience:
Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. The Five Factor Personality Test

Books:

Robert Jordan, Audre Lorde, Sherlock Holmes, Octavia Butler, Marion Zimmer Bradely, DuBois, Fiona Z., Me, You, ---just to name a few

Heroes:

Audre Lorde, James Baldwin, Bessie Smith, Ma Rainey, Ella Baker, Nefertiti, Ella Baker, Ida b. Wells, Angela Davis, Assata Shakur, Donny Hathaway, Barbara Smith, Sourjourner Truth, my mom,Me, You, Archbishop Carl Bean and the entire Unity Fellowship Church Movement ---just to name a few Looking for an inclusive place of worship? Vist http://www.unityfellowshipchurch.org/home.html

My Blog

Give Thanks

Whether or not you consider yourself religious or spiritual, just taking a moment to say "Thanks" to the universe, to the energy , to the _(fill in the blank)_ , that has brought you happiness in any ...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Thu, 14 Jun 2007 09:33:00 PST

Note:

The weekly thoughts I post are NOT from a book. They are from my spirit.   Eternal Peace and Blessings -Mekahel...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Sat, 02 Jun 2007 08:21:00 PST

You are valuable.

  The most valuable resource you have is yourself.  It is the only thing you can offer the world that no one else can.  Start investing in yourself today by learning something new,...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Sat, 02 Jun 2007 08:15:00 PST

Thus far

No matter where you are in life be reminded that you have the power of just that... life.  Congratulations, you have made it thus far!  I wish you all eternal peace and blessings.  I wi...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Mon, 28 May 2007 12:44:00 PST

Can I get a 2fer please?!

Errr ummm, so I am reminding myself to look for The Anointing in a person.  This is a "looks matter" society, and I have definitely absorbed some of those values.  Im not of the camp that s...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Sat, 14 Apr 2007 11:56:00 PST

Just -one- more- step.

First I would like to say that the song playing on my page "Young, Gifted, and Black" by Donny Hathaway is a dedication to all those otha young, gifted, black folks who walk beside, came before, and t...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Sun, 01 Apr 2007 05:28:00 PST

An open email to my bru's and sistas

This is an an email I sent to one of my bruh's. (who I have interesting conversation with, that I appreciate)  I would like to share it with everyone. Dont worry, I am not offended at all.&n...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Sat, 24 Mar 2007 09:25:00 PST

Yours Most Sincerely

The song playing on my page is titled "Kill For You" by Juice a.k.a Jason Williams.  I am dedicating this song *the concept of such a deep love, not the the other parts* to my future wife. Who ev...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Sat, 17 Mar 2007 07:35:00 PST

Im not a parking ticket so I do NOT need your stamp of validation!

  WHOA! This binary bull crap is really erking my nerves.  Sadly it persists even in the Trans "community" and even more so in the community at large.  Some how because I don't identify...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Fri, 16 Mar 2007 07:09:00 PST

Run! Run! As fast as you can haters and imitators could neva stop me, Im the Ginger Bread Stud

  Yo, if I haven't learned anything in life I know to look out for Me, Myself and I.  That my sound bitter (though I am definitely not bitter), but hey it's true.  It's amazing how...
Posted by Mekahel Francois on Wed, 14 Mar 2007 08:28:00 PST