Timothy

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My reacantly poasted BlogA Note to women and men: "Before anything during the day, put your man first, a lesson to all ladies, Men have feelings too. We are all human and just as much as you don't say certain things or do certain things it affects us too, as much as we don't want to admit it, or are in denial about it, it dose!" "Especially Ladies if he's good to you and dose what you ask, and even more than you ask put him first he deserves it." Why because I’m sure he puts you first, and because if a Good man feels like he's always second or third he's not going to be there long, because eventually he's going to get tiered of competing and just call it quits. Some men are tough and will hang in there a long time because they really love and care about you, but they to are still people and after a wile will leave. Then you'll be sitting there wondering what happened, why all of a sudden you can't take it anymore, why do you not do the things you used to, men get fed up just like women do, not as much so but however they do. The difference is a respectful man will just leave rather than cheat, even though it may eat him up inside. " You can't say you blame him either, you know, Jaheam Had something there when he said put that women first, but the same applies for ladies because you talk about the man you have and how he's not doing this and that, and comparing him with every single thing that’s going on in your life instead of just loving him enough to give him credit for what he's trying to do or just for what he's done, and just being with him and not the world and him. Then truly there would not be as many problems in the relationship, I didn't say no problems because no relationship is perfect, but if that were to just happen then you wouldn't have to worry about being satisfied. Oh and side note - don't be afraid to take chances damn! If your man is not worth getting in a little trouble for then he's simply not worth your time, but don't get extreme paranoia and kill the mood. Ladies also don't be afraid to tell your man what pleases you mentally emotionally and physically(sexually), And Men don’t be afraid if your women’s a freak get freaky with her, it keeps the spice and keeps her from having to look everywhere else for it. The same goes with the ladies if your man is good and tells you what he expects and wants, give it to him stop being afraid to take chances, im not saying disrespect your body or yourself, because if you don't respect yourself how do you expect a man to, but if you can't trust the man it’s not worth it, but if you can you'll know. One key factor in that is you have to really be in Love not infatuated or lustful, and it's tricky to tell the difference, but if you have a man as I said that bends over backward and forward to please you and will take his time to love you, is harmless, and despite all the hell he puts up with from you still stays with you then he loves you because no guy would do all of that just for some booty (just keeping it real) but because at the first sign of not giving it to them they’ll leave because they feel they don't have to work that hard just to get it, now some dudes are tricky and will but trust me you can tell if a man Really Loves you or not, but if you still want to know how ask my Women she'll explain or might be able to give you some pointers. Now don't Get upset because I Did Say a Good Man not some confused guy or adolescent Boy that likes to play with you or your heart and can't make up there mind about what they want, that’s not Good for either party, but a man, a Loving, hard working, RESPONSIBLE, strong, respectful man. One that doesn’t have a problem with saying what's on his mind or in his heart, that’s a man, and one worth a women, not a girl, a women giving herself to, sacrificing for, and comforting. That’s also the difference between love making and sex, Passion for one another the Bible speak's about the bed of marriage being undefiled and that means that no matter what you do it is ok because its you and your husband or wife but never to step outside your bed. One problem with marriage now days is people aren’t sure about whom or what they want and they go into marriages or mirages thinking its going to last. To everybody! Pleas stop getting married for the wrong reasons: Lust is not a reason, because you think its right is not a reason, because it sounds nice is not a reason, because of children is not a reason, I’m not saying don't take care of your children but that is simply not a reason to just get married. First of all you have to be married mentally and spiritually you know being married before the ceremony, then you come before the congregation and minister or justice. However if you have no spiritual or mental marriage first IT WILL NOT and I Repeat WILL NOT WORK!There will be more in my next posting-Dr.TL StiggersDr. TLStiggers