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joules

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About Me

the short and sweet: i'm for real, hate liars and cheats and tend to be a little intense. im a starry eyed romantic as well as a pessimistic lover of the darkside. complicated, impetuous, convoluted and a bit compulsive. I say what i mean, and sometimes i mean too much..i guess i like the taste of my feet! i like to get down to the nitty gritty of life and people, so if you tend to skim the surface of things i will scare the shit out of you--so go away. i like the outdoors and animals and trees and would love to save the world, but im no hippy! Absolutely not a myspace ho in any sense of the word so if you are looking for a quick hookup or a collection of "adds," fuck off. I DO NOT DO THE ADD, OR YOU, IF I DON'T KNOW YOU. so that means you actually have to write me first before you get either. i have many many interests, but not enough time to actually indulge in them, and that includes writing back regularly! and i leave bite marks, 'specially if i dig ya.

My Interests

adventure, travel, martial arts (kung fu is the bomb), yoga, dancing, movement in general. self awareness and the search for truth. engaging and witty banter. sarcasm. spontaneity horses, motorcycles, hiking. being in nature, especially immersed in water (skinny dippin, scuba diving, surfing). wrestling (naked is better). making out like teenagers. making mischief and upsetting the status quo. intimacy. little fuzzy animals. learning stuff. astrology. Reading. cuddling in front of a fire place. wine, and sometimes whine. sleeping. um..the list could go forever so im gonna stop now.USE YOUR HEART WISELY.

I'd like to meet:

real people, with passions and creativity and responsibility. no bible thumpers, republicans or biggots need apply. must have some measure of compassion and a soul, and be animal lovers! smart and savvy people, educated minds and enlightened ones light my fire, but a little silliness goes a long way. i like grown ups, who still know how to play! Im not your damn mommy, nor do i want to be. carry your own baggage, or better yet learn how to let it go...
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Music:

in general i like to chill to trip hop/mellow house (morcheeba, massive attack, sneaker pimps, lamb, portishead, kruder and dorfmeister, theivery corp, paul oakenfold, moby, tricky, dj krush) sometimes i get agnsty with rage, manson, eminem, L7, bikini kill,kitty, sleeter kinney, (old) hole, system of a down, alice in chains. i love old hip hop : digable planets, de la soul, tribe called quest, beasties, brand new heavies, grand puba, the roots, brand nubian, erik b and rakim, wutang, too short, eazy e, NWA, and old R+B: billie holiday, nina simone, aretha, stevie, al green, rufus and chaka, marvin gaye, prince will always be the man! roberta flack and (not so old) zap mama and erykah badu. i have punk roots that have extended to indie (k rock rules): Op Ivy, the clash, bad religion, social d, mr t experience, DK, descendents, melvins, agnostic front, green day and nirvana (yes they were punk at some point) primus, rancid, fugazi, to the emo side: weezer, shins, earlimart, flaming lips, goldfrapp, keane, snow patrol, creeper lagoon, built to spill. In constant rotation: three days grace, flyleaf, evanescense Janes addiction, dresden dolls, white stripes, coldplay, radiohead, rob zombie, nickleback, pj harvey, jeff buckley, mazzy star, ani difranco, morphine, mary prankster, lords of acid, blink 182, sublime, foo fighters, everclear, joan osborne, offspring, the beatles, zeppelin, chevelle, deftones...i like a smattering of world music. 80s top forty will always hold a special place in my heart.. not so into country (xcept patsy and johnny) and the little boy bands make me want to rip my hair out. since most of my shit is burned, dont quiz me on song names, cuz i never know. just sing it for me!

Movies:

la femme nikita (the real french original--not dubbed), eternal sunshine of a spotless mind, fight club, brazil, heathers, abre los ojos/vanilla sky, clerks, love & a .45, dangerous liasons, breakfast club, momento, fifth element, american history x, wild at heart, blue velvet. documentaries about cool shit. anything by jeunet (city of lost children, amelie), anything by jarmusch (ghost dog, dead man), tarantino for kicks (true romance rules) , monty python for laughs, almodovar to get twisted. lord of the rings, jet li, bruce lee and old jackie chan movies. real horror (28 days later, nightmare on elm st, the ring) ill watch anything with angelina jolie in it, even if its awful and same for viggo mortgenson.

Television:

kill it!........ok,ok, six feet under was awesome.

Books:

i majored in english so of course i read lofty material..sci/fi! ursula k. le guin, philip k. dick,william gibson, dan simmons,octavia butler, charles de lint, tanith lee, asimov, neil gaiman, tanith lee, storm constantine,jaqueline carrey, stephen king (gunslinger rules). i guess ive read some other stuff too...kafka, toni morrison, nietchze, camus, nin, allende, shakespeare,angelou neruda and rilke off the top of my head. faulkner, tom robbins, vonnegut. alice walker stole my heart and palahniuk smashed it to bits. I also like spiritual/new agey shit if its not too mamby-pamby, or actually makes me learn about life and myself: paulo coehlo, castaneda, HH, myss, weber, pema chodron, thich nat hahn.

Heroes:

Artists...those that have the balls and ovaries to create their own life passionatley AND take responsibilty for it, while still having compassion for the other beings that share the planet. fighters, metaphorically and otherwize. live it like it was your last, cuz it just might be.antiheros? ..just to put it out there: FUCK GEORGE BUSH AND IF YOU VOTED FOR HIM, FUCK YOU TOO!!
In Which Circle of Hell Would You Reside? Your Result: Circle Five

The Wrathful or Sullen: You either could not control your animal passions or had none. You will be in the River Styx - either fighting or simply sinking to the bottom.


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How Will You Die?

MY RESULT: Devoured By Wolves


You’re not very cautious when it comes to unfamiliar places, and you tend to react fast rather than think things out. That’s why you’re gonna be wolf meat.
Studies have shown that you’re twice as likely to get hit by lightning than get attacked by wolves, so you’re a pretty lucky duck. When that pack of wolves starts hunting you down, try throwing rocks at them to ward them off. Don’t feed them anything or they might get aggressive when you run out of food. And don’t carry around any babies with you. Wolves love eating babies.

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mean people

Its true, mean people do fucking suck. especially when they supposedly love you. I hate you mean people. you make the world an awful place to be in. thanks....
Posted by joules on Sun, 11 Mar 2007 05:34:00 PST

untitled

i want to screamatyou openyou eatyou makeyouloveme likeiknowyouwannabut i sit here pretending diginity wishing every car that goes by was youI was fighting for not against youbut just like me, twiste...
Posted by joules on Thu, 16 Nov 2006 01:09:00 PST

promise

again andagain your words fall like snowflakeseach one new and beautiful and melting in a millisecondleaving a tiny, meaningless puddleof me.
Posted by joules on Thu, 16 Nov 2006 11:55:00 PST

haiku-ish

the wind she blows her secretsinpiring riots of desire and destructioni feel the jagged outline where your arms should be...
Posted by joules on Fri, 06 Oct 2006 09:20:00 PST

ode to my secret admirer

what kind of pathetic sick fuck jizzes on someones picture window? does my house look like the lusty lady? and if it does then where the hell is my money bitch? seriously if you have been watching ...
Posted by joules on Mon, 21 Aug 2006 12:24:00 PST