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Benjamin

Your focus is your reality... AND you get sexy results!

About Me


Here's what someone else wrote about me...
"He's smart, hillarious, witty, charming, thoughtful and REAL. He cares. He smiles at me when we have odd silences. He listens as much as he speaks. He doesn't rush. He knows just the pace to move. He's anxious, but he's humble. He's modest & yet so obviously confident. He smells sooooo good. He cooks me dinner & plays Brian Mc Knight songs to relax me. He knows my insecurities & doesn't use them to his advantage. He winks at me. He plays the piano. He loves to work on his house. He's a professional. He works hard and plays harder. He thinks of me. He doesn't TRY to impress me, he just does & knows it when he does. He is A MAN. He IS... everything I tried to make every other guy to be. He is... John (Benjamin)... my peace of mind & reason to smile." By: E.A.
Ooh wait, don't forget to check out my videos! Here's my little baby during play time...
Ooopsie!

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My Interests

Music | Playing Piano | Singing | Working Out | House Projects | Construction | Home Remodeling | Home Design | Dancing | Cooking | Pencil | Pastel | Charcoal | Friends | Studying | Guitar | Song Writing | Musical Composition | Writing

I'd like to meet:

Learned, consumed, dignified, structured, concerned, disciplined, stirred, balanced and simplified individuals.
Christine aka "Happy Slip" (www.happyslip.com) would be awesome to meet in person... She's highly entertaining for me, plus she seems like a really bright and creative person. This is my new favorite video from her...

Music:

R&B | Hip hop | Pop | Vocal | Alternative | Dance | Neo Opera | Neo Jazz | Jazz | Lounge | Acid Jazz | Accoustic | Latin | Soul | Strings | Blues | Neo Classical | Vocal | Mainstream Techno | Filipino | Classical | Broadway | Big Band | Flamenco

Movies:

Horror | Comedy | Animated | "G" Rated | Documentaries

Television:

This year marks my 8th year of not owning one... but I DO love watching Happy Slip!

Books:

Love, love, love self-help books!

My Blog

Coming Soon!

Check it out...www.URInterior.com
Posted by Benjamin on Fri, 16 Nov 2007 11:35:00 PST

Sealed the Deal

After 8 months of anticipation, and 3 months of research, I finally sealed the deal and my new car will be arriving in 2 days. I got the make, model, year, color, and options I wanted- miraculously al...
Posted by Benjamin on Tue, 13 Nov 2007 08:56:00 PST

A Smile On My Face

Recently, I posted some old drawings here on MySpace that I dug up while rearranging and cleaning my garage. I got positive reponses from my friends who were apparently unaware that I knew how to draw...
Posted by Benjamin on Tue, 23 Oct 2007 08:30:00 PST

Gut Feeling...

Sometimes it's strong, and sometimes it's faint- but it's there. We cease to recognize it to avoid the chances of being wrong and coming off as dramatic. We also avoid it because at the moment, things...
Posted by Benjamin on Mon, 22 Oct 2007 04:40:00 PST

Practical Lessons: Apologizing

Go ahead, say it, it's ok... You have nothing to lose when you apologize, but more to gain. You will: appease the person's anger, regain their trust, rekindle a friendship, set aside aspersions cast, ...
Posted by Benjamin on Mon, 20 Aug 2007 08:40:00 PST

Combination: Pale Skin / Dark Hair

In the past two years, I've developed a passion for the pale skin and dark hair combination. The flawless radiant glow of this skin tone seem to contrast perfectly with the dark coif. T...
Posted by Benjamin on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 11:05:00 PST

White Teeth

So it's the third night in a row that I've used my teeth whitening gels with my mouth trays... and the results? ZIPPO!!! They've either decreased the then-22%-carbamide-peroxide to a lower percentage....
Posted by Benjamin on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 10:20:00 PST

Someone Will Bleed

Like a fine pointed dagger piercing the flesh, irresponsibility has a price. It may cost you your time and money- but it could also very well be at the expense of others. Rest assured, someone will be...
Posted by Benjamin on Thu, 19 Jul 2007 11:09:00 PST

Progress

I haven't compromised to regress in my progress. Don't stress, I always settle for more... never less.
Posted by Benjamin on Wed, 18 Jul 2007 04:13:00 PST

I'm Anal

Many times I have been told I'm anal- this has never bothered me until late. Recently, I've observed and taken to account the reasons why people label me as "anal". Granted, there ARE things that I do...
Posted by Benjamin on Mon, 09 Jul 2007 03:39:00 PST