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Mark

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

  There is so much beauty in life just waiting to be explored, especially in the realm of relating. I am looking for other adventurous souls to discover them with. I am interested in discovering what is possible between human beings who share themselves fully. Imagine for a moment that we have been given an unimaginably gracious gift called life, and complete freedom and choice about how we live it (with full honesty and integrity, of course). How much FUN can we have? How much love, joy, intimacy, and creative Self-expression can we experience? How can we support one another in that quest? What if, for a time, we became partners in this exploration, this unfolding majesty of Self-discovery we call "life?" These are the questions that define my life. I am 34, 6'2", 190, with no major deformities or extra limbs... I have a quick mind that is endlessly investigating the experience of being human. Life is a wonderful thing. I mean, think about what it would be like without it?... (ouch my head hurts all of a sudden.) Oh yeah, and an outrageous, off the wall sense of humor. I am passionate about life and living it fully. I love my life, my friends, my writing, and everything else I can think of ;-) Let me ask you: When I look into your eyes, will there be someone real looking back? That is what matters. Life is much too important to be serious about it, and much too short not to enjoy it fully! I am not looking for a white-picket fence. I am interested in the quality of our experience together, not its form. What I want is rare and unconventional. Perhaps it speaks to you. Perhaps you see something possible for your Self in my words. If so, I have written this for you, to open the doorway to our meeting. Now, as in every moment, it is your move…. I was told this profile would be incomplete without including these words to describe my Self: integrity, audacious, honorable, tenacious, loyal, fun-loving, brilliant, adventuresome, and “for your soul.”

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

I am looking for a woman who knows who she is and wants to share her whole self intimately with someone who knows who they are - Just for the sheer joy of it! You know that you have nothing to lose by sharing all of who you are to the edge of what you don't even know yourself to be yet. How deep can we go? What could possibly stop us...except ourselves? You are looking for someone who will not stop... On the practical side, you are self-confident , adventurous, attractive, fit, and excited about the adventure of being alive! You are looking for someone with whom you can celebrate your life, not commiserate about it. You are not looking for someone to "complete" you, but to challenge and encourage you to get more from each day. I want my partner to be fully Self expressed, true to herself in every way possible! I want her to feel that she becomes MORE when she is with me. I want to support her to discover who she IS and who she CAN be. I want her (and me!) to be free to live BIG and ENJOY life more than she ever thought she could. The purpose of spending time with someone is to ENHANCE and multiply our joy and love. I think the downfall of most relationships is that the partners try to limit/control their partners Self expression and have unspoken and non-negotiated expectations. People have these elaborate visions and pretty pictures of what the relationship "should" look like. If the relationship looks like the picture, it is good. If it doesn't look like the picture, it is bad/failure. Then, instead of rejoicing in the beauty and idiosyncrasies of their partners, they judge them by how well they fit the picture! And then they call this Love!!! When we support each other to discover/be WHO WE ARE, instead of trying to make each other fit our pretty little picture (which was probably designed when we were 8-9 years old anyway!) we set the stage for Love, Intimacy, and Self-realization at the highest levels. THAT is the game I want to play! Wanna Play?! Â