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About Me


What can I say? I am dog groomer at a local kennel here in Luray. I grew up in a vet office, my mom being a vet and my dad being a groomer. After trying many different trades I kind of just fell into this and I have to say I am quite satisfied with it. It leaves me plenty of time to do what I love most which is playing with my beloved 4 yr old son who is my world. No more long commutes and ten hr days wishing I could be at home. No sir now I work an average of six hr days, drive 5 minutes home and have plenty of time for my boy. Most of my days are the same. Work, home, play, dinner, maybe TV or a good book, then sleep. The weekends are spent with my father and son, the Matthews super trio. Nothing makes me happier than a cool breeze off a mountain. I love hunting, fishing, camping, hiking, tracking and the outdoors. Generally anything that takes me outside and into the woods. I am not a redneck though, as one might think. I actually have intelligence, am an environmentalist and I also have many skills beyond country living.
I love animals, for dinner or for pets. They all have their purpose. I grew up with my parents having a farm. We had everything from sheep, llamas, steer, rabbits, goats, camels, etc. My mother is a veterinarian, animals were always around everywhere I turned. My dad is a groomer so it was normal to be surrounded by animals at any given period in my life. I have a great family by the way! I am such a family man.
I love hunting, hiking, camping, tracking, occasional drinking, good food, hard work, home cooking, kids, legos..hehe. I love when IA dog comes in who hasn't been in in forever and is totally matted and nasty, and I can shave him down, clean him up and know that I made his life better at least for a while. Then you also have the ones who come in on a regular basis, who you get to know and develop a relationship with, they come running up and are happy too see you and i just cant help but smile. Wood burning, transforming old furniture into beautiful work. Fishing, spending time with my dad - who is the greatest man Ive ever known. Playing with my son who is the heart of me. Just being a Matthews man from Luray. I like to drink only on the weekends, I hate being around loud mouthed drunks. (High school is over guys.) I am very much a hermit, I like staying home and playing with my son, watching movies from the couch. I love most types of music, old rock and some new. I do not listen to country music, hip hop or christian music. I am an athiest/pagan/panthiest . The earth is my Goddess and the woods my church. You could say that I am a true pagan without the robes, candles and naked dancing around the fire.....well ok, maybe if nobody is looking. I tend to be the silent type of guy, I always figured you learn more by listening than talking. I once was a nuclear engineer but it wore me out. Im just not cut out to live on a submarine with nothing but men. A man needs a woman by his side, not another man. I am not homophobic but it just isn't my choice. Men can date all the men they want, it leaves more women to go around for the rest of the world....haha.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Friends from the Navy, old high school friends and people who are interesting as well as family. I want to make friends with men that are men, women that need to be loved and open minded people. My son is not immunized and will be home schooled so I wouldnt mind meeting like minded parents.

My Blog

Expanding of self

Only through loss can love be understoodI sit now and know I never could As I float through a transcendental spaceNow knowing my love has no real face This freedom to not love one but allThis wonderfu...
Posted by on Mon, 16 Mar 2009 12:33:00 GMT

A mothers plea

My name is mother my name is earthYet you  use and destroy me with unconcealed mirthI give you sustenance I give you life In return I receive not love but strifeYou take and take without cause Never s...
Posted by on Sun, 15 Mar 2009 21:03:00 GMT

Just Venting

  I am sick, sick deep down in my heart and soul over the state that this once great country is in.  The part that hurts the most is that we as Americans and yes I mean every fucking one of ...
Posted by on Tue, 20 May 2008 10:56:00 GMT

Animal rights activists are out of control

Animal rights activists are out of control.  I understand that this will probably piss a lot of people off, but I have had enough  and cannot hold my tongue any longer.  If you are read...
Posted by on Mon, 19 May 2008 10:16:00 GMT

Some ideas on a gluttonous world.

Hmm&&.. Lets see where too start, first and foremost you should realize that I am a simple man. By simple I mean I do not require much to make me happy. In this ever changing world we live in I do be...
Posted by on Wed, 09 Jan 2008 11:13:00 GMT

Essay on Inactivity

Essay on Inactivity  This world we live in today is plagued with a disease I like to call inactivity.  Its not that we as a people do not care about the atrocities that happen every day in ...
Posted by on Sat, 16 Jun 2007 12:56:00 GMT

New song lyrics

  I heard this song and it amazed me that a song written 30-40 years ago could still hold so much truth.  It's also a little sad that in this much time we as a country are still making the s...
Posted by on Thu, 15 Mar 2007 16:06:00 GMT

Song lyrics that move me.

This will be an ongoing projest of mine. I listen to a station on satillite radio that is called classic vynil. It has made me remember that songwriters used to actually say something worth listening ...
Posted by on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 13:11:00 GMT

Gas and govt.

I drive 120 miles to work every day (round trip), so gas prices affect me very much.  The real question is if the oil companies are greedily gouging the people of the world. I think the answer to...
Posted by on Sat, 30 Sep 2006 13:15:00 GMT