"The more things change, the more they stay the same."
I'm not sure who the first person was who said that. Probably Shakespeare. Or maybe Sting. But at the moment, it's the sentence that best explains my tragic flaw: My inability to change.
I dont think I'm alone in this. The more I get to know other people, the more I realize it's kind of everyone's flaw. Staying exactly the same for as long as possible, standing perfectly still... It feels safer somehow. And if you're suffering, at least the pain is familiar. Because if you took that leap of faith, went outside the box, did something unexpected... who knows what other pain might be out there, waiting for you. Chances are it could be even worse.
So you maintain the staus quo. Choose the road already traveled and it doesn't seem that bad. Not at far as flaws go. You're not a drug addict. You're not killing anyone... except maybe yourself a litte.
When we finally do change, I don't think it happens like an earthquake or explosion, where all of a sudden we're like this different person. I think it's smaller than that. The kind of thing most people wouldn't notice unless they looked at us really close. Which, thank God they never do.
But you notice it. Inside that change feels like a world of difference. And you hope that is it. This is the person you get to be forever... that you'll never have to change again."-Everwood
People who make me laugh or swoon
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adopt your own virtual pet!
I have way too many favorite bands to name so I'll just say I like anything that gets my head bobbin or my appendages flailing
I like movies a lot although I am quite a slacker on seeing the ones I want to. So, I have a long list of things I want to see. I should really get on that...
Friends of course and Heroes is pretty much AMAZING
The Giver, Sophie's World, all of the Harry Potter books, Of Mice And Men, The Giving Tree, The BFG, Tuesdays With Morrie. I'm sure there's a ton more. Well, there should be anyways, I AM a lit major...
The parental units. They're super. My friends for being there for me and acting the fool when I need a laugh. Anyone who can amaze me and/or challenge me to be better,and don hertzfeldt...
and this guy...
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