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HoTgUaDaLuPe

INSATIBLE

About Me

Iaorana!! I've always liked a challenge......... Chase me!!!! I dare ya.The worst times in my life have been when I've allowed other people to define me!!!!!!! I enthusiastically overaccessorize & overanalyze. I have a weakness for icecream! Trust is on the top of my list. Betray me once and it will take a great deal of time to win my attention and favor again. I enjoy people that are just a bit wacky. I have a strange and sarcastic sense of humor and appreciate those that I can match and laugh with it at length. Everyone I know is a reflection of some part of me! shy extrovert, tolerates zero B.S. I don't prejudge,(i do follow my "intuitive vibe" A.K.A 'good old gut feeln'.....if it looks like and smells like s**t, it usually is!) still not sure what i want to be when i grow up ...... I might make you laugh, but no promises. the more friends the merrier. I'm a pretty kick back kinda girl. Have been told that I can be a bit intense. I love to get people togeter and then do stuff.....random interuptions always apply. A life of loving that has not been limited by gender(I feel that I can love someone for who they are as a person rather than what gender, color, social rank, or any other "label" they may have "stuck" to them)....i'll usually always cut to the chase! I have found in my own life, that I tend to attract many non-traditional friendships, with really very diverse people, diverse ethnicities, backgrounds and ages...... button-holeing is the cruelist fate for an Aries! "in order to have depth, one must have a surface."i crave positive/new energy, expression, experiences, HONESTY and communication. always transitioning, morphing and evolving, i am a trailblazer and appreciate all that life hands me. my ideology of love and relationships is a little unconventional, thus i surround myself with open, honest, creative thinkers quite the social butterfly, im known for fluttering around many different social events, circles and scenes. i find pleasure in learning from every encounter, loving without expectation, challenging typical boundaries. i often burn my candle at both ends, though couldnt imagine being any other way?"after awhile you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn't mean security, and you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises, and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child, and you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans.... and you learn and you learn... with every goodbye you learn. " Pain is the touchstone of spiritual growth. Misery, however, is totally optional.
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*******MAKANAOKEAKUA******* (heres our recent trip to maui for two weeks, malea and cassidy play'n by the water!)

My Interests

DAMON JESSEE (14) & MALEA SYMONE MAKANAOKEAKUA (8) MUCH love, respect and "interest" there! they are so very beautiful and fill my heart with happiness!!!XOXOXOXOXOXO Mr manuel armando nevarez III WHO HAS CAPTURED MY HEART AND SMILE! Creativity, Laughter, Self Expression, Alter Egos!! Hyperactive Dialogue, Camping, Community, Dancing, Bouncing up and down, Kisses, Skinny Dipping, Chocolate, Sunsets, oil wrestling....lol, 'all night' Conversations, Participation, Evolution, Friends, Toys, Sound Effects, Cuddling, More Dancing, back rubs, front rubs, LOVE bites, hula hooping, teaching by example, traveling with friends, FLIP-FLOPS, BOI's in boxers who kiss softly.ocean views, JANKY adventures, soulful connections, RED things, sunrises, ....still kissing , 'last minute' road trips with friends/family, pampering others, being pampered, Motivation, ice cream, platform shoes, motorcycle rides, generosity, Malea's sweet belly laugh!! when Damon takes time to spend the afternoon with me, his sense of humor is goodtimes (he musta got it from his momma)cooking and eating with friends, moon-gazing, physical exertion, thoughtful and provocative dialogue, late night walks in the woods while the moon is bright, janky homemade drinking games with my homeies! tribal/fusion bellydance! tahitian/hula! reggae on the river CAMPERS!xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo Island life, and the aloha spirit. Samoa, Fiji, Tahiti, Maori, Tonga, and the Hawaiian cultures and dances make me move and smilei wear hair like jewelry "hair today, gone tomorrow".........love it!! BoDy ArT! my TATTOO GOD! (http://www.mariodelgado.com/) spontaneity, general chaos and high-fives. I listen to sad songs when I'm sad and they suddenly make sense :) summer is my favorite season. I sing at the top of my lungs when I drive. I look forward to getting older and wiser with my best friend who will hold my hand just because! Silence is sometimes necessary...... WaNdEr wHeRe ThErE iS No pAtH.

I'd like to meet:

"BOXES" terrify me, so if you live in one..... BEAT IT! HOW ABOUT.......sexually unrepressed...life-loving limit pushers.....kind of dangerous...mysterious too? :) i know........ TROY POLAMALU! ok ok reality breaker.... people who interrupt themselves, those who go to shows by themselves, bad spellers!! people in it for the long run. a calming influence, an ambitious dreamer!!! Possibly someone decadently sexy, that could melt the clothes off a monk!!! YAY can i get a AMEN on dat! id like to crash into anyone with an amazing capacity to live life joyfully, with a perfect touch of kindness and goodtimes humor.......KISSERS step forward!

people who like ridiculousness, people who can stand on their own two feet. people who appreciate the little things. people who value community, people who don't define themselves or others by how they lOOk. people with good boundaries who know when not to complete circles. people who are good at being random and spontaneous without being irresponsible. SMARTasses!!!!!!!!! peeps with good manners & can utilize these skills when it matters. people who are unconditional, open-minded...yet strong in what they believe in...and willing to stand up for others. unexpected people from the past can be good times too. macaroni art enthusiasts.....peeps who can back up that sexy hat!! it never hurts to meet somewhere outside and get a little dirty :0 ROCKSTARTISTS ....YO. BUT IN THE MEANTIME........ I have MET and married my long lost insatiable MAN! I LOVE YOU and thankyou for welcoming me and my children into your life with such love and affection! xoxoxoxo

i "might" have enough time to meet him too

Music:

BRING ON THE DRUM AND BASS "FUSION" in music and motion! REGGAE and dancehall, old and new skool hip=hop, DRUMS of the islands ive danced on and off over the last four years at the international school of dance. always a joy when i was able to stay in the area! Kumu Mahealani Uchiyama... (mahea.com)

Movies:

hmmm ..........im not much on movies. but if its got some hot- mushy- love story line or gonna scare the crap out of me ill stop and watch. espeacially with my cuddle-hubby! i cry every time i watch forrest gump and charoletes web! i do like old school musicals(and new)............being raised by my grandma who was a dancer i watched many musicals(seven brides for seven brothers, the king and i..............the list goes on) to all my fellow ROAD SODA film watchers........thats good times yo!
You Are 50% Weird
Normal enough to know that you're weird...
But too damn weird to do anything about it!

Television:

i like gathering with my friends and watching bad TV, late night "hook-up" shows. (blind date has me roll'n) whatever makes me laugh,(who has seen CHEATERS???) a good documentary.... just to make you go hmmmmmmmm? always down for an old showing of the muppet show.

Books:

The History of Sexuality, LOVE SIGNS(we pass that book around like cheap candy lol), my Dr. Seuss collection........read it out loud, come-on ....faster.
Your Birthdate: April 6
You tend to be a the rock in relationships - people depend on you.
Thoughtful and caring, you often put others needs first.
You aren't content to help those you know... you want to give to the world.
An idealist, you strive for positive change and dream about how much better things could be.

Your strength: Your intuition

Your weakness: You put yourself last

Your power color: Rose

Your power symbol: Cloud

Your power month: June What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Heroes:

"reality must again reign champion" My Kids.....

MY Details

Status: Scrubs need not apply!
Here for: Keeping in touch
Orientation: Homophobic.......SIKE
Hometown: BUMPASS+SF=disfunctional but diverse
Body Type: CUDDLElicious
Ethnicity: Italian Latina
Religion: recovering catholic
Sign: RAM and ready
Smoke / Drink: Aflac!
Children: no more babbies daddies lol. i love my kids xoxoxo
Education: Yes, I have one
Occupation: SELF-EMPLOYED and loving it!..

My Blog

RELATIONSHIPS.......never ending question

Sooo its been asked more then a few times recently.  What would be that perfect partner or match be that would just make the cake?(mind you i like my cake with many layers LOL)Okay so the essay q...
Posted by HoTgUaDaLuPe on Mon, 23 Jan 2006 03:27:00 PST

LIES???

What is your meaning of honesty?  Is it simply not lying to people? Is it calling a spade a spade? Is it not putting up with any shit? Is it opening your life to everyone? There is no need to hav...
Posted by HoTgUaDaLuPe on Thu, 16 Mar 2006 12:33:00 PST

DaNcE

"Dance is a metaphor for life. Once we are born, we are destined to move in life through time and space. As we learn to dance, we are also moving through time and space. Thus, learning to dance brings...
Posted by HoTgUaDaLuPe on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

hmmmmm

"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
Posted by HoTgUaDaLuPe on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

BoDy ImAgE

Women's Health Issues: Body Image (Posted 5/02; last revised 1/16/03) The pressure on women to look and behave in certain ways is so deeply ingrained in our psyches that its easy to overlook th...
Posted by HoTgUaDaLuPe on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST