I am selfish and judgmental, and think way too much for my own good, but I truly care about the people close to me. And I like to have (an innocent) good time ;)
People who:
a) accept and understand my quirks and idiosyncrasies;
b) can make me laugh. a lot. ;
c) have worthwhile things to say.
d) are as enveloped in music, movies, and literature as I am. *
* denotes an optional, added bonus.