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Stifflers Mom has nothing on me!

girl all the bad guys (& girls) want!

About Me

Time for a proper rehash of this… well, I nip-&-tuck the profile as I go along but I no longer feel that being an alumni of Nottingham Uni is particularly what defines me. The most important person in my life is my daughter, Isabelle, who is now almost 1! Isabelle can now confidently stand holding onto something, and its just a matter of confidence now to stand unaided... she has brief moments of 'free stand' before wobbling over. She's also just cutting her very first tooth!Having gained a degree, I continue to keep my options open, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I gain a place on a council run short foundation course getting into the area of playwork - I'm quite excited about finding a direction and the opportunity to learn some new things and, of course, the prospect of earning money!Also spend time looking through the ‘houses to rent’ ads as well, as I’m hoping this autumn to move into my own little place with my princess. Parents has been a good place to get my head together after PND… but now I’m fighting fit, and itching to get on with life (an invigorating experience!)I’m lucky too, as ‘Grandma & Grandpa’ try to be on hand for a spot of babysitting so that I can occasionally get out ‘n’ let my hair down (what good is it to cultivate the milf image if you never go anywhere? – lol!). So I enjoy going to Black Planet
and The Coven
events in Bedfordshire… and when I head further afield it’s to Redeemer
in Leicester, or Psycle
in Nottingham!Beware when I’m out ‘n’ about – I can go a little crazy… snuggling up to pretty girlies and sexy guys is one of my specialities ( Mr Jaz
you KNOW what you do to this ‘lesbian’!!!) Other activities include wiggling, foot stomping, cat scratching and boobie admiration!

My Interests

PANDAS! music, reading, theology/philosophy, travel, spirituality, tripping, wine, cooking, art, conservation issues, children, education, humanitarian issues, fishing, partying among other things...

I'd like to meet:

Eddie Izzard - I love his humour, I'd probably be a bit tongue-tied when I met him, but it would be cool nonetheless. I'd like to meet Jesus too, maybe have Muhammad and other spirutal people round for a dinner party - lol - i would be very interesting to hear it from the horse's mouth and see what was orignally meant... (tho I'd either need a babelfish or quickly learn aramaic and arabic!)As for who I'd like to meet in a dating/friends sense; well I'm attracted to people who have dreams, ambitions - they can see this world for what it is, and see how they might want to change the bits they may not like. Maybe someone with poetry in their soul, who can see layers in people. And someone who loves to live life - loves dancing like no-one's watching or even showing themselves off. A person who sees dark & light in others & can accept it. I want someone to challenge me, but support me. And its not ALL about sensuality & physicality - but that is important to me... I want the whole package! They also must be either bi, or curious - although sexuality is all a spectrum of varying shades and hues... I respect everyone's right to who they want to be - but to be with me, they need to respect me (& know that when I'm in love I'm the most true and loyal person... trust is more important than monogamy) Tall order? Maybe, but I'd reciprocate all this to the one who fits the bill.

Music:

NIN, Infected Mushroom, Apotyma Bezerk, The Killers, the Editors, KT Tunstall, Madeline Peroux, RHCP, Rob Zombie, Scissor Sisters, Afro Celt Sound System, Rammstein, SOAD, Mr Scruff, Sisters of Mercy, Lacuna Coil, Cruxshadows, Vitalic, VNV Nation, Pixies, Pantera, No Doubt, Metallica, Leftfield, Marilyn Manson, My Ruin, Gorillaz, Sisters of Mercy, Nightwish, Fischerspooner, Death in Vegas, Juliette & the Licks, Nitin Sawney, Neuroticfish, Delirious, Switchfoot, Combichrist, Thievery Corporation, The Gossip, Afro Celt Sound System, Rob Dougan, Goldfrapp, Emilie Autumn, The Orb, Shpongle, Ting tings, Lords of Acid, Marilyn Manson, Andy Flannagan, Massive Attack, Moby,Lamb, Depeche Mode, Soft Cell, Kosheen, .... get the general gist? But please introduce me to new stuff (or new to me at least if you think I'll enjoy... as long as you don't just randomly add your band myspace without talking to me you blatant publicity whores!!!)

Movies:

TANK GIRL, Stealing Beauty, Donnie Darko, Beetlejuice, Road to Perdition, Old Boy, Last Samurai, Shakespeare in Love, Labyrinth, Saw 1&2, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Corpse Bride, Phantom of the Opera, Interview with a Vampire, Lady Vengeance, Howl's Moving Castle, My Friend Totoro, Vampire Hunter D, Human Traffic, Gossip, Battle Royale,Stardust, The Pillowbook, ALL St. Trinians films, Ratatouille, The Wedding Date, Death at a Funeral any Muppet related and the 3 'Pirates of the Caribbean' movies.... and many more!

Television:

Just watched the 1st episode of Bruce Parry's new series "Amazon", and it was FANTASTIC, so I'll be tuning in for the rest of it. Also really enjoying the 2nd season of "Dexter". Interested in the new version of "Merlin" thats coming up, and quite enjoyed the 1st installment of "Tess of the D'Urbervilles"... recently though I've made a concerted effort to look up things I really want to see and spend spare time reading, listening to music and doing brain training... much more fulfilling!

Books:

Anne Rice, David Gemmel, Terry Pratchett, Phillippa Gregory, Shakespeare, books on spirituality/philiosophy/theology, NT Wright, Robert Anton Wilson - reading a book on an integral theory of philosophy and Patinjali's Yoga Sutras right now, stimulating stuff!!!

Heroes:

Dita Von Teese (just STUNNING!), Betty Boop (lol), Eddie Izzard (epitomy of cool), Gwen Stefani (all her own style, all her own way!)

My Blog

Lords of Caregasm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f046MhdnmQc Haha, Was feeling low about my car being fucked today - but Jaz sent me a vid of a remix of Anita Ward's "Ring my Bell" on YouTube.... then I found...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Tue, 26 Aug 2008 07:23:00 PST

Lithium

It's easy to lose who you are, and who you would like to become in this world.  The line "he/she fell in with a bad crowd" is the worst line in the history of making excuses in my opinion.  ...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Wed, 30 Jul 2008 04:09:00 PST

Driving you home

It's funny how Even now You still support me after all of the things that I've done You're so good to me Waiting patiently And isn't it sad that you still have to ask if I care? I never said I ...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Sun, 20 Jul 2008 05:10:00 PST

This is my transformation...

This is my transformation... you cannot tell me how to live... how to love... what to believe... do... or dress as... I am not what I was before... I take everything with me and mold it into a new me....
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Mon, 07 Jul 2008 04:56:00 PST

A night out...

Woo!  Had a great night out last night, went out to Black Planet in town.  Invited Gemma down from Notts for a bit of moral support meeting people; so we groomed and prettied ourselves up an...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Sat, 05 Jul 2008 08:22:00 PST

HOPE for the UK

Isaiah 51:4-6 (New International Version)  4 "Listen to me, my people;        hear me, my nation:        The law will go out fr...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Tue, 06 May 2008 04:38:00 PST

Making progress

Some days it seems as if I go 2 steps forward and 3 steps back& but (ah ha!) not today!  It was a beautiful sunny day (makes a change) & warm enough just for my kitten hoodie as a jacket so I...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Tue, 15 Apr 2008 01:23:00 PST

Stars are coming out tonight...

Domestic kitten&..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />   I never realised before how I can get satisfaction out of just the little things about the house. ...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Wed, 20 Feb 2008 09:50:00 PST

Endless Dream [Conjure One lyrics]

Not my words... I don't have coherent words right now... or at least I can be coherent I'm just incapable of being consistent in my thoughts currently.  Please forgive me, but there are times in ...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Sun, 06 Jan 2008 07:06:00 PST

As one chapter closes...

I got my results last week - I ended up with a 2:2 degree... not entirely unexpected, although I must admit I would have quite liked to get 2:1 but knew I wasn't going to get a 1st...  Though -lo...
Posted by Stifflers Mom has nothing on me! on Fri, 22 Jun 2007 06:41:00 PST