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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior(EVEN IF UR MARRIED TO HIM) Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.(BECAUSE IF U DONT MAKE A STAND, HE'LL WALK ALL OVER YOU) Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.(EVEN IF UR MARRIED TO HIM) Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle! If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better" (BECAUSE IT WON'T) You'll be mad at yourself a year(OR MORE) later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you! If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior(NEVER). Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.(ALWAYS PUT JESUS FIRST) Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man(NEVER)A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the ending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted(DO U KNOW WHERE HE IS ALL THE TIME) Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man(OR GET A PHONE IN UR NAME)Share this with other women and men You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
