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~Ivy~

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About Me

I'm the proud mom of an amazing 11 yr old boy. He is my heart, the love of my life. I've been a practicing Pagan for 7 years. My friends, family, and clan are the most important things in my life. My true home is at Mystic Moon, there I found my family. I'm a dancer in the tribal fusion belly dance troupe, Sabba. Though I am taking a break from performing, my troupe sisters are always there for me and I love them all. I'm also a huge Red Sox fan! After the birth of my son, watching the BoSox win it all was one of the best moments of my life. I want to live life and see what happens. I believe in honesty, and being true to yourself whomever that may be. If you can't be honest with me, can you truly be honest with yourself? The truth will come out eventually and is much easier to take up front. I am a passionate person which means I am intense in my emotions. I'm firm in my opinions, but always open-minded. Life is constantly throwing new obstacles in my path, but I always bounce back. When I am set to do something I will not easily let go. It's taken me a long time to get to this place in my life and I believe it's all happened for a reason. I do not add people I do not know, but if you are respectful I will chat with you. I cannot express this enough...NO HOOK-UPS!! Not into headtrips or drama, just real people and seeing what else life has in store. Take the quiz:
What is your Spiritual gift?

Healer
You have the gift of healing. This is very special because you can make the sick better. Either with Herbs or just be talking with a friend you always know how to make other feel much better.
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You Are A Lily
You are a nurturer and all around natural therapist.
People see you as their rock. And they are able to depend on you.
You are a soothing influence. You can make people feel better with a few words.
Your caring has more of an impact than even you realize. What Flower Are You? .. Read my VisualDNA ™ Get your own VisualDNA™
WORLD SERIES CHAMPS 2007!!!
Music is my life, and this music defines me and my life.
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A balloon fight at my 31st birthday party. I have great friends!
Balloon fight.
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This song explains so much about me.

My Interests

DANCING, cooking, reading (when I have the time), spending time outdoors, being with the ones I love.

Basics:
Name: Ivy
Date of Birth: October 19, 1976
Birthplace: Norwich, CT
Current Location: Virginia Beach, VA
Eye Color: Hazel
Hair Color: Medium Brown
Height: 6'0"
Heritage: 1/2 French Canadian, a mix of English, Welsh, Dutch, German
Piercings: Ears, tongue, belly
Tattoos: One planned for now
Favourite:
Band/Singer: See music
Song: Imagine
Movie: Say Anything or The Crow
Disney Movie: Alladin
TV show: Buffy The Vampire Slayer
Color: Blue
Food: Sushi
Pizza topping: Anything but onions
Ice-Cream Flavor: Cherry Garcia and Mocha Chip
Drink (alcoholic): Vodka and juice
Soda: Diet Mountain Dew
Store: Mystic Moon
Clothing Brand: Charlotte Russe, NY & Co for pants
Shoe Brand: Whatever looks cute and doesn't kill my feet
Season: Autumn
Month: October
Holiday/Festival: Samhain
Flower: Calla Lilly
Make-Up Item: Eye-liner
Board game: Whatever munchkin and I want to play
This or That
Sunny or rainy: It can't rain all the time
Chocolate or vanilla: Chocolate
Fruit or veggie: Both please
Night or day: The moon and stars speak to me
Sour or sweet: Both
Love or money: Love, money is too easily used instead of love
Phone or in person: Depends on who it is
Looks or personality: Personality lasts much longer than looks
Coffee or tea: Tea at night, coffee during the day
Hot or cold: Hot
Your:
Goal for this year: Put a new life together
Most missed memory: Autumn in New England
Best physical feature: Eyes
First thought waking up: Mmmmm, comfy
Hypothetical personality disorder: Distrustitis
Preferred type of plastic surgery: The kind that doesn't require surgery
Sesame street alter ego: Hmmm...I think I'm more of a muppet
Fairytale alter ego: The Little Marmaid
Most stupid remark: You mean today or all time?
Worst crime: Breaking someone's heart
Greatest ambition: Finally finding success
Greatest fear: Losing my son
Darkest secret: What I did to break that person's heart
Favorite subject: I like to discuss many things with intelligent people
Strangest received gift: A regifted children's book when I was in high school
Worst habit: Letting my emotions take over
Do You:
Smoke: No
Drink: YES!
Curse: Hell yes
Shower daily: Yes
Like thunderstorms: I LOVE them
Dance in the rain: The best time to dance
Sing: Too much in the car
Play an instrument: I'm learning the djembe
Get along with your parents: I love them
Wish on stars: As often as I can
Believe in fate: I believe it all happens for a reason, but we create our own fate
Believe in love at first sight: No, that is called lust
Can You:
Drive: Yes
Sew: Sort of
Cook: I love to, what are you in the mood for?
Speak another language: Nothing that makes sense
Dance: Check out the pics
Sing: Not well
Touch your nose with your tongue: No
Whistle: Yes
Curl your tongue: Just found out I can
Have You Ever:
Been Drunk: I can't even count how many times
Been Stoned/High: A few times
Eaten Sushi: Oh yes, and recently too
Been in Love: Yes, but scared to do it again
Skipped school: Back in the day
Made prank calls: No, that's lame
Sent someone a love letter: Several
Stolen something: A very long time ago
Cried yourself to sleep: Too many times
Other Questions:
What annoys you most in a person? Close-minded ignorance
Are you right or left handed? Right
What is your bedtime? Whenever I get tired enough to sleep
Name three things you can't live without: My son, my friends, dance
What is the color of your room? Brownish
Do you have any siblings? 2 brothers and a sister
Do you have any pets? 2 beautiful kitties
Would you kill someone you hate for a million dollars? Just because I hate them? No
What is your middle name? Marie
What are your nicknames? None anymore
Are you for or against gay marriage? For, love is love and expressions of love should be open to all
What are your thoughts ..ion? Not to be used as birth control, but a woman's body is her own
Do you have a crush on anyone? Maybe
Are you afraid of the dark? No, I love the dark
How do you want to die? Peacefully
What is the largest amount of popsicles that you have eaten on one day? I was never that big into popsicles
Would you take a bullet for the one you love? Without hesitation
What is the last law you’ve broken? Speeding
In a Member of the Opposite Sex:
Hair color: Dark
Eye color: Intense colors
Height Would love someone 6' or more
Weight Average
Most important physical feature: Smile and eyes
Biggest turn-off Ego, dishonesty, inability to communicate or connect
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I'd like to meet:

Interesting, open-minded people to chat with. Anyone willing to share ideas about life, love, religion, the universe, or even dance. Someone who can be HONEST about themselves, their feelings, and what they want. I do not need a relationship to complete my life. But it is nice to have someone special. I want to eventually find someone who can break this curse. I want someone to share my thoughts, feelings, and crazy ass ideas with. I want someone I can love who is head over heels for me and makes me feel it every day. Someone who builds me up just for the sake of it, not so they can tear me down again. Someone who believes in me and grows with me. Someone to stroke my hair when I don't feel well. Someone I can be silly with. Someone to snuggle with and talk all night long. Someone who takes my breath away and fills my day with smiles and laughter. Someone who understands the importance of all those silly little things. Someone who actually understands me, my life partner. In the meantime, I have my son, my friends, my family of the heart. I am content with that for now.

Music:

Mostly hard rock but I'll listen to almost anything including classical and jazz. Godsmack! Snow Patrol, Joss Stone, Billie Holiday, Lifehouse, Rob Zombie, Nickelback, Shinedown... and way too many more to mention here.

Movies:

Say Anything, Labrynth, Legend, Chasing Amy, Pan's Labrynth, Breakfast At Tiffany's, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Moulan Rouge, Radio, P.S. I Love You, 300, Talladega Nights, Gross Pointe Blank, Rent, The Crow

Television:

I finally have a TV again. I love Heroes and have become addicted to CSI. Buffy and Angel were my favorite shows ever.

Books:

Mists of Avalon, Harry Potter, To Kill a Mockingbird, Animal Farm, anything by Scott Cunningham.

Heroes:

People with big hearts who truly think of others and not what they can get from it. My friends and family of choice. My son! The smartest person I know. And the newest addition to the list, my dad. We have not always been close but I admire his strength, determination, and ability to love us no matter how bad we screw up. I love you daddy!
You Are Rogue
You're reluctantly special. In fact, you long to be normal.
You consider your powers to be a curse, and something you can't control.
Powers: absorbing other people's memories and abilities, weakening and killing people with your touch Which of the X-Men Are You?
You Are Elektra
There's really no superhero with more style than you.
Because who could beat being sexy assasin ninja? What Superhero Are You?
The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.
In love, you feel the most alive when everything is uncertain, one moment heaven... the next moment hell.
You'd like to your lover to think you are flexible and ready for anything!
You would be forced to break up with someone who was insecure and in constant need of reassurance.
Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage something you've always wanted... though you haven't really thought about it.
In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?
What Planet Are You From?
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You are Gobo Fraggle.
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My Blog

Ive been tagged by Jessie

Once you've been tagged, you must write a blog of 10 weird or random facts, habits, and goals about yourself (or bad luck and other undesirable stuff will undoubtedly occur.) At the end, choose 10 oth...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Mon, 25 Feb 2008 05:43:00 PST

Change for the sake of change

I get in these great moods, so happy that I am on the right path. Things are not perfect, they never will be. But just when I feel that I will be able to control my destiny, make things better, that d...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Mon, 11 Feb 2008 12:19:00 PST

Ignorance Should Be Painful!

Sometimes the pure selfish, close-minded ignorance that exists in this world baffles me. The people who cry for equality and diversity the most are sometimes the quickest to judge based on antiquated ...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Wed, 30 Jan 2008 06:32:00 PST

Similar...but not the same

MyHeritage: Family tree - Genealogy - Celebrity - Collage - Morph ...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Sun, 27 Jan 2008 07:21:00 PST

For the lost and the lonely

I can feel you out there, wanting to reach out. Something holds you back as you reach for a piece of hope just beyond your grasp. The light seems dimmer now, but trust that dawn is soon to c...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Tue, 22 Jan 2008 12:33:00 PST

A New Path

I have always loved paths, but lately the symbolism speaks to me more than ever before. I am on a whole new path in many ways. I am out to show the world who Ivy really is, faults and all. I no longer...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Sun, 20 Jan 2008 12:30:00 PST

One more bump in the road

Sometimes you take a chance and it works out perfectly. Sometimes you wonder about the path not taken. I was at the very bottom, no where to go but up. I was offered a job when I had absolutely nothin...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Sat, 12 Jan 2008 08:52:00 PST

Right around the corner

Over the last couple of years I have truly learned a lot about myself. One of the things I have learned is that I have good instincts and I should trust them more. There were times when I knew somethi...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Fri, 04 Jan 2008 04:39:00 PST

P.S. I Love You

It is funny to me how three words can mean so much. It is even more amazing to me how images on a screen can make you feel so much. I went with one of my best girls to see P.S. I Love You tonight. I h...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Sat, 29 Dec 2007 11:23:00 PST

When the world doesnt make sense

The death of Benazir Bhutto has has me thinking. As a feminist I was impressed by the first female Prime Minister in the Middle East. As an American I was intrigued by the struggle for democ...
Posted by ~Ivy~ on Sat, 29 Dec 2007 04:03:00 PST