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Mommie Abbie

Baby if we're gonna do it, come on do it right

About Me



4 In The Morning
Waking up to find another day
The moon got lost again last night
But now the sun has finally had its say
I guess I feel alright
But it hurts when I think
When I let it sink in
It's all over me
I'm lying here in the dark
I'm watching you sleep, it hurts a lot
& all I know is
You've got to give me everything
Nothing less cause
You know I give you all of me
I give you everything that I am
I'm handin' over everything that I've got
Cause I wanna have a really true love
Don't ever wanna have to go & give you up
Stay up till Four In The Morning & the tears are pouring & I want to make it worth the fight
What have we been doing for all this time?
Baby if we're gonna do it, come on do it right
All I wanted was to know I'm safe
Don't want to lose the love I've found
Remember when you said that you would change
Don't let me down

It's not fair how you are
I can't be complete, can you give me more?
& all I know is
You got to give me everything
& nothing less cause
You know I give you all of me
I give you everything that I am
I'm handin' over everything that I've got
Cause I wanna have a really true love
Don't ever wanna have to go & give you up
Stay up till Four In The Morning & the tears are pouring
& I want to make it worth the fight
What have we been doing for all this time?
Baby if we're gonna do it, come on do it right
Oh please, you know what I need
Save all your love up for me
We can't escape the love
Give me everything that you have
& all I know is
You got to give me everything
& nothing less cause
You know I give you all of me
I give you everything that I am
I'm handin' over everything that I've got
Cause I wanna have a really true love
Don't ever wanna have to go & give you up
Stay up till Four In The Morning & the tears are pouring
& I want to make it worth the fight
What have we been doing for all this time?
Baby if we're gonna do it, come on do it right
<[i>Me, myself, and I] Tall, light-skinned Pinay. MILF. I love to clean, cook, read, watch movies, go out to eat, shopping, hitting up the clubs/bars w/ the homies, travel... just living my life... I'm honest, nice (sometimes too nice), dorky, and a bitch (that bitch ya'll love to hate =P).
<[i>Ailani's Mommie] I am a 24-year-old Mommie to my spunky, silly, witty, gorgeous 4 year old daughter,
Ailani Minda Custodio Toledo
I love my life because she's in my life. She is what keeps me going. She is the person who keeps me motivated to do my very best. I need to do my best to be able to give her as much as I can.
Being a mother is such an unexplainable feeling its amazing. To be able to carry life in your body and to give birth is one thing, and being able to nurture, protect, and watch what you've brought into this world is another.
I love when she gives me hugs and kisses out of the blue and says: "I love you, Mommie"... It takes all stress, pain and worries away in an instant.
<[i>Making it happen one day at a time ] I have set many goals in life and when I look back I realized that I have pursued many of them. Although I became a mother at a young age I did not let it prevent me from fulfilling my dreams. I have a college degree, a stable job that hopefully will become a career or be a base of my career, and MARRIED. I'm all grown up. I pay bills and take care of my own family.
<[i>Family comes first.] I'm a mommie, wifey, daughter/in-law, sister/in-law, niece, cousin, granddaughter. I'd take a bullet for any of them. Nobody messes with my family!
<[i>My friends keep me sane.] I am a friend; even though I live a busy life I am always around for my friends. I'm always around for a shoulder to cry on or to listen and give advice. I'm sure that my friends do the same. And of course there are also those
crazy ass memories we love to make!!! Good times... Good times...
Gen.Gis.Mod.Abbs.Maridel - Label "names" created by Gen - not me!... lol
<[i>Maybe it's YOU, I've been waiting for All of my Life...] I love the father of my daughter - my husband (03July05). We've gone through hell and back... We've shared lots of laughter, silliness, frustration, intimacy, lots and lots of memories. Established 08June2000
Thank you GOD...
HOLLA AT UR GIRL... AIM sn: ailanismommie

My Interests

family.friends.music.dancing.chillin' like a villain.food (oooh yeah).teaching & learning. cleaning. LAMB - Love. Angel. Music. Baby. Harajuku Lover living my life to the fullest...

I'd like to meet:

People who are on my level... Someone I can learn from. Someone I can teach. Someone I can relate to. Someone that can make me smile & laugh. A fellow Mommie who's gone through similar obstacles that I have overcome. Someone I haven't seen or talked to in the longest time...

Other than that: GWEN STEFANI, KAYLANI LEI, ALESSANDRA AMBROSIO, LL Cool J

My Idol!!! I get to see her upfront June 29th, 2007 in RENO!!! Gwen Stefani rocks!

Music:

many different genres of music, from reggae, hip hop, r&b, soul, slow jams, old school jams, oldies, rock, punk rock, alternative...

Movies:

C L I C K (my current MOST FAVORITE!), Memoirs of a Geisha, Just like heaven, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Crash, Robots, The Notebook, 13 Going on 30, Sweet Home Alabama, White Chicks, Mean Girls, The Girl Next Door, The Hot Chick, KILL BILL I & II, 50 first dates, finding nemo, monsters inc., Star Wars, down to you, a walk to remember, she's all that (gotta love them chick flicks!), and the naughty ones too =D ANYTHING with KAYLANI LEI in it *oooh-weee!*

Television:

it's gotta be GILMORE GIRLS, HEROES, f-r-i-e-n-d-s, SEX in the City, desperate housewives, the simpsons, grey's anatomy, house, american idol, music video channels, FOOD NETWORK: 30 min. meals w/ Rachel Ray, shows that ailani loves to watch

Books:

the five people you meet in heaven, tuesdays w/ morrie, like water for chocolate, harry potter, magazines like entertainment, people, seventeen, cosmo girl, ym, maxim, GQ, Stuff...

Heroes:

my savior Jesus Christ, the loved ones: especially Ailani C. Toledo 3

My Blog

My recent Mommie moment

As most of us Mommies experience the busy, tiresome, routine work day (either at home or workplace), sometimes we get so caught up in our every day tasks that we don't notice how much we have accompli...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Wed, 09 May 2007 07:13:00 PST

10 Secrets to Fulfilling Relationships

~Taken from a fellow Xanga Mommie, I find it very true!~   10 Secrets to Fulfilling Relationships The first secret? the power of THOUGHT.Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think a...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Tue, 23 May 2006 09:33:00 PST

Before I was a Mommie...

    Before I was a Mom,       I slept as late as I wanted, and never worried about       how late I got into b...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Thu, 11 May 2006 04:52:00 PST

Are you in a healthy relationship? 14 signs of a healthy relationship:

1. Are not clingy or overly dependent and they can give each other space in which to do their own thing.2. Give each other emotional support and they don't put each other down in front of friends or f...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Wed, 03 May 2006 04:24:00 PST

Abbie the Mobile Notary!

Earlier this year I received my commission for my Notary license and in a few weeks I should be receiving my certification for being a Loan Document signing agent! YAY for me! =DWell I just wanted to ...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Fri, 14 Apr 2006 09:49:00 PST

Enough said.<3

And this is why we chose this to be our wedding song... The words are just beautiful. Because Of You -Keith Martin (and popularized by Kyla) If ever you wondered if you touched my soul yes you do Sin...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Tue, 04 Apr 2006 09:54:00 PST

The Best Kind of Love...

I read this from one of my Xanga Mommie's blog. I read it and it touched my heart. I can easily describe mine & Paul's love to be something like this: Best Kind of Love I have a friend who is fall...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Tue, 14 Mar 2006 01:05:00 PST

The coolest message I got on myspace

Just now I received a message from someone I didn't know. But it doesn't matter, because it made my day: hello i saw u in the cool people list and i started to read your profile and it was just so swe...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Mon, 16 Jan 2006 07:57:00 PST

Shes definitely a BIG girl now!

Paul and I are so excited that Ailani will attending her first day of preschool next Monday at Elan Esprit Preschool in Milpitas!   She went yesterday as a preliminary visit and she LOVED it! And...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Wed, 23 Nov 2005 11:22:00 PST

Only time can tell...

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived:Happiness, Sadness, Anger... and all the others, including Love.One day it was announced to all the feelings that the island wouldsin...
Posted by .aCustodioToledo. on Tue, 08 Nov 2005 11:28:00 PST