a single / divorced male- 45-60 years old. Looking for a long term relationship My perception of an ideal relationship: One characterized by trust,respect,and mutual support. There should be room for each individual to be an individual, to express their wants, needs,and preferences, and to have them respected. There should be room to grow, both as individuals and in the relationship. I have learned from past relationships that chemistry can be a beginning, but it is not in itself the basis of a quality relationship. I have learned to accept the bad that comes with the good, and to appreciate the good that I can find. I have also learned when it is right to let go of a relationship.