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About Me

I am a single man residing in the Lansing Illinois. I am 6'1" and weigh about 250lbs. I work as a payroll clerk. I am a simple man who is a single father working to do the very best I can to raise my daughter. A man who loves the Lord. A man who appreciates what Jesus has done for me. A man waiting for the one woman the Lord has chosen for me. A man who is not seeking a girlfriend but a life partner. A woman who is not just blessed with physical beauty but beauty which also radiates from the inside. A woman who will support me spiritually, stimulate me mentally, and excite me physically. A woman who will give of herself to me, as I desire to give of myself to her. A life partner who is also my best friend.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

I am open to try new things, which someone else may enjoy, which may be new to me. Flexibility in a relationship with someone is important. Even though someone new may bring an experience, which I may never have done, I may or may not enjoy it, but taking the time to find out is what matters. Actually just sharing it with someone makes things I do not like more enjoyableThough I like tall women, long beautiful hair, beautiful eyes, long legs, and a firm body, these are nothing more than physical attributes which I appreciate. Yes, they are appealing to the eye and get my attention more important is what draws me is more involved and more important than just physical qualities. It is how a woman carries herself, which really get my attention. It's not something, which is easy to describe or put into words. Basically it starts with how she moves. It's something about her spirit and her closeness with God, a woman of true character. It's also something in her eyes and in her smile. I can sit across the room and see something special in her. Sometimes person's physical attributes can send false signals but when you look past them to the inner person you will see if you have something to hold on to. I guess to really make it clearer it has to do with how a person respects herself. A woman can look fantastic but if they do not have character or moral fiber then they are just an empty shell. I would love to have a great package that is wrapped real nice but just like a Christmas present, no matter how well it is wrapped you still have to open it up to see what's really on the inside. Would a “Spa Treatment” be something you would enjoy? And before you ask, a “Spa Treatment” would start with my running you a nice hot bath and letting you sit and soak for awhile with some nice relaxing music playing. Then I would come and wash your hair giving it a good condition. Following by bathing you from head to toe. After drying you off, I will let you lie down on your stomach, get the lotion and rub you down while giving you a nice massage from head to toe. After I have made sure your total body is well lotioned and relaxed, I will take the towel down from your hair, letting you continue to lay and relax as I brush your hair out before I oil your scalp. Once your hair is brushed and oiled, I would give it a finishing touch but blow drying it on out letting the hot oil soak in. Once your hair is finished, if your desire, I will massage your body once more giving it the care and attention it deserves. Now if you desire anything else, please feel free to say so.

My Blog

Sex or Intimacy: Which Do You Desire?

Women are emotional beings who show their affection by touching and also by verbal expression, and they like those same kinds of feelings affirmed and reciprocated. The media recognizes that women are...
Posted by on Sun, 06 Jul 2008 21:19:00 GMT

A positive Thought

 Good Black Men are indeed all around us.  We pass them on the streets, in the malls, and at work.  Most we can't see because we don't know what a good man really looks like.  He u...
Posted by on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 07:47:00 GMT

Everyone Can’t Sit in Your Front Row

Everyone Can't Sit in Your Front Row Life is a Theatre - Invite your audience carefully. Not everyone is spiritual or emotionally healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some p...
Posted by on Mon, 18 Feb 2008 12:50:00 GMT

Valentine’s Day is a day for women to be appreciated

Why Women Cry A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him. "I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will." Later the...
Posted by on Thu, 14 Feb 2008 08:51:00 GMT

I am back

Been off site for some time but now I am back.  I appologize to all my friends for not being around but know I am back online.  Paul
Posted by on Fri, 08 Feb 2008 11:51:00 GMT

Being A Woman of God

Being A Woman Of  God Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gold mine you are doesn't mean you shine any less. Just because no one has been smart enough to figure out th...
Posted by on Fri, 02 Feb 2007 08:16:00 GMT

Foolish in Love

To me being foolish in love is a good thing when you are in love with someone who loves you as well.  But even more so real love to me is when your parners needs and desires are more important th...
Posted by on Tue, 11 Apr 2006 10:59:00 GMT