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STEPH

Timing's FUNNY. It could change EVERYTHING.

About Me

I'm a hard worker, striving to be better at what I do - whether it be DANCE, WORK, or being responsible. I have to work on it all. I don't EXPECT anything from anyone, because I get disappointed more than I should. So I just take things for what they are -feel what I feel. At the end of the night I'm always left with myself - my thoughts, my pen, and my paper...and an endless expression of feelings in words, bad and good. I'm WARM - I like to share with others. I LOVE to give LOVE. I'm NOT perfect. I know the only thing I could control is myself and my life. Everything else in the universe is decoration - attractive, sometimes unecessary, sometimes an illusion...but not a necessity. I breathe, sleep, eat, and am thankful for LIFE. Things just are the way the are...just because...live in it.

My Interests

Chocolate, candy, ice cream, vacationing in HAWAII: Lani Kai, Holy Smokes, business, Music: learning, challenging myself, T-SHIRTS and JEANS, weekly manicures, boutiques, HATS. Talking, talking, talking. AND sometimes, being really quiet and not talking at all. Sleep. FINDING LOVE and being loyal. Traveling. Makeup, Having FUN FUN FUN FUN, Shopping, Keeping things interesting. Surrounding myself with people who help me grow consistently. Disneyland - so so so so much. Being there for the people I love. Listening. Telling people I LOVE THEM because I love the way it makes them feel. Spending steph-kinda-time with them. Trying to be open to everyone in the world with who I am, the things I do, being me AND not afriad of admitting it. WAVES. Change. Taking risks despite what could happen. LIVING IN THE PRESENT. Working on to never SETTLE for less than what I'm WORTH...because sometimes I forget and I have to be reminded, loosing myself to something I love, dreams, my CLOSE friends who really know me, HI-CHEW and Haribo candy, learning, being different - being not like anyone else. Tanning in the REAL sun - hawaii.

I'd like to meet:

People who really are interested in me and what I do - who will really LISTEN, no distractions. Positive people who will encourage me to grow and grow with me. I will not be brought down. People who will laugh with me because I'm FUN. People who will be by my side. Interesting people to have conversations with. Anyone who will tell me an interesting story about their life.Let's MEET. I'm into it.

Music:

Alicia Keys, Christina Aguilera, Justin Timberlake, Robin Thicke, Usher, Musiq, Tamia, Fergie, Amel Larrieux, Erikah Badu, Fall Out Boy, Floetry, Gwen Stefani, India Arie, John Legend, Joss Stone, Lauryn Hill...HELLA MORE.

Movies:

Pirates of the Caribbean (ALL), Meangirls, Shrek(s), Pursuit of Happyness, Harry Potter(s), MOVIES that make me CRY, haha...Cartoon movies...Hella funny ones...

Books:

The ART of SEDUCTION

My Blog

GHETTO GLAM is a STATE OF MIND...USE your IMAGINATION...BLUSH TOMORROW!

GHETTO is a state of mindGLAMOROUS is a state of mindso come out and party like a STARGUESTLIST NOW OPEN!...
Posted by STEPH on Fri, 01 Jun 2007 06:28:00 PST

CHANGE BEGINS WITH CHOICE

CHANGE BEGINS WITH CHOICEby Jim Rohn Any day we wish; we can discipline ourselves to make important changes in our lives. Any day we wish; we can open the book that will open our mind to new knowledg...
Posted by STEPH on Tue, 30 Jan 2007 05:14:00 PST

Pictures

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Posted by STEPH on Tue, 28 Nov 2006 12:59:00 PST

"THE WAY I SEE IT" NO 160

Sixty-nine percent of all problems in relationships are unsolvable. They are about differences in personality or needs. They never change. When you choose someone, you have inherited the problems you ...
Posted by STEPH on Wed, 18 Oct 2006 04:09:00 PST

Expression

The water breaks at shore, with a rippling crescendo sound, creating an incandescent light from the spark we've made, and it splashes on the grains of sand, up shore...back down it, touching, teasing,...
Posted by STEPH on Sun, 10 Sep 2006 01:11:00 PST

Passion

Find something you love, something you have a passion for. Hold on to it, hold tight. Then strive for perfection. Youll find yourself dedicated to forcing yourself to be your best at this one thing,...
Posted by STEPH on Sun, 10 Sep 2006 09:09:00 PST

3 things

Is going back to something you use to do a tricka back tracka ballgame you play?Back on defense switched to offense once one of you scores?I think about replaying, rewinding, redoing thingsBut before ...
Posted by STEPH on Fri, 07 Jul 2006 01:26:00 PST

Watch

There is something bigger than a quarter sized star and faded sun tattoos. Above the fog that sits in Pacifica a baby blue sky spreads the heavens. Conversations that are dull have the poten...
Posted by STEPH on Tue, 04 Jul 2006 12:25:00 PST

So I remember...

I wrote this a couple years ago...09-24-04...Now it's one of the first entries in my new journal.  I read it often to remind me how I use to feel at a time in my life.  Writing enables ...
Posted by STEPH on Tue, 04 Jul 2006 11:39:00 PST

It's Better to be ALONE than in the wrong company

It Is Better To Be Alone, Than In The Wrong CompanyTell me who your best friends are and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eag...
Posted by STEPH on Mon, 12 Jun 2006 11:59:00 PST