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La Gloria

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About Me

MY BLOG: LA GLORIA

I'm Gloria and I was just devastated with my first gray hair last year. (It's been colored over now of course.) I talk, work, EAT, run, read, and write a LOT. Wake up yelling. Get up early and stay up late. (Have driven men and friends crazy with that one.) I have a very serious side and a very crazy side, you never know what you'll get...also have many MANY friends whom I love dearly and manage to exasperate daily with my latest adventure or cause. I can be smart and polished and then completely goofy. I am clumsy but won't stop wearing HIGH heels. I have been pulled over by a bicycle cop--WHILE DRIVING A CAR. In keeping with the stupid car stories: I was also angry texting an ex-boyfriend (you know who you are!) and I hit a car in front of me, which then hit the AMBULANCE in front of them. And yes, they were taking someone to the hospital.

I founded and ran a grassroots nonprofit in East Austin for Latina mothers (Latina Mami) for 7 years. Currently I'm on hiatus (if you can count *only* being on the board a hiatus...) and work as a disability advocate. Have co-hosted the “Mamis of Color” radio show on KOOP 91.7 FM for 7 years. Serve on the KOOP board, as well as several other committees/boards in town, mainly related to disability advocacy. Have an almost 9 year old who terrorizes me daily but whom I love endlessly. I was married for over 10 years to Shane, and we are still good friends and co-parent and share joint custody of our sweet boy. **Good friends is not a euphemism for "still physically intimate". As if!

What else? I own and manage rentals in town, also owned a carpet cleaning business that I started at age 20 and ran for 7 years. (Stopped when my son was diagnosed with a disability.) Will probably move back to small business after I go to law school...no, I don’t want to be an attorney, I just want to go! Although I am a bit of a Type A person and am somewhat competitive, I have the experience of being a high school dropout, being raised in a large Mexican family and getting married and having a child at a very young age. [Actually that experience was not much different than the norm: Mexican-American women have the highest birth rate of any other ethnic group, including all other Latinas. That’s not good or bad, it just is. AND THE LECTURE IS STOPPING RIIIIIIIGHT .....NOW!]

Is there anything you need to know about me??? I write and am being published (finally!) this year. My friends call me a MACHA in my personal and professional life. Ahem. I get very angry and work hard to make change but am trying to slow down and relax and FEEL things more. Have a long way to go before I am a truly evolved woman. Will it happen? TIME WILL TELL!


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My Interests

running, writing, talking, complaining, reading, dancing, disability advocacy, community organizing/development, mothering/parenting issues, office supply/technology porn.

I'd like to meet:

other SMART & fun-loving people. community organizers. mamis. people of color. white allies.

socially conscious people who actually work for change

people who are hip and intelligent but still appreciate a bad 80's ballad (think Atlantic Starr) or Mexican rancheras!

You get points if you can talk about the overrepresentation of minorities in the juvenile justice system, prison system, our skewed country, knows about colorism (not to be confused with racism), white privilege, etc. If that's too heavy for you, that's who I am. I can also talk about the latest Grey's Anatomy episode and my extensive shoe collection but how long can that last us?

If you are interested in dating me, know that I am only interested in someone who can keep up with me, who is interested in personal and political change, and who can plan things and stick to them. I have no time for anything else. I do not need or want another father for my kid, thank you very much! (We've got that covered.) Oh yes, and you'll need to read this entire box thoroughly and most importantly UNDERSTAND it before contacting me. Yes, I am demanding but OH so worth it. ;)

******"CHILDFREE" people need not apply*******This does not mean you have to have a child to talk to me, just don't look upon children as if they are unnatural, weird, or a burden. If you don't know about the childfree movement, LOOK IT UP.

Music:

Too many to name, but mainly soul/neo-soul/R&B. I have a soft-spot for 80s love songs (yeah i’m admitting it, life’s too short to be ashamed), maxwell, d’angelo, al green, grupo fantasma, morphine, ozomatli, john legend, earth wind and fire, marvin gaye, u2, stevie wonder, alejandro fernandez, juanes, thalia, nina simone, elvis crespo & costello, macy gray, johnny cash, lionel ritchie, ccr, tom petty, bill withers, goapele, inxs, bonnie raitt, babyface, armando manzanero, donna summer, manu chao, stevie nicks, rolling stones, mary j, red hot chili peppers, lavelle white, yuridia, janis joplin, tracy chapman, angie stone, blondie, la india, marc anthony, eurythmics/annie lennox, ging’bread men, sly and the family stone, lyle lovett, lila downs,gap band, etc. ..

Movies:

LOOK! It's one of my songs!!!!!URBAN COWBOY, I LIKE IT LIKE THAT

Television:

Ugly Betty, How I Met Your Mother, Cold Case Files, Brothers and Sisters, Destilando Amor, Dirty Sexy Money, Grey's Anatomy, ENTOURAGE!!!!!

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Books:

The Revolution Will Not Be Funded: THe Nonprofit Industrial Complex, anything by Ana Castillo; any leadership books, THE PROPER CARE AND FEEDING OF HUSBANDS by Dr. Laura haha; JAZZ by Toni Morrison; This Bridge Called My Back; Colonize This; HOW TO ARGUE AND WIN EVERY TIMIE, anything in the Dummies Line: Running for Dummies, Speaking for Dummies, Loving for Dummies, etc.

Heroes:

Elena.

My Blog

the amc

the amc I am so fucking tired. But the conference was awesome. The people were amazing, especially the women. I was part of the women of color with disabilities caucus and that was great. There was ...
Posted by La Gloria on Mon, 23 Jun 2008 08:09:00 PST

Latina Mami open meeting: Monday 6/30, 6pm

Latina Mami is pleased to announce its regrouping. Latina Mami was formed in 2000 by a group of Latina mothers in Austin , Texas . Our mission is to build healthy communities and support networks for ...
Posted by La Gloria on Wed, 18 Jun 2008 12:04:00 PST

Lawsuits Test Disabilities Act

Lawsuits Test Disabilities Act By Jane Zhang, The Wall Street Journal Last update: 7:06 p.m. EDT June 3, 2008   Two lawsuits now pending could open the door to many more claims u...
Posted by La Gloria on Sat, 07 Jun 2008 10:10:00 PST

Autism 101 for Mandated Reporters of Child Abuse

Autism 101 for Mandated Reporters of Child Abuse Abuse, whether it be against a child or adult, disabled or not, MUST ALWAYS be reported. If a mandated reporter suspects an abuse case that involves a ...
Posted by La Gloria on Thu, 05 Jun 2008 09:25:00 PST

Incite! Women of Color track at AMC Conference/ June20-22

A couple of us from Latina Mami are going to this. If anyone else is planning on attending, please send me an email! Thanks! -la gloriaINCITE! CO-SPONSORS WOMEN OF COLOR / TRANS PEOPLE OF COLOR TRACK ...
Posted by La Gloria on Fri, 09 May 2008 08:23:00 PST

Call for papers: Disability and Mothering

Demeter Press is seeking submissions for an edited collection on Disability and Mothering   Publication Date: Spring 2010 Editors:  Cynthia Lewiecki-Wilson and Jen Cellio   We seek...
Posted by La Gloria on Thu, 01 May 2008 12:45:00 PST

The Impact of Childhood Disability

I'm preparing for Aidan's next ARD as well as the ARDs for clients. To be done correctly, it's usually hours of prep and understanding evaluations, etc. so that you know where a child stands before a ...
Posted by La Gloria on Tue, 27 Nov 2007 09:12:00 PST

Eugenics and Disabilities

2 articles about eugenics and people with disabilities: The Abortion Debate No One Wants to Havehttp://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/200 5/10/17/AR2005101701311_pf.htmlwashingtonpost.co...
Posted by La Gloria on Mon, 26 Nov 2007 09:04:00 PST

my baby in the news again! inclusive ed story...

The stories are below, end of year and the first story several months ago. The articles don't talk about the effort that we put into his ed (a minimum of 10 hours a week), which is necessary to ensure...
Posted by La Gloria on Thu, 21 Jun 2007 08:32:00 PST

happy valentine's day to the boy! he's getting it!

Of course it's a commercial holiday. I hate red hearts. And of course people are spending more than they should. But I found myself at the store looking for something to make my baby boy happy. And fo...
Posted by La Gloria on Wed, 14 Feb 2007 03:19:00 PST