** I despise UNHEALTHY COMPETITION - Why do people feel the need to compete with another individual(s) for the attentions or affections of others? Come on now...if you have to go OUT OF YOUR WAY to be noticed, you need to get some counseling for your insecurities. If competing with another only frustrates you and makes you unhappy with yourself, you are being self-destructive. If you compete in order to be like the people you admire, striving to become "better," that's a whole different story!
** I despise LIES and LIARS- Online or off, I really loathe liars. Don't say one thing and follow it with completely different behavior If you're trying to impress people with lies, it's only gonna bite you on your a$$ later. If you feel the need to drop white lies continuously, you really need to stop and reevaluate WHY you opt not to tell the truth. Why do people lie about the small things in life? If you want to lie...for goodness sakes...make it worth my while! (sarcasm)
** I craveINTELLIGENCE- My man has to be intelligent enough to keep my easily bored mind stimulated. He can converse about anything, having a desire to share and a passion to learn more.
** I crave "BEAUTY" - My man has to be extremely appealing to my eyes because to me "looks DOES matter". I desire a very aesthetically pleasing man because I want a man that is complimentary to my physical so that we look "perfect" as a couple. I am extremely high maintenance so I love my man to be on par with me on that. Nothing is more attractive to me than a man that can rock a 3-piece-suit one day and wife-beaters & jeans the next. I prefer my man GQ with a lil street.
** I crave PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVNESS - I love my man tall (preferably 6.. up) and crave a toned & muscly physique. I prefer my man built "bigger" than being skinny. I love tanned complexions and prefer a caramel through to mocha complexion. I'm a Libra woman so the physical attraction needs to be hella strong for me to take a second glance...
** I crave "CHARACTER" - My man is a man who looks at life and its beauties & challenges as "character-building" opportunities. A man who faces life with the challenge of overcoming adversities and celebrating in life's joys. I desire a man who contributes positively to my character-building also.
** I crave PERSONALITY - I have an abundance of personality so my man would need to equal me on that. A man who lacks personality in his dealings with me, my family & friends or strangers in general will not survive in my world. If he fails to show any personality with those I cherish, he won't last very long in my domain!
** I crave CONFIDENCE & SECURITY - Nothing and no one intimidates me so I expect my partner to display the same level of confidence that I exude. My man will know his place despite me being in other male company...my man will never question my motives when it comes to male company...my man will be confident that he is Number One in my life. A confident man will know his worth and never question mine. A confident man will never have the need to compete for my attentions or affections.
** I crave CULTURE - I do have a preference for exotic men. I dont mind dating outside my race and think that interracial dating is a beautiful thing. I love learning about a different culture and sharing with him, mine.