mary

I am a free spirit, I enjoy people that live their lives the way they want to, go for their dreams and are positive. I can not stand the drama queens or energy vampires. I am a firm believer in Karma and I try to always see the good side of things. It drives my friends nuts; but it the way I am, always seeing the "bright side of life" If I get upset, I merely focas on what I have, healthy happy children, a nice home and my wonderful beasties. I also remove the issue that might be causing the negativity around me.
Years ago, I was a single mom, and I had to leave an abusive relationship when my twins were 9 mths old, moving into a digusting apartment complete with fleas and my girls teething and crying all night and thinking to myself, "well, at least they can cry and express themselves!" Yes, so I have been up and down, I was raised in a well off large family, given everything I wanted as I was growing up. I was not quite prepared for life as a single mom, trying to earn a college degree while raising twins, but I found that strenght inside of me, the same strength that the strong, stubborn Texas women in our family showed thru-out genations. AND I DID IT. I have learned that I am in control of my own life. We all have it in us to pull ourselves out of desperate situations. You have to do it, no one else can do it for you. If you are in an abusive relationship, there are so many avenues to go and so many people/centers to help you out, call me, speak to me, email me and I will show you the way......pls also visit www.bridgesnh.org to find resources in your area or call the 24 hr support line: 603.883.3044
Maybe my life will take another turn at some point, but this is my life and I will live it the way I want to.....
I enjoy nature, art and beauty. I dispise hate, ignornace, narrow minded people, and those that intentionally hurt others.
Goddess Info:
"Shh, nice girls don't talk about sex." Nonsense! Enjoying a healthy sex life can be as normal and natural as breathing. You may see some blogs or posting that deal with sex. That is because I work for Athena's Home Novelties. I am the team leader of the Shameless Hussys. Just call me Super Goddess!!! The company was created empower men and women with their own sexuality. We were never taught how to enjoy our bodies. A lot of us were taught to think of certain parts of their bodies as "bad" places. I hope I am here to teach you how to take back control of your bodies, realize your full sexual potential, and explore it! It is your body, you live in it, enjoy it! Learn how to spice things up. Enjoy your partner, Sex is a huge part of a relationship and I hope I can offer suggestions to you and your partner on how to enjoy each other, sexually. I am available to do home parties and I love the people at my parties, I've made many great friends doing it!! All parties sales are confidential, and all conversations in the ordering room are confidential, all part of the goddess vow we take. :) Ck out the website Athenashn.com/goddess/701. Add yourself to my email list! You will get coupons, hear about the lastest product and be eligle for specials! Input your full email list below and hit enter
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I also recently started a paranormal research group with a few friends. We seek to understand hauntings, find the cause and document them. ck us out on : http://www.paranormalandscientificevals.com-a.googlepages.co m/
I enjoy nature, water, the earth around me, under my feet. I could swim for hours and I brave the freezing waters of the Atlantic every summer. I enjoy snokeling and found an awesome spot to see many marine creatures. I also enjoy the local ponds, rivers and lakes.
Sometimes, I want to be a sex therapist, sometimes I want to be a wildlife rehabber and sometimes I want to be a mother of 6 kids, living on the land in a big old farm house. I guess one day, I'll decide......right now, I've got a few of everything going on and have to pay a mortage, BUT at least I do have my hands in some of the professions I am interested in.....
Well, thats pretty much me. 'You can love me or leave me but I'm never gonna stop......'-Madonna
Here is a poem I would like to keep reminding myself of this as well, as my girls grow up into the intelligent, beautiful, young ladies that they are....


Children:
And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, 'Speak to us of Children.'And he said:Your children are not your children.They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.They come through you but not from you,And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.You may give them your love but not your thoughts.For they have their own thoughts.You may house their bodies but not their souls,For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.-- Kahlil Gibran
Nonaisms: (my strong Texan grandmother) you might find me saying these and think i am strange....its partially due to my southern raising and my nona :) she is still alive and kicking...
-lazy bones, sleeping in the sun, how you gonna git your work done?
-quick like a bunny!
-if that was a snake, it might of jumped up and bit you nose!
-well, mary margaret, your mama married a yankee!!! (said frequently, when i would complain about my parents)
-well, seh/he was like a long-tailed cat in a room full of rocking chairs
-your mother would have a hissy fit!!!
-do you jump when he says frog?
her daddy was fit to be tied!
you want some sweet tea?
-If you've done it, it ain't braggin'
evil thoughts are like chickens--they come home to roost
-You're cute as a possum
i'll switch you!
I love my nona! -