Pretty much erased from all of this...
Here's something for you to sleep on :
Lose the situation but don't the lesson. If you're lucky enough, you'll have bad experiences in your life to make you a stronger and wiser person, those who don't, don't know what real life is.
Being posi takes all its sense in the difficult times. It's easy to say to stay posi when you never knew what were bad times.
Things are more appreciated when you've worked, sweated and fought for them. Things taste sweeter when you already know what it is to lose them and how it had hurt when you did.
The most enjoyable things are those that are hard to get. If it's too easy, you won't appreciate it as much and you will be fooled because you won't see the Truth that is to see.
If you say things will get worse, they will. So do the exact opposite and they will get better, maybe not now, but in the long run.
Being arrogant does not make you someone that knows life and people more than anybody else.
Being nice to everybody, even people that you think they're useless in your life, will be returned to you and is always more enjoyable.
Don't wait for something or someone to be happy. You make your own happiness and it all depends on you and only you. Nobody will never do it better than you and you're the only one to depend on to be happy. Don't wait to be happy.
Life starts with decisions...