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I'm looking for a counter part, someone to learn and grow with, someone whom I can respect and admire and be supportive TO, not support.
Someone whom I can share this adventure called Life.
Everyone is searching for that one catalyst
That one person that can keep that fire alive
The soul of another who can enhance the beauty of its flame
Through their eyes you can see your future
I too am looking for that "Fire Inside" again...
I had it once in my life and lost it (my fault)...
I'm Thankfull for the short time I did have it...
Thanks Dale, you still own my soul and will always remain 'My Immortal"... till the next life we meet again.
So you want to know the 'List'. Someone asked me for this when I turned them down for a supposed 'date'. I told them they didn't make it past number 3. So here it is.
1 Must be self supportive (This does mean of course you pay your own rent, have your own car, pay your own bills and live within your means).
2 Must not live with mommy or daddy (If you are above, then this just shouldn’t be… unless you are taking care of them of course)
3 Must not be married, have a significant other or dating someone else. If you have one of the above, talk to her, ask HER out! NOT me! I should include no rebounds either. Heal yourself before trying to move on.
4 Must have motorcycle, (preferably Harley), or at least know how to ride one and want one. I ride to live and live to ride. I’m old school, and just refuse to live without it again.
5 Must be over 35 (Should be within 5 years of me). I’m not your mommy or your late mid life crisis younger woman!
6 Must have positive attitude. No Drama Kings allowed! Nuff said!
7 No psycho Ex hanging around. Remove your baggage before moving on.
8 Must love kids. Okay… like them a lot? Don’t have to have any or want any more… just love them.
9 Must like puzzles. There’s a lot behind this and if we get past the above 8, I’ll explain.
10 Must want a new best friend. This falls into a very wide range of whys… but if all the above fits and then chemistry is added, this is where it would naturally go in time…. BUT you have to want that. If you don’t, then why bother dating?
So you might have passed the first 10… rare… every blue moon it happens … HA, I've seen it happen once in my life... but the hardest two rules are below. Without these, there’s not even a chance you’d make it past a week as a friend.
Must live by ‘The Code’. This has to do with Honor and Respect. Any old school biker can tell you what it’s all about. I live my life by this Code and I expect nothing less from the ones I’m with… this means my family, my club brothers and sisters, and any people I call friend.
Must live with a Passion. Passion for life, passion for family, for work and for of course, for love.
WOW This could be a long list... will try to list the gentre in general. Classic Rock, Newer Rock, Blues Rock & Motown, New Country (just no twain please), 80s is a must, (I'll take a big hair band over all others any day), and love the 70s boogie music too. Big Stevie Nicks fan if you couldn't tell by the way i dress. And I can dance to any of them. I just have a love of music in general. Just no twain or rap tho please.
Shrek is favorite (ok, the little girl in me looking for that knight on a horse), Dances with Wolves, (still looking for that hero on a horse hehehe), and Bone Collector (love suspence type movies that are a puzzle all in one). Others that rank are Rock Star, Purple Rain, Almost Famous, (see a music trend here?), Enemy of the State, .... I have a list way too long for here, but like almost any kind, just keep the gore out.
When I can find the time CSI is a must as far as TV goes, it's like a puzzle I guess. Like history channel, discovery and science channels.
Hmmm this could give you some insight to me.... The 7 habits of Effective Living, 7 Habits of an Effective Family,... anything on Ancient religions or Medicinal herbs, Going Within, To Ride a Silver Broomstick, Native American Herbs, Living in the Light, Home Herbal, Many Lives Many Loves.I don't read stories... (except the Harry Potter series with my daughter), I read to learn and explore.
My mother - She is and always has been the Wind Beneath my Wings