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[randy]

searching all my days just to find you, i'm not sure who i'm looking for...i'll know it, when i see

About Me

I am really just a down to earth, easy going and honest guy. I have found that I tend to come off as standoffish and even mean in the eyes of a lot of people, the truth of the matter is that this is just not so. I would like to think of myself as a genuinely good, honest and overall just normal guy. Somehow I always manage to find myself in the center of attention (and yes I can admit it). I am *that friend* that you know you're going to have a good time with no matter we're doing and it's a guarantee that I will make you laugh. More often than not I find that even when I am not trying to be funny, a whole lot of people still seem to be comically amused (not sure if that's always a good thing...lol).
I have high hopes and aspirations, but I also know that life is filled with unbounded obstacles, downfalls & disappointments. Life is what you make of it and just remember you only get what you give! Over the past few years I have learned so much about other people, the world and most importantly about myself! I have learned to distinguish the things in life that truly are invaluable and indeed the best things in life have no monetary value.
I am not better than anyone else in this life and I have never you everyone - neither are you. I realize that your Mom told you that you're the most important person in the world and I hate to be the one to break this to you, but she lied - really you're not. I treat everyone with equality and respect and that's all I will ever ask of another. I respect my family, my friends and myself and I will never allow anyone to treat any of us with even once ounce shy of the dignity & respect we deserve. One of the only things I have absolutely no tolerance for are the people who seem to find it necessary to talk down to and/or belittle and those who seem to believe they are somehow superior. If you need to put someone else down in some pathetic attempt to feel better about yourself, really I just feel sorry for you. To those I befriend, I would consider myself a very good friend. If you need a shoulder to cry on, you can use mine anytime. I would do anything for any one of my family and/or friends and not because I feel obligated to, but because I want to!

My Interests



I'd like to meet:

You know really...there are not a whole lot of people that I wouldn't like to meet.
If you are fake, evil, if you lie or have ulterior motives - I will see right through you. I whole heartedly believe that the most admirable and important quality that anyone can ever have is to just be themselves! Don't pretend to be someone that you're not and don't ever change for anyone. We all have one life to live, just go for your dreams and don't let anyone stand in your way. All and all I really have no relationship prerequisites - as long as you are who you are and you have an ambition in life - I want to meet you. Regardless of what you do in life, as long as you're passionate about it...that is what is important and don't let anyone ever tell you any different!
Haha...oh yeah - as for *sex* - in a nut shell, I just don't believe in sex without love. I do not, have not, will not detach love from emotion and I couldn't have any less interest in ever doing so. I do not "hook-up", I do not have "random sex" and again I could have any less interest in doing so. Please do not get me wrong, I have absolutely no problem with anyone who does and I do not even believe that it's wrong - it's just not for me. Please do not ask me for naked pictures, send me naked pictures or direct sexual remarks toward me - while this is flattering to a lot of people, I find it completely rude and offensive. Love, sex and my emotions are very sacred to me and I would expect that everyone can and will respect that.

Music:


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movies
American Beauty, Barbershop I & II, Bucket List, Butterfly Effect, Clueless, Euro Trip, Georgia Rule, How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, Legally Blonde I & II, Mean Girls, Meet The Parents/Fockers, One Hour Photo, Rumor Has It, Something's Gotta Give, Something To Talk About, Sweet Home Alabama, Taking Lives, Texas Chainsaw Massacre, The Notebook, The Other Sister, 40 Days & 40 Nights

music
Akon, Ashlee Simpson, Augustana, Blue October, Bowling For Soup, Carrie Underwood, Cassie, Christina Aguilera, Coldplay, Counting Crows, Daniel Powter, Danity Kane, Dixie Chicks, DMX, Edwin McCain, Eve, Everclear, Finger Eleven, Five For Fighting, Gnarls Barkley, Goo Goo Dolls, Good Charlotte, Gwen Stefani, Gym Class Heroes, Hellogoodbye, Hinder, Jack Johnson, James Blunt, Janet Jackson, Jesse McCartney, Jessica Simpson, Jo De La Rose, John Mayer, Kelly Rowland, Kid Rock, Lily Allen, Lionel Richie, Maroon 5, Mary J Blige, Natasha Bedingfield, Nelly Furtado, Nickelback, No Doubt, Paris Hilton, Paula DeAnda, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Regina Spektor, Sheryl Crow, Simple Plan, Snow Patrol, Sting, Teddy Geiger, The All American Rejects, The Fray, The Pussycat Dolls, Timbaland, Trina

shows
Brothers & Sisters, Desperate Housewives, Greys Anatomy, Live: Regis & Kelly, Oprah, Real Housewives of Orange County, The Simple Life, Ugly Betty

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about me
I am really just a down to earth, easy going and honest guy. I have found that I tend to come off as standoffish and even mean in the eyes of a lot of people, the truth of the matter is that this is just not so. I would like to think of myself as a genuinely good, honest and overall just normal guy. Somehow I always manage to find myself in the center of attention (and yes I can admit it). I am *that friend* that you know you're going to have a good time with no matter we're doing and it's a guarantee that I will make you laugh. More often than not I find that even when I am not trying to be funny, a whole lot of people still seem to be comically amused (not sure if that's always a good thing...lol).
I have high hopes and aspirations, but I also know that life is filled with unbounded obstacles, downfalls & disappointments. Life is what you make of it and just remember you only get what you give! Over the past few years I have learned so much about other people, the world and most importantly about myself! I have learned to distinguish the things in life that truly are invaluable and indeed the best things in life have no monetary value.
I am not better than anyone else in this life and I have never you everyone - neither are you. I realize that your Mom told you that you're the most important person in the world and I hate to be the one to break this to you, but she lied - really you're not. I treat everyone with equality and respect and that's all I will ever ask of another. I respect my family, my friends and myself and I will never allow anyone to treat any of us with even once ounce shy of the dignity & respect we deserve. One of the only things I have absolutely no tolerance for are the people who seem to find it necessary to talk down to and/or belittle and those who seem to believe they are somehow superior. If you need to put someone else down in some pathetic attempt to feel better about yourself, really I just feel sorry for you. To those I befriend, I would consider myself a very good friend. If you need a shoulder to cry on, you can use mine anytime. I would do anything for any one of my family and/or friends and not because I feel obligated to, but because I want to!
i'd like to meet
You know really...there are not a whole lot of people that I wouldn't like to meet.
If you are fake, evil, if you lie or have ulterior motives - I will see right through you. I whole heartedly believe that the most admirable and important quality that anyone can ever have is to just be themselves! Don't pretend to be someone that you're not and don't ever change for anyone. We all have one life to live, just go for your dreams and don't let anyone stand in your way. All and all I really have no relationship prerequisites - as long as you are who you are and you have an ambition in life - I want to meet you. Regardless of what you do in life, as long as you're passionate about it...that is what is important and don't let anyone ever tell you any different!
Haha...oh yeah - as for *sex* - in a nut shell, I just don't believe in sex without love. I do not, have not, will not detach love from emotion and I couldn't have any less interest in ever doing so. I do not "hook-up", I do not have "random sex" and again I could have any less interest in doing so. Please do not get me wrong, I have absolutely no problem with anyone who does and I do not even believe that it's wrong - it's just not for me. Please do not ask me for naked pictures, send me naked pictures or direct sexual remarks toward me - while this is flattering to a lot of people, I find it completely rude and offensive. Love, sex and my emotions are very sacred to me and I would expect that everyone can and will respect that.

Movies:

American Beauty, Barbershop I & II, Butterfly Effect, Clueless, Euro Trip, How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, Legally Blonde I & II, Mean Girls, Meet The Parents/Fockers, One Hour Photo, Rumor Has It, Something's Gotta Give, Something To Talk About, Sweet Home Alabama, Taking Lives, Texas Chainsaw Massacre, The Notebook, The Other Sister, 40 Days & 40 Nights

Television:

Brothers & Sisters, Desperate Housewives, Greys Anatomy, Live: Regis & Kelly, Oprah, Real Housewives of Orange County, The Simple Life, Ugly Betty

Books:

Angelina Jolie Biography, Karen Carpenter Biography, Extreme (Autobiography - Sharon Osborne), Dying To Be Thin, For One More Day, Stick Figure, The Five People You Meet In Heaven, The Golden Cage, Tuesday's With Morrie

My Blog

love song for no one...

love song for no oneStaying home alone on a Friday Flat on the floor looking back On old love Or lack thereof After all the crushes are faded And all my wishful thinking was wrong I'm jaded I h...
Posted by [randy] on Sat, 05 May 2007 04:19:00 PST

i hate...

I Hate...You are the wind beneath my wings.The grill across my face.You are the fuel in my machine.That special place.You are the sunshine of my life.My first and only love.You are the apple of my eye...
Posted by [randy] on Tue, 24 Apr 2007 06:36:00 PST

facebook?

well what are you waiting for...facebook me!...
Posted by [randy] on Sat, 10 Mar 2007 06:53:00 PST

the truth about randy...

I was tagged by Sarah, so I have to post 10 random things and/or facts about myself. If I tag you, you should do the same!01) When I watch Desperate Housewives everyone and everything has to be comple...
Posted by [randy] on Sat, 20 Jan 2007 05:16:00 PST