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well let's start with the best advice I've ever been given If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience… I will dispense this advice, now.Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself, and recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked…. You are not as fat as you imagine.Don’t worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.Do one thing everyday that scares youSingDon’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours.FlossDon’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind; the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself.Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.StretchDon’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life… the most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don’t.Get plenty of calcium.Be kind to your knees, you’ll miss them when they’re gone.Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll have children, maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll divorce at 40, maybe you’ll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary… what ever you do, don’t congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either – your choices are half chance, so are everybody else’s. Enjoy your body, use it every way you can, don’t be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it’s the greatest instrument you’ll ever own..Dance…even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.Read the directions, even if you don’t follow them.Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.Brother and sister together we'll make it through, Someday a spirit would take you and guide you there, I know you've been hurting but I've been waiting to be there for you, And I'll be there just helping you out, whenever I can.Get to know your parents, you never know when they’ll be gone for good.Be nice to your siblings, they're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.Travel.Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old and when you do you’ll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.Respect your elders.Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.Don’t mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth.But trust me on the sunscreen… ........................................................... those are the words I live by but it doesn't really tell you anything about actually no it says a lot about meI like to spend my time walking through parks, cemetaries, gardens and generally anywhere is cool just pick a random direction and start walking besides that I like to watch sunsets I like to sneak into parking garages to get a better view I also love flowers you'll often see me wearing them they are the shit and I just end up collecting them which is cool I've got a large pile of them on my dashboard but yeah where was I? oh yeah I love the library I get in there and it's like a kid in a candy store I stick to non fiction because knowledge is power I read about a lot things romance, psychology, philosophy, filmaking, different forms of art and sex but I also like to do volunteer work mostly to have something to do that day what else oh yeah my two major passions in life is film and science I love movies it's my favorite form of art it's also one the most complicated you in a movie there's just so much to it and that's what I'm going to be is a writer director actor and eventually producer that's what they call in show business a quadruple threat and is not exactly something a normal human being is capable but then again there is nothing normal about me but I have comprised storyboards of about ten films so far and I am about to begin turning them into screenplays but my real goal is something much more tact I want to be time magazine's man of the century that title belongs to me and I am more than driven to accomplish my goals my philosophy on life is that nothing matters so just follow your dreams and never give up so that all pretty much sums her up so kid got a name? yeah it's paul lee

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I pledge allegiance (revision)

 I pledge allegiance to the flag of the united states of america to the republic? for which it stands? an abomination under god cries invisible with liberty for the rich through injustice to the poor ...
Posted by on Fri, 22 May 2009 04:32:00 GMT

deeper the darkness runs

why am i always watching from the outside?on the other side of the glass behind glassalways watching everyone separate watching always don't touch this is getting deeperas time goes by the water's get...
Posted by on Thu, 21 May 2009 22:24:00 GMT

alone in the dark

In the dark I'm all alone sitting reaping exactly what I've sewn is there no one out there it's all my fault though it isn't fair stranded deep inside I can't go any where within the darkness I hide i...
Posted by on Thu, 21 May 2009 20:08:00 GMT

to my friend george w. bush courtesy of bob dylan

Come you masters of warYou that build all the gunsYou that build the death planesYou that build the big bombsYou that hide behind wallsYou that hide behind desksI just want you to knowI can see throug...
Posted by on Tue, 12 May 2009 17:21:00 GMT

the greatest of all, love

1If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, an...
Posted by on Tue, 23 Dec 2008 18:48:00 GMT

maybe just once

i can't believethat what i feelis finally happening to memake it hurtand point a finger at my insecuritieswell i guess i just don't understandabout those complexities in your mindand i guess i just do...
Posted by on Thu, 09 Oct 2008 21:53:00 GMT

society is a fraud

If the world that we are forced to accept is false and nothing is true, then everything is possible. On the way to discovering what we love, we will find everything we hate, everything that blocks ou...
Posted by on Fri, 08 Aug 2008 04:01:00 GMT

so that’s how it’s gonna be?

man times right now in my life are tough I've lost an important person in my life I'm battling the court system for some dumb shit I could be homeless any day now I'm trying to get into job corps I...
Posted by on Sun, 20 Jul 2008 20:49:00 GMT

to you yeah you (points middle finger straight at you)

bitch you better skin that smoke wagon
Posted by on Mon, 28 Apr 2008 21:33:00 GMT

to those who are my friends list

you will probably get somewhat verbally abused in my bulletins get over it it's an occupational hazard you should  get over it's my internet persona sorry but try to appreciate the message ...
Posted by on Wed, 16 Jan 2008 19:48:00 GMT