Mr. & Mrs. Shaw!!!

I'd like to meet:

CAN YOU HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!The most prevalent character flaw of our humanity is not recognizing what we have and not what struggling for what we want. In the same respect, we have not yet learned to let go. We instinctively try to avoid pain and often question being honest with others and even ourselves. How often have you stayed in an unbalanced relationship, simply feeling secure that the other person will forever be devoted to you? How long can you pretend to love when you are truly dissatisfied? Is it not obvious that the frustration will only end in more lies and deception? Do you fear the pain that the other will bear or do you fear starting over? It is unavoidable to feel or cause pain at some point in our lives. We can only limit how long we let it endure before we are forced to face the truth. It is excepted that we must love and lose before we are able to appreciate "THE ONE". For some, though, the right person may appear, but the fear of total vulnerability will not allow them to be true to themselves. They remain in a romantically destructive cycle and wonder why it is difficult to find true happiness. Years go by and still they think of you, only to realize that they lived with fear, and without you. It is truly difficult for me to understand how much we should withstand before walking away without knowing the others true feelings. I have felt love and I have felt pain. I have heard word of adoration without actions to reinforce them. I have been loved without having the ability to reciprocate love, and I have loved so profoundly with nothing but dreams to haunt me. If I am in love, I love deeply, passionately, and completely, giving all that I am with no thought of pain. If I feel love, I see no unconquerable struggle, but merely expect to be loved in return. If I am not loved in return, I can only ask for simple honesty, without sugarcoating words to attempt to "ease" the pain. Truth can be so painful, yet simultaneously so liberating. To give and take a broken heart is inevitable and a guaranteed struggle of life. Where are we? Are we where we want to be? Doing what we want to do? Are we with the one we want to be with? Take some time away from the rat race of society and re-evaluate your truth. If there is someone who loves you, think about him or her and what he or she means to you. If love cannot be reciprocated, put aside the fear of causing them pain and let them know. However, if you can be true to yourself and know you have found love, put aside your own fear and dare to discover a new level of romance. We live for perfection but settle for good enough. We work for success but remain unfulfilled. We dream of true love but fear the unknown, and we wait for the ultimate happiness when it is right there all along.-Author unknownNo one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE. No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK. And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by CHOICE