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just bearly!

I'd rather have 15 minutes of WONDERFUL then a lifetime of NOTHING SPECIAL

About Me

What is there to know. I am a 37 year old gay male in a monogomous relationship with a wonderful person. I have a passion for boating in the summer but I live to sing. To open one's soul with song is a gift that has been given to us. Raise your voices so all can hear you. Music can tame the wildest beast, sooth a sleeping baby and express any emotion. I am part of a chorus here on Long Island that beleves in the spirituality of the human voice and has filled a void since I stopped performing in 1989. I would ultimately like to get back into performing, but for now I will resort to singing in my karaoke room with my partner and friends.TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF!!!.. width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" ....

My Interests

.... width="425" height="350" ....This is my favorite video of Carlos and Lor playing with baby Christopher!!!!

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I love to sleep.Musicals, cars and BOATING are some of my major interests. Look for us on the great south bay. I love my Ciera Sunbridge 2455 by Bayliner. Her name is Just Barely... and can be seen docked out on the water outside of Sunset on the bay in Cherry Grove... We love Porche!
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I'd like to meet:

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Wicked Witch of the WestMaybe you are not so evil, however it is not what you think that matters. The people of Oz have named you Wicked and it has stuck. Dorothy melts you in order to secure her own way home. Your body was never found.
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Quizilla | Join| Make A Quiz | More Quizzes | Grab Code Other people who enjoy life. I already met the love of my life. but friendship is very important to both of us. I am NOT looking for a DATE or a HOOK Up. If you are... move on. I take friendship seriously, I am not on here to see how many people I can list as friends, but rather, how many true friends I can encounter. I have started a group for Long Island GAY COUPLES..... come join the fun! also I am the president of SHANNA SHARP'S FRONT ROW BITCHES. a fan club for an up and rising SUPERSTAR. find her in my friends list and take a listen, IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU HEAR JOIN THE BITCHES!!!!.. width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" .... Never has a song summed up more, how I feel about my life, I am not at the bottom, but I surely am not at the top either. Life is a journey, I think I don't mind being on the safe step for a while. I remember this segment from the muppet show from my childhood. It is amazing how a piece of felt can drive a point deep into ones heart. I know this sounds corny, and some might think it strange, but i identify with this little felt frog and thank him for making me realize that being on the middle step may very well be a good place to start. .. width="425" height="350" .... .. width="425" height="350" ....

Music:

extremely eclectic with a passion for Broadway. and thanks to Il Divo, i am finding some Opera to be appealing. The Duplex's Brian Nash turned me onto JerrySpringer the Opera, but that is a whole nother story LOL In the following clip you can see Kate Pazakis (who is truly an amazing singer and performer) sing from Jerry the opera..... She is AMAZING!!!!.. width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" .... .. width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" ....

Movies:

Steel magnolias Suspense but not Horror .. width="425" height="350" ....

Television:

American Idol, Commander and Chief, Weeds.. width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" ...... width="425" height="350" ....

Books:

All the harry Potter books, tales of the City series. I am also reading the book "Maybe the Moon" by Armistad Maulpin. This is such a touching book and I recommend it to all that enjoy a good laugh and a great cry.

Heroes:

Anyone who faces diversity and overcomes it. Anyone who acknowledges thier fears and grows from it. This is a simple theme based off the hit Broadway musical, Wicked.

My Blog

finding that special someone

There comes a time in ones life where you have to stop and take inventory. Financially I am struggling, work isn't great, and the benefit that i put my heart, time, and energy into has been postponed ...
Posted by just bearly! on Thu, 25 Oct 2007 08:10:00 PST

WE ARE SILK DAMN IT!!!!

I just thought that I would send this out to all of you as I look at friendship in a different light. How many of us have gone to a bar and looked around at the "clicks" that form..... I am thankful t...
Posted by just bearly! on Sun, 19 Nov 2006 03:12:00 PST

friendship in 4 decades

The 70's For the first 5 years of my life (1969-1974) My family and I resided on Townline road in Nanuet NY. I dont remember much about this time in my life. Nor do I have any recollection of friends...
Posted by just bearly! on Wed, 01 Nov 2006 08:18:00 PST

Singer * Songwriter * tell all.... A REVIEW

Arriving at the Duplex on Wednesday night, I was unaware of the magical evening that was about to begin. I made my way up to the Cabaret on the second level of New York City's premier Piano bar. ...
Posted by just bearly! on Fri, 06 Oct 2006 04:56:00 PST

the biggest loser

For those of you who did not know. A bunch of carlos and my friends decided to do our very own version of "The biggest loser". Well since weigh in I have lost 4.5 lbs. Carlos said that he is down 2lbs...
Posted by just bearly! on Thu, 28 Sep 2006 08:34:00 PST

just a catch up

Well, for those of you who have never gone to therapy, Find one that works for you and go!!!!!!! Music has always been very important to me. it is a way for me to emote. I never realized the power of...
Posted by just bearly! on Fri, 15 Sep 2006 08:43:00 PST

FINALLY I AM OUT OF THERE!!!!!

Well, it finally happened...... I am no longer employeed by A J Wright........ I quit as of yesterday. I will be starting tomorrow with Gymboree but also have been interviewing with Lenox, Starbucks, ...
Posted by just bearly! on Mon, 28 Aug 2006 07:58:00 PST

ROUND 3

Well, here we go again. Another offer was made on my home in Bayshore. It is the same amount of money that the last 2 offers were at (and both fell through) but I am insisting on 10 thousand dollars d...
Posted by just bearly! on Mon, 14 Aug 2006 10:16:00 PST

update on me

Well the renovations continue and needless to say it is going slowly but surely. The new floor in the dining room is georgous. It has been a struggle to get things done because I am stuck in a j...
Posted by just bearly! on Mon, 31 Jul 2006 08:25:00 PST

renovations renovations

So it is week 2  and Iam thouroughly exhausted..... Furniture is comming on Friday and all the rooms need to be prepped. I am tired of removing carpet nails and needed to take 5 minutes to vent.....
Posted by just bearly! on Tue, 23 May 2006 09:44:00 PST