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About Me

.. Find me on MySpace and be my friend!My Name is Shamika. I'm a native from Long Beach, CA. I'm a divorced single parent looking for new and exciting people to bounce ideas off of, as well as become friends. I started this MySpace adventure to meet New People that are real, honest and true. I'm a down to earth person with a big heart. I like to enjoy myself as often as I can by hanging out with my friends. Every day is a new day to start a new adventure in this thing we call life...
What Shamika Means
You are the total package - suave, sexy, smart, and strong.
You have the whole world under your spell, and you can influence almost everyone you know.
You don't always resist your urges to crush the weak. Just remember, they don't have as much going for them as you do.
You are truly an original person. You have amazing ideas, and the power to carry them out.
Success comes rather easily for you... especially in business and academia.
Some people find you to be selfish and a bit overbearing. You're a strong person.
You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.
You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.
You have the classic “Type A” personality.
You are confident, self assured, and capable. You are not easily intimidated.
You master any and all skills easily. You don't have to work hard for what you want.
You make your life out to be exactly how you want it. And you'll knock down anyone who gets in your way!
You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing.
You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long.
You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.
You are a seeker of knowledge, and you have learned many things in your life.
You are also a keeper of knowledge - meaning you don't spill secrets or spread gossip.
People sometimes think you're snobby or aloof, but you're just too deep in thought to pay attention to them. What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?
You Are Disturbingly Profound
You're contemplative, thoughtful, and very intense.
Taking time to figure out the meaning of life is a priority for you.
Because you're so introspective, you often react in ways that surprise people.
No one can really understand how you are on the inside... and that disturbs them. Are You Disturbingly Profound or Profoundly Disturbing?
Your Passion is Purple!
You've got a ton of passion, but you don't always wear it on your sleeve.
If something truly excites you, you let your inner intensity shine through.
But otherwise, your passion tends to morph into energy ... which you never lack.
You're a balanced woman, knowing when to turn on the fire in your heart. What Type of Passionate Woman Are You?
Your Love is Based on Commitment
You believe that love is something that develops and grows.
You don't believe in love at first site, and you never mistake lust for love.
For you, love is about mutual devotion, respect, and understanding.
You don't feel comfortable in a relationship, unless you're both in it for the long run.
Why your love can last: You don't take commitment lightly - or leave relationships easily
Why your love can fail: You're so committed, you often can't see the most obvious problems in your relationship What Is Your Love Based On?

My Interests

I'd like to meet:


Fashions.Org - "The Community"
You Are a Good Friend Because You're Honest
Like it or not, your friends are going to hear the truth from you.
You know that the truth hurts, but living a life of lies is much worse.

So while you're definitely kind and supportive, you don't pull any punches with your friends.
Everyone knows where they stand with you. And what you like and dislike about them.

While some may be initially turned off by your honesty, your friends have come to consider it a virtue.
After all, in world of white lies and deceptive politeness, you can be counted on for honesty and integrity.

Your friends need you most when: They need good advice or an intelligent opinion

You really can't be friends with: Needy, emotional people

Your friendship quote: "True friendship can afford true knowledge. It does not depend on darkness and ignorance." What Makes You a Good Friend?
You Are Much Closer to Your Friends
Your friends are so great, it's hard not to be the closest to them.
As for your family, your relationship with them is probably a bit strained.

It's okay though. While you can't pick your family, you can pick your friends.
And you've picked some amazing friends who count as family to you. Are You Closer to Your Friends or Your Family?

My Blog

Today I Walked Away

Today I walked away... From the agony of feeling defeated... The constant ridicule... The hiding behind the smile when I want to yell at the top of my lungs... From settling for what you think I deser...
Posted by on Sun, 22 Mar 2009 19:38:00 GMT

I need some advice: I'm Not Getting Mine...

How do you tell the person that your with, "I'm Not Getting Mine" without hurting their feelings? You know me I try to keep it as honest as possible at all times with my readers. So this is the proble...
Posted by on Sun, 22 Mar 2009 19:08:00 GMT

Can Karma Come Back To Get You?

Can Karma come back and get you?The faithful one whom stands by you no matter what it is that you've done. The person that never gives up on you despite your wrong doing. The one whom knew that their ...
Posted by on Fri, 06 Mar 2009 18:28:00 GMT

Bounce Back

Bounce BackBounce back from a whirlwind of a week... It rained in my room all week behind closed doors in the still of the night. Today is a totally different day and the sun shined after it set on a ...
Posted by on Sat, 21 Feb 2009 23:23:00 GMT

Excuses

ExcusesExcuses as they say are like A**holes everyone has one. Why do we need excuses when we could just tell the truth? Excuse means a reason that you give to explain why you did something; a false r...
Posted by on Fri, 20 Feb 2009 12:38:00 GMT

Why?

Why?Why do I give too much of myself  emotionally and recieve little to nothing in return?Hoping that the reciprocation will follow...Why do I fall in love with people whom never will love me in retur...
Posted by on Thu, 19 Feb 2009 21:23:00 GMT

Your The Jump Off... How Should You Feel?

Your The Jump OffHow Do You Feel About That?Wow it amazes me to think of the various terminologies that are used to call a Sex Only Partner: Booty Call, Late Night Creep, Chick or Dick on the Side, F*...
Posted by on Thu, 19 Feb 2009 11:57:00 GMT

Hiding from Me

Hiding from MESometimes I hide from myself in a world that I wish existed in reality. Its the world where I feel free to be ME without judgement or ridicule. A place where I feel more comfortable with...
Posted by on Sun, 15 Feb 2009 15:28:00 GMT

Time

TimeIf your relationship is missing the TIME factor then you should find a way to MAKE TIME for each other, if that is what you really want. Time is at a very high commodity these days due to work, fa...
Posted by on Fri, 13 Feb 2009 12:38:00 GMT

The Damage in Knowing

The Damage in KnowingKnowing can never be wrong if you LISTEN to the words that are being said. To ignore the words could hurt you even though you may already have feelings for that person. LISTEN to ...
Posted by on Thu, 12 Feb 2009 21:27:00 GMT