.::Candy:Coated:Goodness::.

About Me

Dangerous secrets...

I'm a fun loving, Puerto Rican/Dominican Northern girl living in the South. I love the peace and culture of the South though I miss the always something going on of up North. I live to laugh with those close to me and make the best out of pretty much whatever comes my way. I believe that everything in life happens for a reason and that everything offers us something we can learn and grow from.

Also, I want to make it clear that just because I may project a sexy image DOES NOT mean that I automatically want to give every penis on earth a tour of the inside of my mouth or that I want to have sex with everyone who asks. I can enjoy my sexuality, have fun with it, flaunt it while I'm young and yet none of that means that I'm easy. Sexy shines from within, it's an attitude, a radiance and yeah a look. I'm not ashamed to be sexy!

My Interests

music * gourmet cooking * shopping * New England Patriots * my cultures: Puerto Rican/Dominican/American * family & friends * Misu: my adorable kitty * lingerie * travel * frosty ice cold beer * going out & staying in * language * movies * chocolate * DIY projects * photography * animals * constant laughter * sleeping in * the look on a child's face when you teach them something new * first snowfalls * conversation * organic food * what's going on in the world * aerobic striptease * trying new things * being naughty

I'd like to meet:

Personally: I'd love to meet people who are honest with me, others and especially themselves. Who enjoy a good time, ice cold beer and conversation. I'm not up for drama and believe that people should just keep it real. Not on here looking for sex either, sorry.

Business: I'd like to meet other professionals in the event industry to work with. Part of planning events is knowing who the best dj is, which services offer the latest types of limos, discovering ethnic or creative new talents from unique foods to daring dresses down to vocalists and photographers. I'd love to develop a team of these kinds of people that I can consistantly work with and recommend to my clients. Click on "Designer Moments" in my top friends to network with me and others in the business.

.:: Candy Coated Goodness ::.'s Favorite Quotes
We Learn: that kisses aren't promises, and tears don't mean goodbye.
We Understand: that love won't fix everything, that sometimes flames will wither and die. - Unkown

Another bend, then at last the moon and all the stars. - Japanese proverb

Where there is woman, there is magic. - Ntozake Shange

The soul that can speak through the eyes can also kiss with a gaze. - Gustavo Adolfo Becquer

Courage is not the absence of fear but the judgement that something else is more important than fear. - Ambrose Redman

You cannot change the music of your soul. - Katherine Hepburn

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die; life is a broken bird that cannot fly. - Langston Hughes

Happiness is a bone-deep feeling of peace, contentment, security or satisfaction, which may have zero to do with a beauty pagent smile or paroxysms of ecstasy. - Stephanie Dolgoff

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. - George Bernard Shaw

The thing to remember is that that the future comes one day at a time. -Dean Acheson

It is confidence in our bodies, minds and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures, new directions to grow in, and new lessons to learn - which is what life is all about. - Oprah Winfrey

Be a queen. Dare to be different. Be a pioneer. Be a leader. Be the kind of woman who in the face of adversity will continue to embrace the challenge, take and walk fearlessly toward the challange. Take life on! Be a truth seeker and a rule your domain, whatever it is - with a loving heart. Be tender. We are the daughters of God - here to teach the world how to love...
Be a queen. It doesn't matter what you've been through, where you come from, who your parents are nor your social or economic status. What matters is how you choose to love, how you choose to express that love through what you have to five to the world.
Be a queen. Own your power and your glory! - Oprah Winfrey

Only when the last tree is cut down.
Only when the last river is poisoned.
Only when the last fish is caught.
We will discover money cannot be eaten. - Cree Prophecy

.:: Candy Coated Goodness ::.'s Fun Box

Music:

I love all kinds of music and can pretty much get into anything. Feel free to browse through my every changing playlist down below.

Movies:

I love all kinds of movies, new and old. Faves are:
Scarface * Napolieon Dynamite * Cruel Intentions * A Walk In The Clouds * The Great Gasby * Gia * Shreck 2 * Pearl Harbor * The Notebook

Television:

I like a little bit of everything. HGTV is the shit!

Books:

mysteries, Shakespeare, vintage books, magazines of all kinds.

Heroes:

My mother for being the strong woman that she is, raising me amazingly by herself despite being completely broken hearted and in a situation that was frowned upon and for the way she's always been one of my closest friends.

Misu (my cat) for always knowing when mommy's had a shitty day and really needs her kitty kisses to make me laugh and forget about it all.

Anyone in the military, not just the people who are out there on the front lines but the nurses and doctors that see so much and try to do their best with what their given, the cooks who know that a good meal can make someone feel like they're back home and of course those our there fighting, flying, diving, doing what's in their hearts to ensure that freedom stays in mine.

Honestly, I view many people in my life as personal Heroes for the amazing everyday things they do and overcome in their lives and the success that they bring out of it.

My Blog

Just walk away...

Sometimes the people we refuse to give up on, the ones that have been there for so long, that seem to know us so well; are the very thing we have to turn and walk from. Despite how emotional it...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Wed, 17 Jan 2007 10:24:00 PST

I like things that sparkle!!

A wish list of sorts... My Registries: (Click the name to go to it)My Sephora Wishlist: (Everything a girl needs to keep herself, looking, feeling and smelling sexy!)My Target Wishlist: (Fab f...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 02:30:00 PST

Me...

[Marital Status] Single [Shoe size] 7 [Parents still together] nope [Siblings] only child [Pets] kitty FAVORITES [Color] red, black, hot pink [Number] 7 [Animal] panther [Drinks] will s...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Sun, 14 Jan 2007 11:25:00 PST

So I watched a man hang...

I just watched that video of Sadam being hung, the cell phone recorded one. It's crazy to watch a man drop to his death with such a void of expression on his face, it was weird almost as if...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Thu, 04 Jan 2007 10:18:00 PST

Destiny & Temptation

It's weird how some encounters can linger in your mind for days. Ever have that one person in your life where it seems like you conect on the levels that really matter, the type of person that brings...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Sat, 30 Dec 2006 01:03:00 PST

Yo momma thinks ur special [advice 4 men]

.... and i bet she writes it on the inside of your shirts too! I mean really, what's up with men acting seriously retarded these days? What the hell happened to common sense? I don't understand why th...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Sat, 23 Dec 2006 12:55:00 PST

The Coughing Dog & The Domestic Diva

So.. I spent most of today in the kitchen baking and frosting. Cup cakes and brownies. They came out really cute, I coordinated all the decorations to the flavors yet made sure they still coordi...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Wed, 20 Dec 2006 01:28:00 PST

Dear Men...

Why is it that men seem to find it so hard to be thoughtful yet expect women to constantly be? Relationships are rarely 50/50, that's no shocker and it's ok, it's expected. But 150/-50 is ...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Mon, 18 Dec 2006 11:04:00 PST

My heart doesn't reside there anymore. [poem]

My heart doesn't reside there anymore. I realized recently that my heartisn't where I always thought it would be.Long ago I'd accepted it's fate,forever broken but by yours forever it would lay.I'd be...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Thu, 07 Dec 2006 01:18:00 PST

Breathing...

Yeah breathing is great... until somebody decides that maybe you should and then you realize how precious it really is. Be advised... I'm about to RANT! OK so first off I needed to get a ...
Posted by .::Candy:Coated:Goodness::. on Sun, 03 Dec 2006 12:06:00 PST