okay It's like this, I'm not a shallow person but I have to be Phy. attracted to a woman or there no point in starting anyting further than a freinship. My Idael woman is pure bueuty inside and out. I would love a girl who looks great with no make uo or who just woke up. I also love women who where glasses. If was to date or be in a relationship agian need to have a girl who is very smart, not afraid of making decisions or taking risks and I like very independent women, but on the same tokan i want a girl who won't hesitate to tell or ask me for anything. I do not judge! And I will do anything for someone I care about. As far as freinds go I have an open mind and can get along with anybody. I'm not going to let a someone who could wind up being a lifelong friend go becuase of differant beliefs or any type of prefrences. I'm past the partying stage but I do like to go out and have fun as long as that doesn't control the whole relationship. Getting back to a girlfriend I just want to be with someone who we both love to be with each other. I love to nice things for poeple for no reason and I treat a woman like she should be treated ( GOLD ) This often scares some woman when there treated to nice, I can't figure that one out at all but I refuse to change. I may be a little shy at 1st but thats because I'm probably nervous. In closong I'm looking for a possable relatioship built on trust,honesty, closeness and who know maybee even love. And of course OI'm always in the market for friends.