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Erica

If you dont like my peaches dont shake my tree

About Me

everything happens
for a reason
names erica. im nice & sometimes sassy...nice n sassy:) im very much a cancer and i can be really hermity when left to my own devices but i also genuinely enjoy gettin down when its called for. im not really a big fan of bullshit or injustice. all of my friends and family kick ass. thats right.....all of em. thank you.Some quotes I like....read em
"The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words."
"I always felt that the great high privilege, relief and comfort of friendship was that one had to explain nothing."
"A true friend is the most precious of all possessions and the one we take the least thought about acquiring."
"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom."
"We all need friends with whom we can speak of our deepest concerns, and who do not fear to speak the truth in love to us."
"You have to be practical, bite the bullet as you say. When somebody tells you your d***'s going to fall off, this is going to happen whether you like it or not. Life will be a bitch, but you have to figure out how you're gonna live it. Life is all hills and valleys. You better be enjoying the hills. There's no point weeping and crying in the valleys."
"You take you with you everywhere you go. You can't run from yourself."
"When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace!"
"A true revolutionary understands that loving one enemy is more revolutionary then killing a thousand enemies"
"At the risk of seeming ridiculous, let me say that the true revolutionary is guided by a great feeling of love. It is impossible to think of a genuine revolutionary lacking this quality."
"Love is not an intellectual concept or a moral imperative or anything else. It is a background emotion that exists when one is connected to the energy available in the universe, which, of course is the energy of God."
"All religion is about humankind finding relationship to one higher source. And all religions speak of a perception of a God within, a perception that fills us, makes us more than we are. Religions become corrupted when leaders are assigned to explain Gods will to the people instead of showing them how to find this direction within themselves."
"If you're going through hell....keep going."
"Let people define who they are by what they do."
"womanist/feminist of color... Also: A woman who loves other women, sexually and/or non-sexually. Appreciates and prefers women's culture, women's emotional flexibility (values tears as natural counterbalance of laughter), and women's strength. Sometimes loves individual men, sexually and/or non-sexually. Committed to survival and wholeness of entire people, male and female. Not a separatist, except periodically, for health. Traditionally universalist... Loves music. Loves dance. Loves the moon. Loves the Spirit. Loves love and food and roundness. Loves struggle. Loves the Folk. Loves herself. Regardless."

My Interests

stuff thats bangin

I'd like to meet:

bad listeners turn me off. but i am always interested in meeting real people that enjoy laughing out loud...people that live and let live and try their best to suspend judgement....good positive people...people that love love and do what they can to be the change they wish to see in this world...and people from the future...

Music:

Sophistafunk, dirty beats, dirty samples, p-funk...lotsa stuff...grown folks music.

Movies:

Office Space, Ferris Beuller's Day Off, Secretary

Books:

The Celestine Prophecy

Heroes:

my mother is a fierce woman with a strong spirit (i blame her for my shoe addiction and sass) and my dad will always be superman to me (he is the prototype and the reason why no other man measures up). together they have given me nothing short of their ALL. i love them for it and can never thank them enough.

My Blog

One of my favorite poems....

*Sometimes I feel like this...and no I don't care to explain.*The Bridge Poem by Donna Kate RushinFrom This Bridge Called My Back: Writings by Radical Women of Color by Cherrie Moraga & Gloria An...
Posted by Erica on Tue, 12 Jun 2007 03:14:00 PST

Today I learned to dress myself....

In YUKATA!!! For those of you who don't know, a yukata is a light weight  kimono traditionally worn during hot summer months. I can tie my obi (the bow that goes around your waist) and everything...
Posted by Erica on Tue, 18 Jul 2006 06:46:00 PST

Life is a theater. Who's in your theater?

Choose Your Audience Carefully Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a DISTANCE. It's amazing wh...
Posted by Erica on Wed, 17 May 2006 05:13:00 PST