♥Mz.Jen-Ning♥

Loving Someone From A Distance
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being. To let go of someone doesnt mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that keep in your heart.
Do not let bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There come a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You dont have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me; you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Dont let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesnt mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

411 of… Mz. JeHnA

name= JeNnA-MaRiE PiLaR AlBaNo
aka= jEnNa, jEn, JeNaH, jEn-nInG, NiNg-NiNg, MaRiE… Q-TiE or sHaWtIe… (so pick ur pick ;)!!!)
b-day= SePtEmBeR 16, 1985
zodiac sign= vIrGo
age= u no my b-day n da current year... so do da math!!! J/K, I’m just tryin to be sarcastic
ethnicity= full blooded FILIPINO…n proud of it!!!
Born at PI, den migrated here at HAWAII wen I was 8… dat’s y I can understand/speak ILOCANO n TAGALOG fluently… =) fav color= all pastel colors...der so cute!!! But, really LUV PINK n LILAC/LAVENDER from all!!!
fav foods= NOODLES (my most fav of all…any style of cookin)... LASAGNA, FISH (broil, grilled, fried...n so on)...SANDWICHES (mostly turkey but I will try other tings), SALAD, EGG-DROP SOUP,... n so on!!!
fav dessert= cheese ice-cream, cheese cake, ultimate strawberry doughnut, haleakala, brownies, ice-cream puffs…n too much too mention!!! (I have a sweet tooth…very bad… =(!!!)
fav things= clothes, watches, shoes/sandals, accessories, jewelries, perfume, make-ups, n all the girly things…(sorry guys…but I can also get down n diry ;p)
fav placez= starbucks, jamba juice, theaters, restaurants, shoppin malls, diamondhead, AIEA, HOME, fwends house…
fav brands= roxy, hurley, dior, juicy, tokidoki, coach, MK, guess, A/X, bebe, lacoste, D&B, n much-much more…
occupation= P/T - WAITRESS at "LOULENS" n CASHIER at a FILINO store… F/T - STUDENT at "HPU" tryin to get my BACHELORS DEGREE in RN ;)...take note it’s a veeeeeeeeery intese major...take toooo much time, energy, n money!!!
hobbiz=SHOPPIN!!! (just LUV doin this…don’t get me rong ,i’m not a high maintain-ace kinda girl, simple things also makes me happy), COOKING (anytin actually….from appetizer, main course, n dessert …I like to invent/improve dishes)…WATCHIN T.V. or MOVIES with family n fwends …also, I would really LUV it… IF I get to do this w/ a SPECIAL some1!!! (but again I can’t…I’m still SINGLE!!! When will my special some1 come along??? Well if u wanna apply, applications are available…just ask... j/k…LOL!!!), DRAWIN (just simple tings), CROSS-STICH (mostly angels n butterflies), READING (my new found LUV…has to be romantic, mysterious or just simply interestin), But MOST importantly HANGING out w/ MY FWEUNDS at the beach, my house: bbq or playin dance-dance revolution… der house, movies or anywhere…(dis were da days…Ha! I’ll always treasure dos dayz, caz now were all bz w/ our own lives n we don’t get to do this stuff dat often anymore )=( =( =(