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Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers!

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

Hey what's up my name is BJ and I hail straight from the Yay Area! I was born in Toledo, Ohio but a majority of my life has been spent right here in the Bay Area. Many people have no idea where San Bruno is located, but if u have ever been to the San Francisco Airport then u been to good ol' Bruno. I've lived in South San Francisco for part of my life and San Bruno the other part. I love the Bay Area with all of my heart. I am a Gemini who was born in 1976 even though I look a lot younger than I am. My family is predominantly out in Toledo, Ohio so that is my second home. I am extremely laid back and dread drama. I recently completed a program to become a School Principal so I am not trying to kick with folks who bring unnecessary drama. I may decide to go for my Ph.D someday, but for now I plan on finding a place i can reside in for a few years. I do realize i am getting older now and it may be time to start planning for my future. My one and only love is God of course. However, my Mom is the only physical person who means the most 2 me. We went from moving up and down the block to sharing a room together throughout high school to slaving just to pay bills. Now my Lady Earth is going 4 her Master's Degree, driving a luxury car, and owns a house. How ****in lovely is that. She didn't need a man to make it and I didn't need a father. Much love 2 my stepdad though 4 entering my life late, but still taking over the responsibilities of another man. Love 2 my lil sis and my pops out in New Jersey. I also have to send a shot out to my big bro in Phoenix and step sis/nephew out in Detroit--Tha Dirty Midwest. Much love to my sis and her kids (April, Stephanie, Lil Stevie, and Chante)-my heart and soul. Special shot out to the folks I couldn't live without--my boy Mike from tha Filthy Moe via Queens,NYC and my right hand man 4 Life--Rashaan aka Shawno. Big ups 2 my boy Jake out in NY and to the rest of my peeps i went to high school with and college with down in Tally Ho, Florida--Da real Dirrrty South! Rest In Peace Gina, Manase, Mary, Chris, Joe, Uncle Richard, Uncle BOB, Uncle Harold, Aunt Rosie, Uncle Willie and Granddad "Angelo Robinson" And Rest in Peace 2 my 2 former students: Damonte Byrd and Nick Obiedo!

My Interests

I love basketball, baseball, football, and bowling. I love anything that can hold my interest for longer than five minutes. I am interested in writing movies and writing story/poems as well. Just a small talent i inherited from the legends

I'd like to meet:

I would like to meet someone who is a friend first and foremost and if anything happens then we can see how that will work out in the long run. I'm just looking for someone who is always going to keep it real and communicate if they have any problems. I'm getting to the age now where I am looking for something a little more permanent, but establishing a lasting friendship is the most important factor. I do enjoy kids and I don't discriminate against a woman having kids, but I would like to have kids of my own someday. One characteristic i enjoy the most about a female is the ability to communicate. I don't mind a text message or email every now and then, but I am a firm believer in chivalry. It would be nice to have stories to share to my kids someday that revolve around what it was like to pursue their mother. I think the internet is a great resource, but nothing can take the place of physical interaction. I would like someone who is goal oriented and focused on striving to for the next level. I don't believe in digressing so I am looking for someone who can complement me. It would be nice to find someone who is employed and self sufficient. I don't have to worry about child support and i don't think at my age i should be supporting another adult. It would also be nice to find someone who doesn't use profanity or smoke. And for those who can't finish a sentence need not respond :)

Music:

Hip-Hop cause u gotta be talented as hell to write songs. Plus R&B cause u gotta be talented as hell to sing. My fav artist is still 2Pac. I love some ol skool cats like RBL POSSE, JT THa Bigga Figga, San Quinn, DRE Dog, e-40, Too Short, Spice 1, Rappin 4 Tay, RIP Mac Dre, and Tha Dogg Pound of course with Snoop ridin alongside. Outkast is dope, Scarface is sick, Luda is off tha chain, Nas is great and Jay-Z is one of the best ever.

Movies:

American History X was real. Boyz in the Hood is a classic along with Menace 2 Society. Crash is ill and something all young and old cats need to see. Can't 4 get about Braveheart. Now Mel had heart and I can respect that. He did die coldblooded though. Another few great movies are The Departed and Tsotsi. I don't want to give away the ending of neither, but they are tops in my book

Television:



Books:

The 5 people u meet in heaven is a trip cause u never know how one person's actions can affect another person's. It was a crazy book and I thank the wonderful person for lending it to me. i don't read too much, but the book was off tha heezy! ..

Heroes:

My hero is every single black mother out there raising kids our dead beat pops couldn't stick around and raise. My only hero is My mother! I don't idolize anyone, but woman who are forced to deal with trifling azz men. On behalf of all men--I apologize :)

My Blog

Cycle

Breaking the Cycle Back in the day there used to be unity among blacks That was until the man flooded the streets with crack We went from having respect and each other's back To looking for one of ou...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Mon, 26 May 2008 07:40:00 PST

LOS

Land of Stankonia Headaches Tha Heart Disintegrates Families Segregate Parents no longer communicate With their children Lines of communication are broken Words go Unspoken Tainted Blood Ties become ...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Mon, 26 May 2008 07:34:00 PST

No Regrets

Living with Regret.. Today was my son's birthday so I called up family and friends Invited them to a party we were having that started at seven and ended at ten My boss was nice enough to pay me a d...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Mon, 26 May 2008 07:32:00 PST

What’s Next?

This past Thursday my team made it to 5-0 and as a result we are guaranteed a spot in the championship game on the 12th.  The only thing that stux is that we have our Great America trip that day ...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Sun, 25 May 2008 01:27:00 PST

My 1st Freestyle of 2008

I used 2 freestyle on paper so much that I grew tired of writing and focused on doing other things.  So now I'm attempting 2 return 2 my roots and attempt 2 write something on the spot.  Nev...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Thu, 22 May 2008 09:01:00 PST

Money--Dating 2008

I was reading this article in Ebony about prostitution and how one man justified paying for extra-curricular activities.  At first I was appalled at what I read, but then I started to reflect on ...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Thu, 22 May 2008 08:45:00 PST

You’ll Never Guess What Race this guy is....

Man Tries to Cash $360 Billion Check AP Posted: 2008-05-01 22:23:48 Filed Under: Nation News, Weird News FORT WORTH, Texas (May 1) - Charles Ray Fuller must have been planning one big record company...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Thu, 22 May 2008 08:36:00 PST

Maturity....

Today I went 2 the mall and picked up a nice shirt and pants.  Typically I head over to the Sean John section 2 find something I like or even down to Champs to find some athletic gear.  Howe...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Fri, 16 May 2008 09:31:00 PST

Damn Son...I’m Ill

Its almost been a full week and I have been sick everyday this week.  I even skipped class this morning just so I can recover and finally get some rest.  From sneezing 2 nasal congestion 2 c...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Sat, 10 May 2008 03:33:00 PST

From the forthcoming album "Baldy...Tha Mature Years"

Grown Man New from the forthcoming album in stores soon...   In my life-time I have had my share of one night stands None of which I have ever contemplated placing a ring on their hand I'm 31 now...
Posted by Much Luv n Respect 2 All Single Mothers! on Sat, 10 May 2008 03:17:00 PST