OBAMA 08UPDATE: 1. Guys, the first place to find out about a person is their profile. Suggestion, read it before writing and asking stupid questions like where are you from, do you have kids, what are your interests. 2. Don't ask me to write to you at yahoo so we can "get to know each other better". I don't want to go there, then sit and wait to see if some jerk is going to answer my message. I wouldn't do that for my mother, I'm not going to do it for some stranger. 3. Don't intro yourself with "hi baby", or "hi angel", or "hi sweetie" or "hi cutie". I'm none of the above, at least not to you. Show some respect, please. If you're trying to catch my attention, you do. I react just like I do when I get "junk mail" from the usps. It goes directly to the recycle bin. 4. Double check what info you put in your profile. Try and make sure it matches what you say in your message about yourself. I don't know about anyone else, but when I see a photo of someone who has a round face and double chin, I have a hard time believing you're "6'4" and 130 lbs.". All that got you was my rolling on the floor in laughter. 5. If you are under the age of 60, don't bother me. I'm tired of sending polite messages saying "you're too young, I'm not interested", then have you write back with "age is only a number". Do you think women need convincing from some knucklehead? Try trusting what we say as truth and final. 6. If you live across the country or the world from me and want more than friendship, don't waste our time. I aint goin anywhere, and neither are you. 7. I will add to my list as needed. If I'm sounding like a bitch; well, DUH!!! (Just maybe this will save me some time.) ---------------------------- All kinds of people from all walks of life, all religions, all creeds and colors (if there really is such a thing), and from other countries. I am voting for Obama but don't let that deter you. I like to discuss varying opinions. Who knows, maybe one of us can be convinced (if you are voting for McCain. What I will say about him is he seems to be mean-spirited,and for me that is frightening to think he might lead our country one day. Tra-le-la!My purpose here is to learn from others, and hopefully share something I have learned that may expand other's horizons.I wouldn't mind meeting a 60-70 something man interested in companionship, friendship and a date once in awhile or to travel with. I have no intention of moving in with anyone again or vice versa. I love my own space; my own timetable, my own tastes, and all that good stuff it seems to take years to realize. z ---------------------- 8-24-08 z Too many young men on myspace are confused. They say they want a relationship. I think they are looking for their Mom. Can I say this too often! I don't want a boy. I have grandsons. Why is that sooo hard to understand? To all the 20-30 something kids out there, I don't want you, and as long as you insist "age is only a number" I will insist on blocking you. Get real, grow up or go home and visit Mom. I can't help you and don't even want to if I had the time, which I don't.Looking for a friend, fine. Relationships with kids is not my bag. (For the kids, bag means 'thing').