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I still can't believe I'm in my mid-30's and yet I still relate to freshman year of high school ('85) like it's only a couple of years ago.Somewhere along the line of being a stand-up comedian and a morning radio show host (Atlantic City, 7 years) I ended up being a professional speaker, author and life & business coach to people who want to make a difference in their clients' lives.I got married on August 27, 2006 for the second and final time! I am a father to my son, and to her son, and they get along great! Our daughter is due December, 2007! So, yours, mine and ours. :)Ok, so here's the deal: you get what you ask for in this life. The challenge is that we don't realize that all of our thoughts and emotions are "asking" the Universe/God, whatever you believe, for what we are focused on. So when you think about all the ways something can go wrong, or that you can't do it, or you don't deserve it, or it'll never happen to you...that's exactly what you get.I know it sounds like I'm saying "put on a happy face," however even if you don't believe what I just wrote, instinctively you have to agree that you are much more attractive when you are happy/positive than when you are upset or frustrated or angry/negative.And the more attractive you are, the more people gravitate towards you, and the more opportunities somehow just happen to come your way and ultimately the more abundance you have around you. Or you can focus on all the ways something sucks and keep getting more of it. Which is better for you? :)