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Jesus, I want to know you. I want you to come into my life. I’m sorry for the things I’ve done that have broken my relationship with God. Thank you for dying on the cross so that this relationship could be made right. I believe You are the only One who can do this. Only You can give me the power to change and become the person You created me to be. Thank you for forgiving my past mistakes and for giving me eternal life with God. I give my life to You. Please do with it as You wish. Amen.
Order my steps, in Your word
Order my tongue, in Your word
Guide my feet, in Your word
Wash my heart, in Your word
Show me how to walk, in Your word
Show me how to talk, in Your word.
When I need a brand new song to sing,
Show me how to let Your praises ring, in Your word
Please order my steps in Your word.
Life's most persistent and urgent question is, "What are you doing for others?"
On the last day, Jesus will say to those on His right hand, "Come, enter the Kingdom. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was sick and you visited me." Then Jesus will turn to those on His left hand and say, "Depart from me because I was hungry and you did not feed me, I was thirsty and you did not give me to drink, I was sick and you did not visit me." These will ask Him, "When did we see You hungry, or thirsty or sick and did not come to Your help?" And Jesus will answer them, "Whatever you neglected to do unto one of these least of these, you neglected to do unto Me!"
The parable of the Sheep and the Goats, or the Last Judgment, (Matthew 25:31-46) expresses the charitable actions for the common good and basic human welfare reflected in the Lord's teachings on social justice. It also reminds me that Jesus Christ taught that man not only receives and experiences the mercy of God, but that he is also called to practice mercy toward others: "Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.(Matthew 5:7)”
The Holy Spirit inspires my commitment to feeding the hungry, giving drink to the thirsty, clothing the naked, sheltering the homeless, and visiting the sick and the imprisoned and my commitment defines my relationship with God. As His faithful servant on Earth, I am not only called to care for the less fortunate, but also to respect and care for the goods of His creation, intended for the whole human race. Each and every day, I try to live the Corporal Works of Mercy through selfless, compassionate acts in response to the needs of the poorest, most overlooked, forgotten and vulnerable members of society.
If I can cheer somebody with a word or song, then my living will not be in vain.
Look at what you have, not at what you haven't.
Don't underestimate the power of trusting others. It's true that not everyone is going to live up to your expectations, and, yes, you've been let down before and probably will again, but there are certain people in your life who are worthy of extra effort. But keep in mind that building a level of trust with those you truly care about is not something that happens overnight. You are likely to hit a few bumps along the way, so be patient.
I Shall Be Glad
by Grace Noll Crowell
If I can put new hope within the heart
Of one who has lost hope,
If I can help a brother up
Some difficult long slope
That seems too steep for tired feet to go,
If I can help him climb
Into the light upon the hill's far crest,
I shall begrudge no time
Or strength that I spend, for well I know
How great may be his need.
If I can help through any darkened hour,
I shall be glad indeed.
For I recall how often I have been
Distressed, distraught, dismayed,
And hands have reached to help, and voices called
That kept me unafraid.
If I can share this help that I have had,
God knows I shall be glad.
Ms Cromwell's poem reminds me that I need a helping hand at times in my life. The feeling of hopefulness sometimes comes from someone helping me. I can think back to a time when I had lost hope. Many times, I regained my optimism because someone gave me a helping hand.
No matter what challenges you face in life do not give up. If you find yourself stuck in a rut, ask someone to help you. What ever you do, do not lose your hope.
Some men see things as they are and say, "Why?" I dream things that never were and say, "Why not?"
As long as I have hope, I have direction, the energy to move, and the map to move by. I have a hundred alternatives, a thousand paths and infinity of dreams. Hopeful, I am halfway to where I want to go. Hopeless, I am lost forever.
Hope is the anticipation of an event or an occurrence. My own individual hopes are my own desires, or could be considered my wish for the future.
Hope can give me a feeling of optimism when I am feeling discouraged. As Diogenes once said, "Hope is the dream of a waking man."
Hope is one of the prime differences between successful people and those who can only see failure. Successful people have hope because they can clearly see their goals. People who only see failure have no hope because they see no light, they set no goals, and they see nothing accomplished.
Successful people see alternatives and are willing to try different ways. People who only see failure are unable to see another way and give up to easily.
With hope I am halfway to where I want to go; by setting my goals, and taking the action to achieve them, I will see my hope turn into your reality!
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
When Jesus commanded the rich young ruler to "love your neighbor as yourself" (Matthew 19:19), what did He mean by the words "as yourself"? And what did the apostle Paul mean when he repeated those words in Romans 13:9?
The statement by our Lord and by Paul is not a command to love ourselves more; it's a recognition that most of us already look after our own welfare in reasonable ways. That is, we love ourselves enough to feed and clothe ourselves, to keep a roof over our heads, and to avoid being cheated or injured. In practice, we should love our neighbor at least that much.
But there's more. In John 15:12, Jesus also commanded His disciples to love one another just as He had loved them. He used the Greek word agape, which signifies an active love that is unconditional, self-sacrificial, and for the good of others. This love is often more of a decision than an emotion. Author David Walls wrote, "We cannot command feelings, but we can command an active determination of our will."
Even when I don't feel love for someone, if I choose to show love--my feelings will usually follow. I'm taking the initiative to love my neighbor every day.
Reach out and touch
Somebody's hand
Make this world a better place
If you can
Reach out and touch
Somebody's hand
Make this world a better place
If you can
(just try)
Take a little time out of your busy day
To give encouragement
To someone who's lost the way
(just try)
Or would I be talking to a stone
If I asked you
To share a problem that's not your own
We can change things if we start giving
Why don't you
Reach out and touch
Somebody's hand
Make this world a better place
If you can
Reach out and touch
Somebody's hand
Make this world a better place
If you can
(just try)
If you see an old friend on the street
And he's down
Remember his shoes could fit your feet
(just try)
Try a little kindness you'll see
Its something that comes very naturally
We can change things if we start giving
Why don't you
Reach out and touch
Why don't you (why don't you)
Reach out and touch somebody's hand
Reach out and touch
Somebody's hand
Make this world a better place
If you can
Reach out and touch
Somebody's hand
Make this world a better place
If you can

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There comes a time in life when you have to let go of all the pointless drama, and the people who create it, and surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on the good. After all, life is too short to be anything but happy.I am an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and me more powerfully than most. My emotions are closer to the surface, and my feelings more obvious to me than is the case with most people. I've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for me, I greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with my emotions brings me.

Sure there are times when my feelings come very close to the surface, and life becomes more complicated. At these times I may grow self-conscious, or feel a bit anxious. But all in all, I much prefer being open with my emotions, breathing in all that life offers, than shutting down any part of my emotional experience. Granted, there may be times when these emotions are hard but I realize that is part of life. And more often than not I feel enriched by my emotions, by my ability to be open to all that life brings me. I know that even when I have those times that get me down, there will be even more times when I see life in ways that others just can't.

Look deep into my eyes, and you will see a reflection all that is good in humanity. I have a heart of gold, instilled with a deep intuition into the feelings of others. I understand people's loves and losses, and can become overwhelmed with the weight of the world. Yearning for the ideal, I can get lost in imagination and fantasy.
Because I struggle to live in a harsh reality, I can be a very determined (even selfish individual), yet I can turn around and give of myself so completely that you will feel sure I am really an angel. I love others with a selfless purity that demands that you give me the utmost respect.
If I seem confused, dreamy, sleepy or lazy, it is because I can't decide which way to go--should I tend to my own needs, or take care of someone else? If you're lucky, I'll find a way to do both at once. I'm truly blessed, because I can serve myself while helping others.

I am naturally spiritual, imaginative and artistic. Sometimes I need to find a quiet, peaceful place in which to hide. You can count on me to be your dearest friend and the most compassionate and caring of individuals.

It may be easy to look around our world today and see the appearance of chaos, difficulty and strife. Yet, when we come from an open heart, we can also see our opportunity to love all things into balance, joy, harmony and peace. This planet does not need more visions of desperation, fear, doubt and hate - it requires an abundance of love, especially unconditional love, to heal and restore the beauty contained in every moment. This becomes the easier path once we take the first step and begin to share our love.
When we bring unconditional love back into our personal, professional, community and family lives, we begin the journey of restoring wholeness and happiness to our planetary adventure. Of course it takes determined effort on our part as the old ways of being are quick to return in our mind. However, this effort to love is rewarded with a new perspective on everything and all life benefits as a result.

In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.

Smile and the world will smile back.
God willing, love and romance bring idealistic energy my way this year. I enjoy being in touch with the spiritual and mystical part of my nature, so you need a romance that encourages self-discovery, and intimacy that allows me and my lover to connect with each other's soul on a deep level.
My dreams will be ignited, if I attract someone who is willing to dream with me, and who loves and cherishes me for exactly who I am right now. I refuse to abandon my sense of self in a committed relationship, so it is crucial that my dreams and visions are supported in my love relationship. I am eager to further explore my commitment with a partner, and to truly understand the practicality of balancing our energies, and maintaining that equal energy. This will be a huge growing opportunity for me. Dramatic shifts in the way I relate to a devoted union are inevitable, as I submit to more practical ways of growing and sharing.

Hopefully, communication between me and my lover will become even more romantically satisfying. This will lead to an even deeper commitment -- marriage perhaps -- as romance becomes more about caring for each other and being sensitive to each other's needs.

I am true to my goals and beliefs. My natural simplicity makes me popular and loyal - once a friend, I'll be your friend for life. I can be stubborn, but I will give in for the sake of peace. I am happy to share what I have. Sensual and energetic, I am persuasive and perceptive. I see and remember everything.
I love the truth and will try to look at things from both sides in order to find it. I can't lie, and so it is not always easy to live with me -- I tell it like it is, every time. I am always trying to strike a balance between what is the right thing to do for myself and for others. But if you have lied to me once, I will not even consider your opinion again. I am full of wisdom and can discuss anything, since I have checked it all out before I speak. You can trust my knowledge -- I approach things scientifically, with everything being checked in detail. But because of my devotion to the truth above all else, I can be overly critical of others and turn away potential friends.

I will adore that lady who can help complete me -- a yin to my yang, that special person who can draw me out and gently bring me down to a safe place on Earth -- is a keeper. I also crave a comfort level, a certain sense of security which says "hey, you're okay" and helps me to relax and trust. If my lover can protect me from the harsh realities of life and keep me from retreating to the safety of a dream world, all the better. Loving creative play as I do, a partner who can feed my muse will insure a serendipitous journey for her and me.

I am caring and compassionate, a sensitive and intuitive soul who brings a starry-eyed quality to the "right" world. I can make playtime a lifetime of fun with the right person. Anyone primed for adventures into the unknown will find it here!

With the NEW year in full swing, I have a NEW sense of purpose. Having the drive to forge ahead with clear ideas of where I want to go will be the key to my success, right now. By process of elimination and by using some smart sense, I'll know which things in my life are working and which aren't. It's a time to be out with the old and in with the NEW. I am making way for the grace of God to transform my current situation and move me forward. There are many ways to let my "special" lady know I care: listening, talking and doing something without being asked. Are you a single woman? If so, I have very good news for you. My strengths in emotion and kindness set me apart from the other men.

Good relationships have a balance. The practical realities of daily romance are enhanced by the joy and spontaneity of continually falling in love with each other.

Realism can help a man to see that he is taking his partner for granted and is not being sensitive to her feelings. It can cause a queen to see that her critical comments are tearing down her king's self-respect.

Realism is not enough, however. Romance, often discarded after awhile, keeps a relationship from growing dull. Paul's words in Ephesians 5 encourage a love between two people that reflects Christ's self-sacrificing devotion to His church. In addition, it's a love filled with kindness and tenderness.

Christ can help me balance a relationship with realism and romance. If I keep drawing on His love, I will see what it can do for my "love" life.

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