There comes a time in life when you have to let go of all the pointless drama, and the people who create it, and surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on the good. After all, life is too short to be anything but happy.I am an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and me more powerfully than most. My emotions are closer to the surface, and my feelings more obvious to me than is the case with most people. I've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for me, I greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with my emotions brings me.
Sure there are times when my feelings come very close to the surface, and life becomes more complicated. At these times I may grow self-conscious, or feel a bit anxious. But all in all, I much prefer being open with my emotions, breathing in all that life offers, than shutting down any part of my emotional experience. Granted, there may be times when these emotions are hard but I realize that is part of life. And more often than not I feel enriched by my emotions, by my ability to be open to all that life brings me. I know that even when I have those times that get me down, there will be even more times when I see life in ways that others just can't.
Look deep into my eyes, and you will see a reflection all that is good in humanity. I have a heart of gold, instilled with a deep intuition into the feelings of others. I understand people's loves and losses, and can become overwhelmed with the weight of the world. Yearning for the ideal, I can get lost in imagination and fantasy.
Because I struggle to live in a harsh reality, I can be a very determined (even selfish individual), yet I can turn around and give of myself so completely that you will feel sure I am really an angel. I love others with a selfless purity that demands that you give me the utmost respect.
If I seem confused, dreamy, sleepy or lazy, it is because I can't decide which way to go--should I tend to my own needs, or take care of someone else? If you're lucky, I'll find a way to do both at once. I'm truly blessed, because I can serve myself while helping others.
I am naturally spiritual, imaginative and artistic. Sometimes I need to find a quiet, peaceful place in which to hide. You can count on me to be your dearest friend and the most compassionate and caring of individuals.
It may be easy to look around our world today and see the appearance of chaos, difficulty and strife. Yet, when we come from an open heart, we can also see our opportunity to love all things into balance, joy, harmony and peace. This planet does not need more visions of desperation, fear, doubt and hate - it requires an abundance of love, especially unconditional love, to heal and restore the beauty contained in every moment. This becomes the easier path once we take the first step and begin to share our love.
When we bring unconditional love back into our personal, professional, community and family lives, we begin the journey of restoring wholeness and happiness to our planetary adventure. Of course it takes determined effort on our part as the old ways of being are quick to return in our mind. However, this effort to love is rewarded with a new perspective on everything and all life benefits as a result.
In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
Smile and the world will smile back.
God willing, love and romance bring idealistic energy my way this year. I enjoy being in touch with the spiritual and mystical part of my nature, so you need a romance that encourages self-discovery, and intimacy that allows me and my lover to connect with each other's soul on a deep level.
My dreams will be ignited, if I attract someone who is willing to dream with me, and who loves and cherishes me for exactly who I am right now. I refuse to abandon my sense of self in a committed relationship, so it is crucial that my dreams and visions are supported in my love relationship. I am eager to further explore my commitment with a partner, and to truly understand the practicality of balancing our energies, and maintaining that equal energy. This will be a huge growing opportunity for me. Dramatic shifts in the way I relate to a devoted union are inevitable, as I submit to more practical ways of growing and sharing.
Hopefully, communication between me and my lover will become even more romantically satisfying. This will lead to an even deeper commitment -- marriage perhaps -- as romance becomes more about caring for each other and being sensitive to each other's needs.
I am true to my goals and beliefs. My natural simplicity makes me popular and loyal - once a friend, I'll be your friend for life. I can be stubborn, but I will give in for the sake of peace. I am happy to share what I have. Sensual and energetic, I am persuasive and perceptive. I see and remember everything.
I love the truth and will try to look at things from both sides in order to find it. I can't lie, and so it is not always easy to live with me -- I tell it like it is, every time. I am always trying to strike a balance between what is the right thing to do for myself and for others. But if you have lied to me once, I will not even consider your opinion again. I am full of wisdom and can discuss anything, since I have checked it all out before I speak. You can trust my knowledge -- I approach things scientifically, with everything being checked in detail. But because of my devotion to the truth above all else, I can be overly critical of others and turn away potential friends.
I am caring and compassionate, a sensitive and intuitive soul who brings a starry-eyed quality to the "right" world. I can make playtime a lifetime of fun with the right person. Anyone primed for adventures into the unknown will find it here!
With the NEW year in full swing, I have a NEW sense of purpose. Having the drive to forge ahead with clear ideas of where I want to go will be the key to my success, right now. By process of elimination and by using some smart sense, I'll know which things in my life are working and which aren't. It's a time to be out with the old and in with the NEW. I am making way for the grace of God to transform my current situation and move me forward. There are many ways to let my "special" lady know I care: listening, talking and doing something without being asked. Are you a single woman? If so, I have very good news for you. My strengths in emotion and kindness set me apart from the other men.Good relationships have a balance. The practical realities of daily romance are enhanced by the joy and spontaneity of continually falling in love with each other.
Realism can help a man to see that he is taking his partner for granted and is not being sensitive to her feelings. It can cause a queen to see that her critical comments are tearing down her king's self-respect.
Realism is not enough, however. Romance, often discarded after awhile, keeps a relationship from growing dull. Paul's words in Ephesians 5 encourage a love between two people that reflects Christ's self-sacrificing devotion to His church. In addition, it's a love filled with kindness and tenderness.
Christ can help me balance a relationship with realism and romance. If I keep drawing on His love, I will see what it can do for my "love" life.