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tampham

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About Me

all i know how to be is myself. i like to watch things and people.....not really observe them.......just being in the moment. i love life. i am constantly learning. i accept. i respect. i'm a firm believer in the phrases *everything happens for a reason* and *everything works out in the end*. i try to be a person that i can be proud of. three phrases i believe will never capture my sincerity and the depth of my feelings: *i'm sorry* *thank you* *i love you*. i really can't describe myself......you just have to have enough patience and time to get to know me. actually, consistently inconsistent but ALWAYS PASSIONATE describes me pretty darn well! :)051409 i'm finally taking care of myself instead of taking care of someone else. it feels GREAT! i'm a caregiver. but at this point, i'm tired of doing it. but i don't think i'd be able to let someone take care of me. he shouldn't have to. ideally, we should take care of ourselves first, then eachother. but there is no "we". there's only a me. and i'm loving it! i'm loving ME!!!! if that sounds self-centered to you, then you don't quite love yourself yet. that's right, i don't give a shit about you. whoa! my mood is ALL OVER the place!!!! yikes! i should stop before i start.random acts of kindness. practice it.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

all types of people!!!!..........except the stupid ones :D

My Blog

sincerely, me

a few words is all it takesnot a novelnot the detailsnothing moreknow the speakerlisten to their wordsfeel their intentsuch deep feelingssuch sincere emotionssuch meaning lost in translationi love you...
Posted by on Tue, 28 Apr 2009 13:23:00 GMT

killing time before a long climb

"i need a boyfriend"no you don’t. you need to learn to be independent and happy on your own before you get one. just by saying that, it shows that you lack the qualities to be a good girlfrien...
Posted by on Mon, 17 Mar 2008 10:46:00 GMT

yet listless

many eventsmany emotionsthrough it all, i KNEW it was going to be okaythat’s what faith does to you :)lonelyrelievedrefreshedwishfullistless....good wordnew yorknew hampshirevirginiahawaiisan fr...
Posted by on Sun, 16 Mar 2008 21:16:00 GMT

like those, but im me

smile like bri when i'm mad witty as ursula talented like my hang independent like nam a hard worker like linh more.........sweet, lady-like, tolerant, submissive, agreeable, attractive........and oh ...
Posted by on Sun, 13 Jan 2008 21:25:00 GMT

you, i miss

smile for me comfort me hang out with me come back to me jw. dr. ut. np.   i cannot say a word.  i give more than i expect back.  i talk.  i am silent.   ~ i smile ~   i ...
Posted by on Sat, 12 Jan 2008 17:51:00 GMT

if i don’t let some out, i’ll just overflow

mmmmm gorgeous!!! LOVE watching the rain....the hard stuff. none of that weak drizzle maybe not for a very long time...... they make me happy :D i need singing time ; ) i got it.  well.....L...
Posted by on Sat, 08 Dec 2007 15:45:00 GMT

pretty damn good!!!!! :)

i am finally happy again.  this is how i'm supposed to be......naturally happy.  and it feels WONDERFUL :) you don't realize something is a burden until it's gone.  i LOVE my life. ...
Posted by on Sat, 18 Aug 2007 10:55:00 GMT

after one of the most perfect days in my life......

i haven't written in a while.  and of course, this isn't a very happy one.what ever happened to that happy girl?  always smiling, didn't care too much about much?  she grew up.  bu...
Posted by on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 14:41:00 GMT

very true

there's nothing i can say about the following two links......i can only watch in amazement and see the truth in the messages.  i love these slideshows :) http://parentswish.com http://www.si...
Posted by on Tue, 10 Jul 2007 23:42:00 GMT

of no importance

i can't help but to always think that i'm not missed
Posted by on Tue, 26 Jun 2007 00:50:00 GMT