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Intensity J

blessed to be exactly where i'm at

About Me

i am one of the most compassionate people you will ever meet in life, but i can also be your worst nightmare if you cross me. My purpose in life is to make an impact in the lives of as many children as i can, in a positive way of course. Few people are allowed into my personal space, as i can be picky about the company i keep. Three of them are mentioned below :-) The support of an honest and true friend can be compared to nothing, and i am blessed to have the ones that i do.Dee... 13yrs in the making and we have built a friendship that has seen it all. im proud of the woman you have become and thank you for being my biggest strength and support through all these years!! you know we can still cut up and act a fool and i dont see that changing!!J... i love what we share and the ways that we are connected. i am thankful to be able to learn, grow and build with you, even if its from a distance at his point in time. you are my everday and i wouldnt trade this for the world.
Nit... thank you for extending your kindness this direction girl. You are a wonderful friend whose antics rival those of the best (Dee & i) i'm proud to be a member of "The Committee" and i look forward to all that having a silly friend like you will bring.
I love my job and all the memorable moments that have come with it.
...... i love my family and friends. i am secure in my ability to learn/change/grow with each new chapter in this book called life. i'm a thinker with a compassionate soul; that can be both good and bad, but it's me and i embrace it.
I LOVE ⇑⇑⇑ this guy ;-)

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Any interesting people that I can learn something from.....

Music:

I have to list the following people as some of my all time favorite artists... Erykah Badu, Mary J, Lauryn Hill, Raheem Devaughn, Little Brother, John Legend, Sade, Anthony Hamilton, Common, Mos, Talib, Donnell Jones, Leela James, Deitrick Haddon, Avant

Movies:

Rebound: The Legend of Earl Manigault, Friday, Raising Victor Vargas, Lost in Translation, Born into Brothels, The Constant Gardener, Scenes from a Marriage, American History X, Hotel Rwanda, Their Eyes Were Watching God, A Lesson Before Dying, Something the Lord Made**I LOVE DON CHEADLE**

Television:

i don't watch too much tv.... but if I had to choose I would say Court TV, CSI, TLC, Discovery Channels...and Jeopardy (but only during teen week when i can actually get some answers right and when my friend Pierre is around!!) in general i like shows that i can learn from a bit oh and football when its in season!! (thank you baby for teachin me more about the game)

Books:

The Bible, Religion Explained , The Color of Water, Angels and Demons, The True Believer,Purpose Driven Life, A Lesson Before Dying, The Da Vinci Code, Courage to Heal, Memoirs of a Geisha, Get Your Own Damn Beer...

Heroes:

The children who carry on and grow into survivors instead of victims

My Blog

take me as i am.....

i really wish that more people knew that its ok to embrace who you are... and that accepting yourself and knowing your flaws doesnt mean you cant grow beyond the person you were yesterday or see in th...
Posted by Intensity J on Sun, 17 Sep 2006 09:09:00 PST

decisions.....decisions.....

just the other day someone close to me made a statement that has stuck with me since the words left their lips. i suppose you could call it advice..... visually and verbally it's one sentence.... appl...
Posted by Intensity J on Fri, 11 Aug 2006 04:57:00 PST

Boys of Baraka....

i just finished watching one of the most realistic and profound documentaries i have ever seen. i know some of you may not be into movies with real content but for those of you that are i need you to ...
Posted by Intensity J on Thu, 27 Jul 2006 08:39:00 PST

HOME SWEET HOME....

yeah so the new layout.... i know all my texas people dont have a clue what it means...sorry ...this one is for my illinois rootson the phone with my best friend of the last 13yrs (who is also from j...
Posted by Intensity J on Mon, 10 Jul 2006 09:37:00 PST

back in the day....

so ummm yeah im feeling like a shorty again people!!... today i went to six flags with my guy J....we didnt have a scheduled time to keep or an agenda other than to have fun, werent paying attention t...
Posted by Intensity J on Tue, 13 Jun 2006 07:37:00 PST

are you paying attention???

when you see a woman working her 9-5, always composed and focused.... can you see she she is the fortress holding her family together?when a man you dont know stops to hold the door for you or helps y...
Posted by Intensity J on Wed, 31 May 2006 07:59:00 PST

Roo....and friendship through my eyes....

i am convinced that you are one of the greatest blessings that has ever come into my world. i thank you for your ability to listen and answer honestly when i need to hear it (even when i dont want to!...
Posted by Intensity J on Sat, 22 Apr 2006 08:15:00 PST

My question to you :

time for another round..... at this present moment i am feeling good. you know that feeling you get when you have resolved to release whatever was troubling your mind. life is complex, and is not ...
Posted by Intensity J on Mon, 23 Jan 2006 03:20:00 PST

Serve Your Generation.....

Serve Your Generation...... simply stated..... easily accomplished.... yet very often overlooked by people of every age. this statement can mean that you pass on your experiences to a child so th...
Posted by Intensity J on Mon, 16 Jan 2006 09:49:00 PST