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About Me

Well this is it! The book, "Absolutely Should-less: The Secret to Living the Stress-Free Life You Deserve" has been unleashed, and you all now have access to my personal and professional stories. The successes, the embarrassments, and parts from my past I'd rather forget are all out there now for your education and probable amusement. I thank all the wonderful MySpace friends who have been so positive and supportive during this process.The book is available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Tower.com, and pretty much any internet site that sells books.Please visit my new website at Shouldless.com for more information, tidbits, and exchanges about should-less living.

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People interested in challenging their thoughts to have an easier day.

My Blog

Best Recession Ever Tip No. 2

Make a Budget and Stick To It! Sure, none of us want to do this. In ideal economy, none of us would need to count pennies. But given this is not an ideal economy, you now have a choice: adjust, or suf...
Posted by on Fri, 30 Jan 2009 22:54:00 GMT

Best Recession Ever Tip No. 1

#1 Lose the "Should" about your money...at least for now.This may sound like a radical and weird concept. But if you have beenĀ  reading this blog, or reading my book Absolutely Should-less you k...
Posted by on Mon, 26 Jan 2009 21:44:00 GMT

Should-less Recession Tips

Okay everyone, it's officially here.The stock market is crashing, real estate is falling, giant stores are closing, and (gasp!) Deidre Hall is out of work. This means one thing and one thing only:Fort...
Posted by on Sun, 25 Jan 2009 19:50:00 GMT

Feast of Miracles

Today you've witnessed miracles take place in the White House. Now it's time to clean up your own house. There are no excuses anymore. "I can't do it" is just not going to wash under an Obama presi...
Posted by on Tue, 20 Jan 2009 13:20:00 GMT

Presidential Shoulds

I needed to take a day to honor a model for should-less living. Has there ever been a clearer example of what life can offer when you cut the "shoulds" out of your hopes and goals? Imagine the messa...
Posted by on Tue, 20 Jan 2009 00:24:00 GMT

Should-less Porno Bingo

If you're in the New York area, please come visit me and superstar Will Clarkfor his weekly round of Porno Bingo at Pieces Bar (8 ChristopherStreet) from 8pm - 10pm. All proceeds will benefit the Me...
Posted by on Tue, 13 Jan 2009 20:54:00 GMT

Insomniac Shoulds

Do you ever have nights you just don't get that sleep? Ever wake up in the morning feeling angry about not getting decent rest the night before? Does it ever feel like you "should" be able to slee...
Posted by on Sun, 11 Jan 2009 13:05:00 GMT

The Petting Zoo Show in New York!

I am so excited about this show on Sunday, January 11th. I will definitely be there and hope that everyone in the New York area checks this out:WHEN: Sunday, January 11th at 7pm for only $5!WHERE: Arl...
Posted by on Sat, 03 Jan 2009 03:06:00 GMT

New Years Shoulds

Welcome to a Should-less 2009! It's the beginning of a new calendar year, and for many this means a new army of "shoulds" are marching in (ie, "I should lose weight," "I should quit smoking," "I shoul...
Posted by on Fri, 02 Jan 2009 08:07:00 GMT

Sprained Shoulds

So I recently missed a stair and sprained my ankle. That, in and of itself, is enough to cause a fair amount of pain. However, my crazy mind went wild with "shoulds" that caused far more suffering. Ju...
Posted by on Tue, 30 Dec 2008 01:53:00 GMT